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Today, I got my kid here. Me or her? Oh, I know. Which one? Who's who? Which one? Well, I could tell. I got a million views on that video. Viral. Crazy. But what's crazy to me is that, first of all, Bailey, welcome. Hi. Sorry. Jump right in. What's crazy to me is that people cannot tell you, Haley, and Mimi apart. It's the craziest thing ever, right? It's so weird to me.

First of all, Mimi is a 30-year-old woman with fucking bright orange hair and black hair and tattoos everywhere. You don't have one fucking tattoo on you. You are 16. You know what I'm saying? My favorite comment was they said she's the blank version of me. And I was like, that's so real. No, for real, for real. You know who looks like you and Gracie look like twins. Yeah, you and Gracie. Now you both have black hair. Gracie, Taja. Yeah. Yes. Dude. That was weird. Crazy, right? Crazy. I saw you. And I looked here and I was like, oh, my God.

Yeah, you guys are like doppelgangers. There's a couple of times I saw Gracie at the wedding yesterday and I was like, like even daddy was like, dude, her and Bailey looks so much alike. Like it was wild. But then yeah, the Haley, like Haley is just has curly, curly fucking hair does not you guys, none of you guys are like really here brown girl. None of you guys look like it's kind of like when people are just like compare me to other blondes.

It's like, yeah, he looked like Buddy XO, and it's like, we don't even look alike at all, and it's like, yeah. It's like everyone who's plus-sized. Literally. Literally. He looks like him. Literally. My bad. But yeah, anytime there's a plus-sized dude, they're like, you look like this guy. He's like, what? Because we're both fat. Like, huh?

Dude bugga love got married yesterday, bro. Oh my god beautiful the whole day The wedding was so gorgeous. I haven't even is she home yet? I haven't even got to tell her. She's not even home yet How proud of her I am she's probably fucking hung over

Oh, for sure. Yeah. She was lit last night. Yeah. It was she started to drink. She was lit lit. Good. She was even making her centerpieces still and finishing them like while we were getting ready. Oh my gosh. Yeah. In the bridal suite. It was the only thing I'd let her do all day. Yeah. She was very upset about it. Oh, I just can't believe she pulled that whole wedding together. Like she did so good. And you helped so much too, baby. I do what I can, but she killed it. What was the last time we had her on the pod last year?

Yeah, I feel like we have on your daily. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. How are you doing? You're good. Better space since that part. Yeah. Honestly, really. I'm Jillian. I'm old. You're not old. Why don't you tell people what you just did to your fucking arm? Oh, bro. Look at that bruise. Did we see this timing? You seen this timing? Why is it not? Why is it not wrapped right now? What are we going to talk about?

I only have one arm, okay, I can't wrap it. Why did you unwrap it? I had to shower. I have to wash it. Oh, God, talk about it. You got it brought it here and I went home to the stitches. Archery that did that. I was like, bro, you're giving it up. You're never doing it again. You're not doing it again. I don't know how she did it, man, but it was crazy. I was opening my Halloween costume the other night and my knife got stuck on like a zip tie.

So it got notch in it. So I pulled it really quick. And you know when you think you have more tension in your arm than you do? Well, I didn't. So I called back and it just sits open. And the knives we had in our kitchen are so sharp. It's crazy. It's disgusting. Yeah. I'd scary how sharp these knives are. We got them off Amazon. I had to clean a lemon earlier. They're so sharp.

It's crazy. But the first seven or so minutes, I was in total shock. So I didn't feel it. I didn't know what to do. I just basically turned a kid in my own arm and then went to run it underwater. And when I went to run it underwater, I let my arm go. And I just saw it shoot. I was like, oh, listen, hold on. It gets worse. You ready? When I wiggled my fingers, I could see the tendons. When I flexed, when I was flexing, I could see the muscle moving. I could feel and hear the blood pulsating. It was, guys, I couldn't straight through a nerve.

When her and fucking, it was rough. I barely have function in this arm right now. Kayla texts me and she's like, are you awake? And I'm like, yeah, she's like the kid just sliced her arm open. So I'm thinking like, you know, we love Bailey, but she is sometimes a drama queen. So I didn't know what to expect, you know?

And when I saw the look on Bailey's face and Kayla's face and I looked at her arm, like I didn't want to freak out, but I was just like, you're okay, you're gonna be good. Like when Kayla broke her ankle, I'm like, you're fine, you're gonna be fine, don't worry about it. You're fine? Yeah. At that point, I literally hadn't freaked out until you were really good at covering it up, but I saw your face chain for this.

Split a second. It went, okay. And I was like, then I lost it. I really, it was like 12 minutes at that point. I was covered in blood, everything was bleeding. It was like, terra para three in my room. Like I, like poor Blake had to clean up all the blood upstairs. Oh my God. No, it was riles, puddles. So 11 stitches later. 11 stitches later. Fucking a.

You're a fucking soldier kid. I've never had stitches. Has the house learned not to open things with knives? We do it all the time. I know. That's why. I was like, have we learned our lesson? No, I was very proud that I saw scissors in your house for the first time. Where? Where? Oh, I thought you got them. They were in your. I was so proud of you. What is the difference between scissors or knives, though? Like, really?

You could still cut yourself open with scissors too. You can, but I think it takes a lot more effort to do that. Like you're not just going to light your face themselves. I don't know. It's much more. There's some more depth. Yeah. I feel like I thought they were your scissors. I feel like Zorro, you know, just more. They might have been my scissors. You know, Zorro. Yeah, they were like, um, like the ones you cut fabric with. Oh, no, that's wrong. No, those are, that's the husband and Kayla's or Kayla's. Yeah. I don't think I've been sewing something for the wedding or never mind. Yeah.

