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    The Buddha’s Eight Part Recipe for Happiness | DaRa Williams

    enMay 03, 2023
    What are the two components of the Eightfold Path?
    How does the Eightfold Path relate to reducing suffering?
    What are the Brahma viharas mentioned in the text?
    What role does meditation play in cultivating equanimity?
    Why is being present important in the Eightfold Path?

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding the Eightfold Path in Buddhism and DharmaThe Eightfold Path is a recipe for doing life better, with the first two components being right view and right thinking. Master meditation teachers guide us towards intuition, clear seeing, openness, and non-attachment. It's simple yet profound.

      The Eightfold Path is a foundational component of Buddhism and Dharma, and a way towards liberation and freedom. It's an eight part recipe for doing life better, often divided into three buckets. The first two components of the Eightfold Path are right view and right thinking, which form the soil for the whole path. Master meditation teachers are going to walk us through each of these three buckets. Dara Williams, a graduate of the Spirit Rock Insight Meditation Society Teacher Training Program and a guiding teacher at the Insight Meditation Society, talks about intuition, clear seeing and openness, and fostering non-attachment to the results of our endeavors. The eightfold path is on the one hand, simple, but on the other hand, quite deep.

    • The Eightfold Path: A recipe for a happier lifeThe Eightfold Path provides guidance on wise thinking, ethical behavior, meditation and mindfulness for anyone seeking freedom from pain and suffering, regardless of their beliefs.

      The eightfold path is a set of guidelines that can lead to liberation and a happier life. It comprises three baskets, with the first two focusing on wise understanding and thinking, the second emphasizing ethics, speech, and action, and the third on meditation, concentration, and mindfulness. The first basket, like soil for a healthy plant, sets the premise for everything that follows. The eightfold path is not just for Buddhist practitioners but relevant to all who deal with pain and suffering in their lives. Liberation does not necessarily mean realization of nirvana, but freedom from pain and suffering. The eightfold path is a recipe for a better life, regardless of one's belief systems.

    • Introduction to the First Two Steps of the Eight-Fold Path in Buddhism.The foundation of the eight-fold path is built upon skillful understanding and thinking, which are crucial in cultivating a fruitful mindset. Acknowledging the inevitability of thinking and the understanding of suffering as an inevitable part of life are essential in practicing Buddhism, and it serves as a compass direction for the other steps to take.

      The first two steps in the eight-fold path, which are skillful understanding or wise understanding and skillful thinking or wise thinking, are foundational in cultivating the mind to have more useful, non-harmful, skillful, and wise thoughts while acknowledging the inevitability of thinking. The understanding of the first three noble truths, that suffering is inevitable, is crucial in moving towards practicing Buddhism and bringing it into one's own life. The eight-fold path is a guidebook for doing life better, and it is essential to have clear understanding and wise view about conditions of mind and heart. These two beginning aspects of the eight-fold path serve as a compass direction for the other steps to take. The culturally conditioned view of the world that accumulating stuff is the way to get happy is a recipe for suffering.

    • The Dynamic Nature of the Eightfold Path.The eightfold path is not a one-time accomplishment, but a living path that requires ongoing self-investigation and balancing. Equanimity is key to bring understanding to the path. It is a kaleidoscope of different practices that bring one's view into alignment. Applying the path to live in accordance with one's livelihood can greatly reduce stress and suffering. Simple awareness can transform initial reactive responses while driving and in speech.

      The eightfold path is not a checklist or a one-time accomplishment, but a living path that requires ongoing self-investigation and balancing. Equanimity is a major organizing principle for bringing understanding to the path, and understanding that suffering is inescapable is the first step. The path is like a kaleidoscope, with different practices bringing one's view into alignment. While there are challenges in applying the path to everyday life, living it in alignment with one's livelihood can greatly reduce stress and suffering. Driving and speech are areas where one can work to apply the path, and the initial reactive response can be transformed with practice and awareness.

    • Developing equanimity towards negative emotions through DOMA.Mindfulness practice allows for catching negative emotions and creating new, more productive perspectives towards them, leading to increased creativity and productivity.

      Applying equanimity and balance to the eight-fold path can help in controlling anger, fear, and other negative emotions. By being present in the moment, catching oneself in the midst of negative emotions, and having a different relationship with them, one can avoid getting drained and drowning in negative thoughts. It's not about squelching the emotions or thoughts, but having a different perspective towards them. This can help in being more creative and productive instead of being stuck in negative thoughts and emotions. Having a different perspective towards negative emotions can be developed by practicing DOMA and applying it in daily life.

    • Cultivating Qualities for Wise UnderstandingTo attain wise thoughts and understanding, cultivate qualities of openness, intuition, clear seeing, and Brahma vihara. Develop intuitive sense through meditation, take care of the body, and strengthen compassionate qualities for deeper insights and joy.

      Openness, intuition, and clear seeing are important qualities to cultivate when working towards wise thought and understanding. Developing intuition can be done through meditative practice and connecting with the felt sense in the body. Taking care of the body through getting enough sleep and staying hydrated can also support this process. In addition to these qualities, cultivating the Brahma vihara can further support wise understanding. These include loving kindness, compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity. By developing these qualities, we can enhance our capacity to see things clearly, navigate suffering, and take delight in the joy of others.

    • Cultivating mental equanimity through meditation and wise thought.Practicing the Brahma viharas and the gradual process of renunciation can improve intuition and self-awareness, leading to more peace by changing habituated patterns.