So last time you're on the podcast was really deep podcast. I thought maybe, you know, I would love for people to get to know just you. Yeah, I feel like you're known for like your trauma and that you're so much more than that. After the video that we posted went viral, their e-news made posted a video on TikTok. I don't know if y'all have seen this yet, but it's a five minute long TikTok and it's it's titled it's um,

the terrible truth about Bailey Anne. No, it wasn't Enos. It's some weird frickin', that's been up. It was before that you guys post up. And then Enos posted something too, it was crazy. I've commented on it because it's- Oh my God, is this true? No, this is crazy, you guys. It's such misinformation, and I get so mad when they talk about you. It's such an out-of-context, dramatic storytelling. One, you're underage, and two, it's like if you're gonna talk about an underage child, first of all, they don't do that with very many kids.

And yeah, for them to think that it's okay to do that to you is weird to me and I already get weirded out by that Just like that one time that girl posted where you were working at like oh my god Like my mom I was part of it. I found it. Yeah, we all put in the group chat Why is this online? Yeah, and I understand from her point of view And she was very sweet when I was like this should not be online and she's like I'll take it down right now And I mean it was going viral, but it was like, you know

The safety of your children is what matters when you have social media. And to see you get blasted on there for things that aren't even true, like that just fucking irritates me beyond in. But I've gotten so much better with the internet now. Like when people say things, I don't even fucking care anymore. I'm just like, I'm very proud of. It took a very long time for you to do that. I'll just put cap or like something like that. But like it doesn't affect me like it used to. I used to get like really pissed off. You were ready to go to war. Yeah.

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Yeah. So I don't want people to know you as just this poor child who has been through some shit. I wanted to have a fun podcast with you today. So we had a bunch of Patreons right in and we got about 200 questions and we're going to be able to answer all of them. Yeah. But I figured, you know, we'll just do a Q and A with Bay. Q and A with Bay. I love it. Yeah. All right. So we're going to start this off Bailey.

Do you get an allowance? I do not because I so that so yes, I do not get an allowance period. That's the answer to that question. The context before she fixes her face is I don't really well A, I was working. So I there was no point in an allowance, but B,

It's like a do something, get something type routine, and I do the bare minimum, if that. Thank you, okay. Because we've had short notes. So listen, I tried to work out an allowance with you. Yes, and that's true. But the answer to that question is no, I don't, and it's via choice.

Okay, perfect. I love that. Good answer, child. I love. I don't have time to do all of that. Got my own stuff going on. Listen, this kid does not like do it. I am in five college classes as a junior in high school. I'm a little busy. But you know what I do love is that you will clean up the kitchen. Yeah, I will. And I took years. Yeah, I don't want to. It's I mean, it's not a big deal, but it's just, yeah, like a room as long as a big deal is not made out of it.

What does your room look like right now? That's not a Q&A question. I'm sorry. I mean, I want to know. It was on the list. Inquiring minds want to know. How does your room look? No comments. Like an unorganized 16 year old's wood. Just clothes. It's almost like there's not being any food in there. No, it's just clothes all of the time. And bottles of water.

Oh, because I never finished one. She can't say anything about that. I got three. I took a left over a second ago. Listen. I throw them away. Sometimes they build up in my room, but I do throw them away. Sometimes. Sweet Miss Bailey, what is it like going to school with a famous parent? Is it hard to make friends and trust people because of who your parents are?

Uh, yeah, no. For, I think for like the school thing, everybody kind of doesn't care anymore. Yeah. Cause we're all kind of used to it. He does like, he's come to football games and he, whatever. So I think everybody's kind of over that. Oh my God. And also people are kind of just, no, not to fuck with me. Yeah. I'm just not the one. So.

It's pretty easy. Other than that, making new friendships is hard, but I just don't do that anymore. Yeah. I have my chosen view. Yeah. Other than that, everybody else. I'm good. Yeah. Yeah. I like it. It's not too complicated. I like it a lot. I get a lot. What are your plans after high school have you thought about pursuing a music career like your dad? So I want to go to Columbia for law.

in New York, which Columbia is in New York, guys. I didn't know that. Guys, hey, Columbia is in New York. Didn't know that. Did you know that? Did you know that? No, I was sitting here trying to figure out where it was. Thank you. Thank you. Because I was like, when she said that, I was like, wait, you want to go to school in Tennessee? And she's like, no. No, that's Columbia, the community's at college. It is a great school.

You went for Tennessee. I went straight for the country. That's also what I thought. That's why when I looked at you, I said, this is not South America. Columbia is in New York. So yeah, NYU is in Northern Manhattan and Columbia is in Southern Manhattan. But that's where I want to go and I want to study law. As for music, I don't have any plans for it right now. I don't know if I ever get to law for medical.

So, well Columbia actually has both. So if you ever like started going and didn't want to do the law thing, you can switch right over to. Yeah, exactly. So I have a lot of options at Columbia. But as for going from med to law, the real decision was made in the ER the other night.

I've been decided I don't want to do that for the rest of my leg. Nope But before that I already started thinking about law just cuz I don't What in law a criminal defense? Oh, yeah, we talked about this last night. I don't think I'll ever yeah I think I don't want to do criminal defense. I wouldn't survive in anything What kind of cases would you say no to what kind of cases when I say oh?

Because you're going to have to say no to a lot of people. I think it's very case by case. So I don't know if there's a specific category of people other than like.

I don't know if I can say sex offenders on your podcast. No, you can. Other than like sex offenders. Yeah. Anything I have to do with kids. Anything I don't think I can do. Yeah, I couldn't do kids. Yeah. That's really the only thing. Like if somebody murdered their kids. If somebody killed their kid or if somebody killed a kid or anything sex related, I just couldn't do. Yeah. Like, yeah. No, I couldn't do it. Is there a subject you would like to be like more specialized within?

Big drug or... Also, yeah, I've thought about, I like the narcotic field. I think it's very complex. It's very complex morally and legally. There's a lot of loopholes. I mean, the whole judicial system is corrupt.

It's wild, to be honest. And I think that's part of the reason I'm so invested in it because I really, because if I was going into medicine, I would have done medicine and I hate, I hate the medical field. I hate Western medicine. I hate the way that we handle health and health insurance and everything. And I couldn't, there was no getting into that for me. And whatever field I get into, I'm ready to turn it upside down. You can become a doctor though and also do like Eastern medicine and holistic medicine. Yeah, I try to do all that.

She's like, I've had enough of that with you. Yeah, I'm so done. So done with everything medical. She's like, make me say another fucking vitamin. It is the worst. So yeah, I want to turn the judicial system upside down and the best way to do that's from the inside.

Maybe I'll be a congresswoman one day. Maybe that's the work. I'll go law and be like a judge. I could see that. You'll be president. You'll never know. I can see that with you. Tell our old daughter, president. I love that. Let's fucking go. I shoot for the moon, baby. I'm totally open to that. Because I'll be, what would I be if you were the president's?

I would be the first mother of the president. First mother. First mother. First mother. Okay. I would totally own that and make merch. That's my baby. I'm first mother. I am first mother. I don't have a question, but I would like for Bailey to know that I was blown away by her last podcast.

The amount of healing and maturity coming from a girl who was not yet 16 was astonishing. Keep being authentically you, keep improving every day and keep loving yourself. Thanks, Queen. I still get so many DMs about that podcast. Like as much blowback as we got for it, there was so much more love and just that healing and, you know, I don't think people realize you wanted to do that. Yeah. You were not. Hey, let's do this.

So saying that much, you know, when we're not going to dwell on it too much, but where do you and your mom stand? Because I'm sure that's going to be one of these options in here, too. Me and my mom haven't spoken in a year and a half, a little, yeah, about a year and a half, actually. And I don't have any plans to speak to her. You guys have actually seen each other. Me and Felicia, remember when she opened the door?

She opened the door. Oh, oh my God, I forgot about that. That's how much I don't speak to my mother. Yeah. So yeah, my grandmother passed in January. And this is Felicia seeing her daughter for the first time since getting out of jail. This is Felicia seeing the first time, yeah, from getting out of jail, from me getting back home from my, yes, from me, from my little exciting red trip.

Um, yeah, so my grandmother passed and I Felicia's mom passed my yes, so I went up to where they live to go to the funeral and things and I was dropping off

We had brought my cousin back, and I was bringing him back to his house. Okay, I remember this. Mike, and when I dropped him off, he went in the back door, me and Cheyenne were about to pull out the driveway, and my mom opens the front door, and we make eye contact, and then she just shut the front door and walked away. No, she was like a glass door, she shut the glass door, and I saw her walk away, and I was like,

What are you two, Felicia? Yeah, and it's like you would think that a real, and I don't, I'm not here to bash her. But in that moment, you're a real motherly instinct, would no matter how mad you are at your child or how much you wanna gaslight them or manipulate them, you would wanna go and hug them. You suck out the door. I think you're a fucking asshole for that podcast, or hey, man, I think you're, you know, thanks for putting me on blast, or hey, I'm sorry. Yeah, be pissed off of me. I don't care if Felicia should be mad, but like, yeah.

Really what a crazy way to go about hasn't tried to reach out to her has not tried to have a relationship with her like completely just what? Yeah, just looks at you and just looked at me and walked away Like I wasn't even there. I was like, okay girl I was like I wouldn't have entertained you if you came and said hi to me anyway Yeah, but it's the price full of you should have looked you should have it's hurtful because you want that relationship with your mom, you know and No, I really don't yeah

Well, we're not going to dwell on that, but I just want to, I know that people are going to ask that question anyways. And, you know, she's just, she's out and she's not part of our lives. I have the best for her. She is, she seems to be from what I've heard from Fairleigh members. She is working and is in a happy relationship and is living, is doing fine for herself. And I hope that's what she continues to do. Yeah.

Bailey, what is your favorite memory with Bunny? And what is your favorite memory with your dad? Okay. Favorite memory with you? Oh, Wanta. This is scary. This is a scary question.

Isn't it crazy having somebody ask you that question? So many like so many memories are in your brain. You're like, I don't blank when people ask me. People are like, what's your favorite memory with the girls? I'm like, because there's just so much like we live life every day with each other. Do we have a favorite moment? Yeah. Like, you know, it's hard to pick one because when you live life with people, it's like, I don't know. We have so many.

Yeah. In what circumstance are we speaking? Yeah, literally. Like what type of memory? Because there's a bunch of different, you know? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't think I have one. What about with your dad? Same or? Yeah, I kind of feel the same with him. I feel like we just have

I feel like my favorite, like, I feel like my favorite, I don't have a favorite, I don't have a favorite memory with my dad, but I have like a collection of favorite memories, and it's just our car rides. Yeah, just a collection of years of being in the car together. We're going down leads to communicate in cars. We love to talk in the car. We're both roadies. It's like, it's just our thing. So we get in the car and it's just everything we can talk about. Yeah, if you ever want to have a conversation or jelly roll, get in the car with them. Okay, I remember my favorite memory with my dad.