      Equanimity is a powerful mental skill that can be cultivated through meditation. It is the ability to stay balanced and centered in the face of both joyful and difficult situations. Practicing the Brahma viharas, which are friendliness, compassion, empathetic joy, and equanimity, can improve intuition and self-awareness. Wise thought can be cultivated through the practice of renunciation, which is a gradual process of letting go of addiction and habituated patterns. Practicing the wisdom of saying 'no' can lead to changing these patterns and ultimately to more peace. Cultivating wise thought involves understanding the three aspects of renunciation, developing wise intention, and practicing mindfulness.

    • The path to peace and reduced suffering through wise thought and compassionate practices.Letting go, cultivating wise thought, and practicing loving kindness and compassion can build capacity and reduce suffering. Create conditions that support not suffering, be present, and offer understanding and compassion to others.

      Letting go completely can lead to complete peace as it ends struggles with the world. Cultivating wise thought through renunciation, love, and kindness, and compassion can lead to skillful thoughts which reduce suffering. The eightfold path does not require perfection and these practices can build capacity and reduce suffering. Being present and satisfied with where we are at any given moment is important and creating conditions of time, rest, wellbeing, and habits that support not suffering can be a useful practice. Relaxing and being kind to people while helping them is important in cultivating loving kindness. Having understanding and compassion towards the suffering of human beings is important and it is the antidote for cruelty.

    • Developing Heart Practices Through MeditationBy practicing loving kindness and compassion towards ourselves and all beings, we can reduce bias, increase friendliness, and become less judgmental, leading to greater connections with others and less suffering.

      Developing heart practices like loving kindness and compassion through meditation can reduce bias, increase friendliness towards oneself and others, and lead to less suffering. These practices are like training for the mind and heart, building capacities that can have a positive impact on our thinking. Although it may feel forced or saccharin for beginners and skeptics, the benefits become evident over time. By practicing loving kindness towards ourselves, easy people, neutral people, difficult people, and all beings, we can become less judgmental and more tuned in to our own and others' suffering. This can lead to greater connections with others, even in simple interactions like complimenting someone on their hair color. Developing heart practices is a way to bring about conditions that cause less suffering in ourselves and the world.

    • The Power of Small Acts of Kindness and ConnectionPracticing love, kindness, and compassion can increase our happiness and improve our relationships with others. By reframing renunciation as non-attachment to outcomes, cultivating generosity and appreciation, and investigating our beliefs, we can reduce suffering and find peace.

      Small acts of kindness and connection with others can add significant happiness to our lives, according to research. Practicing love, kindness, and compassion can make us more likely to see people we might otherwise ignore, which is beneficial for both ourselves and others. Renunciation can be reframed as non-attachment to outcomes instead of people or material possessions. By cultivating generosity, appreciation, and wellbeing, we can begin to practice renunciation skillfully and reduce the suffering caused by addiction to the need for good things. Investigating our beliefs and understanding of renunciation can help us determine if they need to be deconstructed or let go, leading to complete peace.

    • Letting go, relaxing, and being authentic: Keys to deeper love and spiritual growth.By letting go of attachment to outcomes, relaxing, and being authentic, we can cultivate deeper levels of love and spiritual growth. Being transparent and having a sense of humor can also help us in our spiritual practices.

      Letting go of attachment to outcomes and impermanence can support deeper levels of love, appreciation, and generosity, without not caring or giving a shit. The conditions that support wellbeing and the access to energy for engaging in spiritual practices include lightening up, relaxing, and paying attention to what's happening in the moment. The great spiritual practitioners, meditators, and teachers have a sense of humor and don't take themselves too seriously, as sitting and looking at the mind for hours can eventually lead to laughter. Being transparent and authentic about being human is a valuable tool for learning and growth.

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    Jennifer Senior On: Grief, Happiness, Friendship Breakups, and Why We Feel Younger Than Our Actual Age

    Jennifer Senior On: Grief, Happiness, Friendship Breakups, and Why We Feel Younger Than Our Actual Age

    It’s likely uncontroversial to assert that Jennifer Senior is one of our finest living journalists. She’s currently a staff writer at The Atlantic and before that she spent many years at the New York Times and New York magazine. Jennifer’s written on a vast array of topics, but she has a special knack for writing articles about the human condition that go massively, massively, viral. One such hit was a lengthy and extremely moving piece for The Atlantic that won a Pulitzer Prize. It was about a young man who died on 9/11, and the wildly varying ways in which his loved ones experienced grief. That article, called “What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind,” has now been turned into a book called, On Grief: Love, Loss, Memory.


    In this interview, we spend a lot of time talking about this truly fascinating yarn, but we also talk about her other articles: one about an eminent happiness researcher who died by suicide, another about why friendships often break up, and a truly delightful recent piece about the puzzling gap between how old we are and how old we think we are. Jennifer has also written a book about parenting, called All Joy and No Fun which we also reference a few times throughout.


    In this episode we talk about:

    • Jennifer’s perspective on the Bobby McIlvaine story 
    • Lesser known theories of grieving from Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
    • The work involved in finding meaning in loss
    • Why – from an evolutionary standpoint – we hurt so badly when we lose someone we love
    • Commitment and sacrifice
    • The puzzling gap between how old you are and how old you think you are
    • The power and perils of friendship
    • Why Jennifer has chosen to focus so much of her writing on relationships


    Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/jennifer-senior-583

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