We were, we were going to the bridge on arena at the first time he ever played and it was the night before we were going for rehearsal and we were in the car and we pulled and like you can go there. He was parked in like this weird spot. You go under it's like a whole thing. And on the way in, I was like, I was like, have you ever seen Finding Nemo? And he was like, yeah, I was like, okay.

About two minutes later, I was like, have you ever used a, like a fire extinguisher? He was like, no, I was like, okay. About three minutes later, I was like, hey dad. He was like, hey. I was like.

Do you think he can use a fire extinguisher in the ocean? And he was like, Bailey, where are these questions coming from? And he just looked at me like, what is wrong with you? And I was like, mmm, just my brain wondering things. And he was like, OK, well, it needs to stop. It's because he probably didn't have an answer for you. And your dad has an answer for everything. So when he can shut it down.

last night we were having a conversation and I asked him I was like which love am I for you am I your first love second love third love because I want to be his third love because that's the best love and he's like I don't know and like we start talking about it and then somehow we started talking about like where your soul goes when you sleep and Jay is like I genuinely yeah I was crazy he's like I think that you know that's when you're your soul's finally at rest I said yes but what about when you're restless and he was like

Fuck. He was just like, would look at me all the way. He did have an answer. He's like, so. I was like, I think our soul is just going above our bodies. I can't talk anymore, competition over. Because sleep is literally the fucking sister of, it's not the cousin, it's the sister of death. And like, it's the closest thing to death that you could possibly do. I don't think our souls are in our body when we're sleeping.

That's why the DMT and our brains are getting shit done. I know. And that's why the DMT and our brains is on overdrive and we have lucid dreams. Some of us have lucid dreams and some of us have dreams because our souls are not in our body and they say before you die, the same thing happens. Mm hmm. It's always that's crazy. I wasn't prepared for this guy.

Because that was not gonna be a warning. But it makes sense, right? But it makes sense because I, you know, get a lot of like parenting stuff on Instagram comes up. It's like, you know, don't do this to your children. You know, everyone's telling you how to parent. And one of them is talking about, and it's changed my perspective ever since. And I cannot, and hear this about getting angry with your children.

for wanting them to go to sleep. And it says, could you imagine if someone was forcing you to pass out? And I was like, as an adult, I was like, I wouldn't want to just pass out. And they're like, that's what you're doing to your child. And you're mad at them for not wanting to become incoherent. And I was like, oh,

That's so right, because children, I experience life much different than we do. We go to sleep because we're tired. And imagine as a child, it's like, pass out. Go pass out by yourself in your bed. And I'm like, anytime my child's like, you want to cuddle, I'm like, yes, let me hold you back. But I also think as a catch 22, because I feel like you're also teaching children boundaries. And you're also teaching them a schedule. You know? So if you want me there while you fall asleep, I'll be there. And then I'm going to bounce once you're out.

Yeah, but you have to teach kids a schedule because if not and you have oh no schedules fine I just meant like I always like didn't realize like the the concept Well, I didn't when they're trying to tell them to go take a nap or something Yeah, I could totally like that's so wild to me like I always had to remind my husband when with our kids I'm like you remember this is the first time they're lifing. Yeah, and he's like oh

And no, no, this is not the first time live has life. Oh, yes. Cash for sure. Yeah, cash is a new soul. She is not live is fucking an 85 year old. She's wearing aliens. Yes. Yeah. She is. She has to be she's she's very deep. Bailey, how's your relationship with your brother Noah? Are you guys close?

We're as close as people like yours apart can be. Yeah, I mean, he's still a baby. We're close, but he's a baby. He's getting cooler though. He's half of me in height. Yeah, yeah, yeah. He's getting cooler though. Yeah, you know, he's cool. Like I love my brother. He's so smart. There's not much relationship to be had between a 16 year old girl and a year old boy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. He's super, he's super smart, but he's, I love that little guy. He thinks I hung the moon. It's the cutest thing ever. No, he loves his sister. And I love kids. I mean, I love.

I love working like with kids. It's like my favorite thing ever. We were on the bus and I was like, yeah, Bailey's gonna be here and he goes, Bailey's here. And I got so excited. He's so cute. No, you guys cannot deny DNA. You guys are all fucking made to go. It's go, go, go, go. We really are him, your dad, it's exhausting. Yeah.

I just let you guys go. Oh my go. You said it's exactly. Everybody go because I'm the complete opposite. I like to just I like to marinate and take my time. What a good word to me. You like to marry me. I don't explain too well. Listen, stick a fork at me. I'm done. Okay, baby. I like to just fucking kick it and kick back. I'm like Bill while Bill was

Bill was go go go too. Yeah, he's like real calm and like just Yeah, no rush for it. Yeah, that's me too except for when I have to be in a rush and then I'm like we gotta go No, you're zero to 100 real quick. Yeah, yeah

Bailey, what is your advice? You can give my 15 year old daughter who has been literally struggling with so many things that you have. Mental health, a short stint with vapes and drinking and smoking weed, and she is bullied because she's five, six and 175 pounds. They call her fat, but she isn't fat. She's thick with beautiful curves that I'm jealous of. I tell her every day how amazing she is, but she doesn't believe me. I feel so defeated and lost like I can't help her. What can I do? Okay, look.

There isn't a piece of advice that's going to fix anything for anybody. There isn't a single thing I can say that works for me that's going to work for somebody else because you know how much advice I get that didn't do anything. There's something at the wall, it's all six is really long piece of advice I got. But also, and I really, I really just at this point in my life four months ago, something in like 15, 16, 17 year old girl brain is just going to flip.

And you're just going to stop caring. And not in the bad way. You're going to care about the important things you're going to care about your future. You're going to care about what actually matters. But everything else is gone with the wind. Yeah. So I would just say get yourself to a point that you can flip that switch and focus on yourself and focus on what matters because there's only a couple more years you have left to actually kind of figure out what you want before you have to like step into what you want.

So I don't know, just wait, just wait it out. And I know it sounds like a really terrible piece of advice, but wait it out, because at some point that flip's gonna switch. That switch is gonna flip, I can't use words.

you're gonna realize that you're the only person that has to live with yourself and you've gotta do what's right for you. And I also think as a parent, just reassurance, helping. I think with Bailey, I had to really learn to kind of let her come to me with like, I would go to her and be like, okay, we're gonna have a meal plan and we're gonna eat like this and we're gonna do this and we're gonna exercise and she would feel like I was calling her fat or like,

I would hurt her feelings because I was totally and that was as a parent that wasn't my intention. But now Bailey I'll I leave her alone and just let her do whatever and she'll come to me and be like all right mom I'm meal prepping I'm gonna work out. Can you help me with my macros or can you help me with you know like when she comes to me for advice now and I think that you just kind of as a parent you have to back off but just always let them know that you think they're beautiful and that they're you're supporting her decision.

Yes, exactly. I know as parents, we want to just go and save them and be like, no, you can't solve our problems. Most of our problems are made by ourselves. They need to be entangled by ourselves. So I think just being her strong support system, anytime she comes to you and

you know, wants to vent, just listen to her. Don't give her your two cents. I've learned to do that with Bailey too. Sometimes just people want to be heard. Yeah, if I don't ask, please don't tell me how you feel about it. Oh my gosh. I'm not worried about giving advice when people talk because I'm like, well, let's fix your plan. Yeah, that's how I am. And I don't mean it by offense. It was, it took me a long time to realize some people just want to be heard. And I think also, because I'm also like a fixer type person with other people, but I've had to train myself because

I will figure out a way to solve my problem if I just talk it through. I have to talk it through with myself, but sometimes being able to say to somebody, oh my God, I can just do this and it fixes it. But if somebody else can be advised, I feel like it's just overwhelming. Unless I come and I'm like, hey, can you tell me what to do in this? And I've also learned as a parent to say, do you want my advice? And then she'll be like, yes. And I'll be like, OK, here, this is what we're going to do.

Honestly, not in the place for right now. And I'll come back later. Yeah, and I'll be like, all right, cool. And then we just go about our business. So it's a learning curve. Teenagers are fucking really difficult. Yeah. Being a bonus mom myself, I'm all about giving the bonus parents their flowers. What do you admire and appreciate most about Bunny? What is one thing you want other people to know about her? How have the last three to four years impacted your life?

Okay, that was so many questions. That was a lot. You said, tell me all about me. Yeah, I know. I think that was going to say that. Um, okay. I feel like there's a moth in this light or something. A moth? There's something in this light and it's tripping me out. Does you know that mossy flesh? Anyway.

What do I admire most about Bunny? You are one of the most like hard-working, driven people I've ever met in my life. And I love it. You're very like, when I want it, I'm gonna get it, period. Like there's no way of saying about it. Thank you guys. Like my favorite thing ever. Thank you. Something I want people to know about Bunny. Bunny is very open about her dog being her favorite human favorite, her favorite child. And it's created a lot of advantage but issues for me.

I feel it. I stop it. Get the fuck out of here. Because I feel that Chachi doesn't deserve the love I deserve and I feel like he gets it. Whatever.

So let's watch y'all to know, buddy, buddy picks a favorite. It's the favorite. Oh, it's chochie. It's chochie. Chochie over everybody. Fuck the world. Literally. Put that on the shirt, please. I love that. And then how has the three past three to four years in your life affected you?

Well, it's affecting the last three. That's just a crazy time frame of my life. The question that the person who wrote that is asking, how has the last four years of you guys' incline affected me? And it's just kind of affected the way that I live life and function on a daily basis. I can't list something that I changed because it's changed everything.

Yeah. You're living a whole new life. And also, I've gone from being 12 to 16, and I've learned a lot about myself, and I've had that personal journey, and I've had this public journey. It's been crazy. So I think I can everything, humanly possible, has changed in the last four years. Yeah. Yeah. Bailey, are we ever going to see you back on TikTok?

No. No, probably at some point. I'm sure I'll be back on there making the same weird, funny, crazy TikToks I was for. I would love to see a 16-year-old Bailey on TikTok. Oh, my God, I'd be hilarious. What do you... It's so funny. It's because I don't know what a 16-year-old TikToks look like. What do your friends do on TikTok? Do they do the dances? Do they do... No, I think a lot of TikTok is out of the dance era.

I think there's still a portion of TikTok that will always kind of have a dance. And we do in like, when we're dressed up and we're out and it's like, oh my God, but it's not really dancing. It's just like, you know, so other than that, mostly, I would just say skits and lots of voiceovers. Lots of, yeah, lots of voiceovers. Lots of get ready with me. Lots of sounds, just honestly. Not a lot of original content or anything. No, not really. Is that, is that a moment? They're not smart.

For what it's worth, I've been rooting for her to get back on social media for like a year now. You really have. I've been going to back for her. Listen, when I come in, I'm coming in hot. Let me warn you, it's going to be wild. It's her daddy. We're having to convince. Daddy has laid the smack down. What do you do to relax and collect yourself when times get hard? Lay on the floor. Yeah, I've seen you do that before.

I mean, that's the truth. I lay on the floor. I don't know why. But for some reason, being horizontal on something cold is just the best feeling ever. Yeah. I lay on the floor. Maybe it's a stimulation thing. I think so. It was like ground. It makes me think. There's furniture people. Because Jason's a ground person. I'm a ground person. I'm a furniture person. You will catch me on the floor. No, I'm always on the floor. I get on the floor. My kids are like, mom's on the floor guys. I swear. No, I'm always on the floor. You can ask mom. She'll be walking out the house and I was like,

You're on the floor. You're on the floor again. I'm just on the floor. You won't choose to sit in a chair. You choose to sit on the floor. There will be an empty piece of furniture and Bailey's on the floor. Yeah, it's weird. Can't do it. This isn't a question, but I got to meet Bailey and Louisville. And I just want her to know how sweet, mature, beautiful, and a pure pleasure it was to meet her. I loved her being on the podcast before and could relate myself. I'm excited for her to be on again. Love you, Bailey. Love you guys. That's so sweet.

Bailey, I would love to know what you think is your greatest strength and what is your weakness. I feel like two things about me that are both my greatest strengths and my greatest weaknesses if this is going to make sense. Oh, yeah. I am very open-minded and I'm very manipulative. And I think that both of those things are strengths and that both of those things are weaknesses. Perfect for a lawyer.

Exactly. Wow. That's a good one. Yeah. Yeah. Very soft for wear. I love it. But you're also a Gemini, so I think you're just manipulative by nature. Yeah. And it can be a very good thing. And it can be a very bad thing. It could relate a bit to how you use it. No, I get it. I'm manipulated by my entire life, so it's just something that some are just born with it. Yeah. What is your dream job?

These are a bunch of questions. Here, good lord. This person wrote, like, tiny questions. Why do we ask so many questions that are wrote? OK, hold on. Let's start with one by one. OK. Dream job.

Maybe not as career, like right now. If you could go out and get a job right now. If I could just go out and get a job right now. What are we doing now? Which by the way, the kid loves working. I really do. He's doing fucking chores. But if you give her a job, she'll fucking do it. I love it. There's a schedule. She's a sucker for a schedule. Yeah, I love a good schedule. She thought me on her schedule her entire life. I would go, I want to be one of those people that hold snakes on the street and scare people.

That's what I want. Where did you see this live? Have you never been to LA or like New York where they have the giant snakes where they walk around and they're like, hey. Yeah. That's why I want to be. I want to have one of those. I want to be one of those guys. Is that even a job? That's your kid. Because in my head, I look like the Tiger King.

I have like chainsaw and I'm like an open like. And he's trying to get on the podcast non-stop. Oh, I love it, too. Let's do it. Huh? Is he able to be there? No, still in jail. But we could for like the true crime we could go. I didn't know his life right now. That's weird. Yeah, he's alive. He's alive and well. He's kicking it. All right, great answer. Okay, next question. What's your favorite food? Um, steak.

Yeah. You love a good day. I love a good day. She likes it. Bloody. I want it mooing. I have no idea. We need to figure out your blood type. I found out my blood type is like. It's all my birth certificate. The reason I love red meat so much. And I hate chicken. What is it? My chicken is a no and red red blood type. B? Yeah. B positive. I'm A B positive. I don't know what I am. I'll check later. Yeah. We need to check your blood type.

Something you want to accomplish in the next five years? Getting admitted to Columbia. Let's fucking go. Favorite musician or band? Jelly Roll. No comment. You came on Pandora yesterday at the wedding. We were like, skip. Yeah, I was like, get out of here. Like, I love you. Love you, honey. You got to go. I don't know. It changes all the time. I'd say today I'm feeling

Feeling very M&M-y today. Oh, wow. Yeah. Is your period? I got to start. I got to those phases. No, it's over, actually. Grossive. Obulation. That's exactly. I get aggressive sometimes during ovulation, too. Yeah. Hardest hurdle you had to get over and how did you overcome that? Please listen to the last podcast. Yeah. Absolutely. That's my answer. Sums it up. If you could be any animal, what would it be?

Joshy so you could feel all the love. Oh, stop it. I hate both of you. I want to be a seal. I want to be a dog of the sea. Oh, I love that. A little sea puppy. A little sea puppy, baby. No, I want to be. They're like really aggressive too. No, I want to be the famous animal I know. Busy the bus dog.

Oh, fucking please. Okay, so we're wondering, the buzzy-chachie drama is real. And I understand that I'm in Chachie's camp, but I'm coming and firing. Buzzy, the bus dog, please. The best dog that has ever lived. Oh, yeah, he just- He's gonna make a magic right again. I just had to clean up fucking pee again, because he peed in the fucking house. Oh, you want to talk about peeing in the house? Peeed in the bottle suite. Crunchy. Every corner of every wall in our house is Chachie stained. No, it's not. Okay. Lies. No, it's not. He peed in the bridal suite. He did.

He didn't fact. How do you know it was him? Because the other one was wearing a diaper. No, his diaper came off. And I had to put his diaper back on how big he would have a diaper on. He's old. I know. And also, we know the difference between a Chachi P and a villain P. It wasn't a Chachi P. It was big all night. It was big. No. I don't believe it. If you could meet any person dead or alive, who would it be? Ooh, that's a great question. A little alive.

Sorry. Great question. I don't know. There's a lot of answers. Let me pick a noncontroversial one. Amy Winehouse.

Ooh, I have a lot of questions. Yeah. She's good. She's polarizing. A lot of questions. Yeah. What about you? Dead or alive? Oh, man. I don't fucking know. Probably Jesus and Mary Magdalene. I want to know the truth. Like, were you really married to Jesus? Were you really a disciple? Why did they get rid of your book in the Bible?

That's way better for the Amy Winehouse. No, it's not. No way. No, I love Amy Winehouse. If you could pick one favorite piece from Bunny's Closet, what would you choose?

Can we talk about the fact that Buddy's closet doesn't say stay as Buddy's closet once she wears it. She doesn't wear it again. So it's just constantly new stuff. It's constant. It's like a revolving door. When I clean my closet out probably twice a year. And every time I clean it out, that kid gets first nibs, whatever she wants. Because usually I don't have like a piece in there.

Okay, what about one of her because I don't do I don't do designer. No, exactly You don't hold on to things. I don't have pieces. I have like, you know, like what about a red carpet look? Oh the Grammy red carpet look. Yeah, yeah. Oh god. I was like everything out on the diaper. Beautiful. Is it a good diaper? No, gorgeous. Yes with the diaper with the diaper. Yeah, so into the diapers. I love you. I appreciate that because I feel like that was my worst. That was beautiful. I was so swollen. You look beautiful. It was crazy. I got rained on.

Didn't we all ask one thing older generations should know about your generation. What are you a Gen Z? I'm Gen Z. Oh, okay. We're usually meaning to be mean.

So every time that we tell you, we're not, we are. Every time we make a joke, we're prepared for that. Every time we make a joke or a comment, we mean every word of it, you guys.

I feel like. Put away your eight foot tall ugs. I feel like Gen Z is way less sensitive than millennials. Or am I wrong? Gen Z is less sensitive? Yeah. For sure. Oh yeah. No, we're definitely less because we're mean to each other. We're not just mean to you guys. We're and we're way meaner to each other than we already all. Yeah. Oh, I know. I hear about all your shit at school. Yeah. So like we have honestly really tough skin when it comes to stuff like that. Because we just don't care. But we'll fire back. Yeah. That's a lot of other generations won't is fire back.

Bailey, how does it feel being able to drive yourself now?

Being able to drive and go by yourself. I love driving. Driving is just like a therapeutic thing for me. You do love driving. I love driving. I don't think you get it from my dad. I'm such a driver. Yeah, I just don't let her drive a golf cart. Yeah. She made our Maui lose a tooth. I was 12. The castle was rough. No, it was not. Yeah, we took those corners. Full shape. She's like, all the way down. I'm not the one who ran us into ditches eight times. That was Haley.

Who the Hailey Drive? I did once and then I didn't rest of the time. I don't even like being in the car. Hailey, it's scary. Where is Hailey, BCW? She went to go tan before we leave.

Like she's not chain enough ritual for her to tan. It's a whole thing. She does a scrub. She doesn't wash her hair. Ask to shave. Shaves her whole body. I've never heard of anybody washing their hair before they go spray tanning. It's the weirdest thing to me. Well, because she doesn't wash the tan off. So it's like, it's like at least 24 plus hours before never sleep in fucking spray tan. Yeah, what happened to your last spray tan, Bailey?

That was sinful. It was so good thing. I got the shark's hand of mustache. Did you get the dookie tan? Yes, because I still had it. I still had like some of my self tan on part of it was coming off and then I'm autistic and can't stand up straight in a. Straight hand booth apparently. So I was standing there and it's like it goes one, two, three, and they turn around for four. Well, I got distracted thinking about.

squirrels or something. I was thinking about that squirrel episode of Rick and Morty where all the squirrels try to eat Rick and Morty. So I got distracted and I was sitting there and I was like one, two, three, and then I zoned back in and I was like, oh my god. So I doubled hand half my body.

And I also got a double dark with no tint and no hydration. You were very dark last time. I remember. Yes, I said, wow. I was giving Ariana Grande. It moved dark. She was not so mad. He's like, why does she not wash that off? I'm like, honey, once that spray tans on, you can't wash off. No, like it was not coming. It was dark. Tell him to get over it. OK.

God. The judgment. You know your daddy is the most judgmental. He really is. No, it's so funny. Yeah. It's funny. We're not going to. We can't. We're not going to talk about it, but let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. If there's an opinion to be had, he has it. He's got three. Okay. And he don't care about her. Nobody's feelings. You don't.

How's your mental health going? I'm great. I'm really good. Yeah, like I'm honestly really good. Good. She said I just found out that my 12-year-old is cutting. So any advice for me from your perspective would be nice. Take away access to objects in a non-obvious way.

Because if there's not something that you can immediately see that you're like, I can use that, then you're not going to use it. But if it's obvious that stuff's been taken, you're going to find a way. So as for that, that's a piece I would say.

Don't get angry. That's the biggest mistake you can make is because like that, and I get that it's a lot of times reactive. A lot of it's times it's out of fear or just being upset that people get angry, but getting angry with your child for cutting themselves like that isn't going to do anything that they can do it more. Yeah. Because you just can't get angry. You have to be compassionate and you can't make them feel like you're throwing them under the bus.

Because that's a big, that's a dark, shameful secret for people to have. And for somebody that you love and care about so much to find out about it, it's a very shocking experience for both of you. Be graceful with each other. I've heard that some kids don't even use sharp things. They'll do like erasers on their skin. I know. I know. Bad. Yeah, I know. I've used pencil like this brings from pens.

Yeah, I mean, you can use anything. Literally. But what I said, what I was saying that was like, if I, if like, when I was a cutter, like if I didn't see like a knife and I wasn't, if I was kind of thinking about it and I saw a sharp object, I was like, Oh, shit, it's a sign. How do you feel about being a cutter now that you slice your arm open?

Oh my god, it actually like for real in that moment set me spiraling because I like was like, holy shit, drama flashbacks. And then I was like fine again. Yeah. But the one I do for real, when I slice my arm up in the first thing I thought about was, holy shit, how did I used to cut myself? I can't handle this. Yeah. Oh. Like I was like, I don't know how I did that. Like I like.

Like I looked at like, the scars on my legs are a lot deeper than the one on my arm because I was a lot more scared of hitting a vein. But like, yeah, I was like, I can't. Mm-mm. I'm glad we're through that, child. All right, one last question and then we're gonna get out of here because we gotta go hop back on tour. My question for Bailey would be, how do you feel about the potential of getting a new brother or sister? I know your parents have been seeing doctors and talking about expanding the family.

Expanding the family. So we'd be honest about how we felt at first. We can. Go ahead. You want me to? Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's up to you. Yeah, yeah, okay. At first, I was super anti-child. And I have a lot of reasons, some selfish, some not. At first, I was kind of, but also I didn't find out necessarily the way I wanted to. Like it was kind of just like, hey, we're only gonna have a kid. And I was like, cool.

I just and I current I wasn't the happiest about it I'm out of state with it now that I am supportive of whatever decision you and my father make and however you go about this and I really hope the best for it. Do I have a lot of concerns about it? Yes. Do I worry about you and dad's

ability to balance a baby and our lifestyle, I do. I think having an eight-year-old at that level was different. Having a 16-year-old at where we are now is different than having a kid. Having a baby baby, that's a whole different step. And I don't think that you guys can't handle it. That's not to say you're not capable because I truly think you are capable of having a baby at any point in your life.

I just think it's a very nuanced situation. Then that scares me, too. That's always been a big question with me. It's like, dude, we are so on the go. And daddy's like, we're just bringing the kid with us. And I'm like, it's not that easy, baby. It's just not that easy. It's easier said than done, for sure. I choose to not bring my children to many situations, because it is so overwhelming. It's a lot for people by age, people y'all's age.

Yeah. Could imagine putting a baby, adding a baby into a, it's already as chaotic as our lives is. Yeah. Sounds wild. No, it's a lot. Daddy and I have been chewing on the idea too, you know, we're still, we're still chewing on it. Like, it's not, it's a very big decision. It's a very huge life altruism. That is someone's life and that's your life. So it's just, I always want to do it. But either way, I'll support and I'll be a big sister regardless and I do my due diligence.

I love it. I love it, kid. I was or anything you want to talk about before we go. I had something and then I forgot. Say, oh, okay. So remember how I was talking about the squirrel episode of Rick and Morty? Yes. Okay. So maybe space. So I have a question for you guys. Do you think squirrels or I guess any other animal that's had to be a specific squirrels?

run the government. What? What are you talking about? I think birds aren't real. What? Can we just have this conversation for a minute? Because I have I think majority of birds are not real. I feel like they are. What do you think about pigeons? Like New York pigeons? Yeah, I've heard of that. I've heard that. They have eyes. No, I think they're on the power lines to recharge to recharge. I think squirrels run our government.

I don't. I'm convinced. I'm 100% to see it happening. Like Willy Wonka where they're all sitting around typing on their little computers. Right. I know they're not little computers and they're nuts in that video. But yeah, no, I completely get it. Did you hear about the squirrel that got euthanized? It was famous on like TikTok and everything. And it's been famous. It's like they've had the squirrel for seven years and the New York authorities came and took it, euthanized it.

The internet is up in arms over the squirrel. I can't wait to live in New York. What a beautiful city. It's crazy. Yeah, they literally can. It is a very rated the first place and then took the squirrel and euthanized it.

Yeah, I think that's terrible. Maybe around the government. Maybe it was a Russian government squirrel. This guy had the pet for seven years and a raccoon, a pet raccoon, and they took both of them and fucking euthanized them. It was not right with the government. Oh, that's really sad. That was a silver squirrel for sure. Abusive power 100%. Yeah. Yeah.

Just a weird, that's also just kind of a weird thing to do. Like for New York kinda take the time out of its date of like what they were gonna send. They were big on social media. They were big on social media and like what people like to do is ruin beautiful things. And people on butterflies started calling the government and like the wildlife endangerment places. Because some guy had a pigeon in a raccoon. A raccoon in a squirrel. And the squirrel was so healthy and cute and like, I'll show you. You're like pet the squirrel. Yeah, I mean, this was like, this was like their cha-chi.

You know, and it's really fucked up. They shouldn't have done it. We don't need any more Chachis. Oh, we need 10 more. I'm gonna fucking clone Chachi. You know what I think is actually the guy. Look at his cowboy hat. I know. Sweet boy. Sweet. I love him. Can we get Chachi a cowboy hat? Yes. All right. Tell everybody goodbye. Sign us out, baby. Oh, bye.

Thank you guys for tuning into another episode of JumpBlonde. I'll see you guys next week. Bye. Bye.