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    Moment 177: You're NOT Lazy! This Is The REAL Reason You Procrastinate: The Performance Doctor

    enAugust 30, 2024
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    • Procrastination benefitsProcrastination isn't always a sign of laziness or lack of motivation, but rather a way to escape negative emotions associated with tasks. Understanding why we procrastinate can help us address the underlying emotions and be more productive.

      Procrastination is a natural part of the creative process and can sometimes lead to better ideas, rather than being a sign of laziness or lack of motivation. According to research, we don't procrastinate to avoid hard work, but rather to escape negative emotions associated with the task at hand. So, instead of trying to eliminate procrastination entirely, it may be more productive to understand why we're putting off certain tasks and address the underlying emotions. By recognizing that procrastination is a common experience and can even have benefits, we can reduce the stigma surrounding it and approach our work with a more balanced and compassionate mindset.

    • Emotions and ProcrastinationNegative emotions like frustration, confusion, boredom, and anxiety can lead to procrastination. Finding ways to make challenging tasks more engaging, such as rewriting in a preferred style, can help overcome procrastination. The type of browser used can also indicate creativity and working style.

      Procrastination often stems from negative emotions, such as frustration, confusion, boredom, and anxiety. These feelings can be driven by specific tasks that we find challenging or uninteresting. For instance, I personally struggle with editing and revising due to the tediousness of the process. To overcome this, I tried making the task more engaging by rewriting paragraphs in the style of my favorite fiction authors. Another interesting insight from the discussion was the connection between internet browsers and creativity. In her TED talk, the speaker suggested that the type of browser one uses can reveal something about their creativity. For example, Google Chrome, which is known for its efficiency and speed, might indicate a more analytical and task-oriented approach. In contrast, a browser like Firefox, which offers more customization options, could suggest a more exploratory and creative mindset. This idea resonated with me, as it highlights the importance of finding tools and techniques that suit our unique working styles and help us overcome procrastination.

    • Browser usage and job performanceUsing alternative browsers like Chrome and Firefox can demonstrate resourcefulness and curiosity, leading to better job performance and job satisfaction

      The browser you use at work might not be just a tool for accessing the internet, but a reflection of your initiative and resourcefulness. A study by researcher Michael Housman found that Chrome and Firefox users perform better and stay longer in their jobs compared to Safari and Internet Explorer users. The explanation for this phenomenon is that using these alternative browsers requires a level of proactivity and original thinking, as they are not the default options. By questioning the status quo and seeking out better options, individuals demonstrate a mindset that can also translate to their job performance and job satisfaction. This finding underscores the importance of being resourceful and curious in the workplace, as it can lead to improved job performance and a more fulfilling career.

    • Challenging the status quoQuestioning traditional ways of thinking and hiring individuals who do so can lead to groundbreaking innovations, as demonstrated by figures like Elon Musk.

      Original thinkers and innovators challenge the status quo and relentlessly pursue their vision, as exemplified by figures like Elon Musk. During the discussion, the importance of questioning traditional ways of thinking and hiring individuals who have a history of doing so was emphasized. Elon Musk was identified as an original due to his groundbreaking work in tech and business, including the development of reusable rockets and the push towards electric cars. While some may attribute his success to being a child prodigy, the evidence suggests that natural ability alone does not guarantee greatness. Instead, it is the willingness to challenge conventional wisdom and persist in the face of adversity that sets true originals apart.

    • Creative developmentTrue originality and creativity come from determination, learning from mistakes, and constantly challenging oneself, not just natural talent or extensive practice.

      While natural talent and extensive practice are important, they don't guarantee the development of true originality and creativity. Child prodigies, who often excel in learning and mastering existing knowledge, may lack the opportunity to experience failure and take risks necessary for inventing something new. Adult geniuses, on the other hand, are characterized by their determination to stretch their creative muscles, learn from their mistakes, and constantly challenge themselves. They are often underdogs or late bloomers, who are obsessive about pushing their boundaries and learning new information. Research suggests that these individuals are like sponges, absorbing information and filtering out what's helpful, while being careful and disciplined in deciding when to aim for perfection and when to settle for good enough.

    • PerfectionismPerfectionism can lead to burnout and hinder growth, while embracing imperfection and learning from mistakes can lead to growth and evolution.

      While perfectionism may be perceived as a desirable trait, it can actually be a double-edged sword. On the surface, it may seem like a sign of dedication and high standards. However, research shows that perfectionism can lead to burnout and hinder growth and improvement in the real world. Perfectionists tend to focus too much on avoiding mistakes and may not take enough risks, leading to stagnation. Contrarily, embracing imperfection and learning from mistakes can lead to growth and evolution. So, the next time you're tempted to label yourself as a perfectionist, consider the potential downsides and strive for a healthy balance instead.

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    Arianna Huffington: I Was Lying In A Little Pool Of Blood! The Huffington Post, A $1 Billion 'Flop'!

    Arianna Huffington: I Was Lying In A Little Pool Of Blood! The Huffington Post, A $1 Billion 'Flop'!
    3 world-leading companies, 30 years of never-ending evolution: there is only one Arianna Huffington   Arianna Huffington is the founder of The Huffington Post, Thrive Global, and Thrive AI Health. She is also the author of 15 books such as, ‘Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success’ and ‘The Sleep Revolution’.  In this conversation, Arianna and Steven discuss topics such as, Arianna’s burnout breakdown, why she sold The Huffington Post, the benefits of redefining success, and the dangers of social media and phones.  (00:00) Intro (00:03) Childhood Experiences That Shaped My Success (02:18) Having Ambition From A Young Age (04:04) My Journey To Becoming Cambridge's 3rd Female Student Union President (05:49) Overcoming Overthinking (06:42) Breaking Gender Norms Without Fear Of Failure (09:46) The Core Message Of 'The Female Woman' (10:45) Balancing Career And Family: Is It Possible? (12:06) The Power Of Listening To Your Inner Self (13:15) My Early Career Aspirations And Dreams (14:40) How Bernard Levin Influenced My Career (18:31) Bernard's Death (19:55) The Impact Of Michael Huffington On My Life (21:15) The Transformative Power Of Forgiveness (21:57) The Story Behind The Huffington Post's Creation (24:51) How The Huffington Post Overcame Terrible Initial Reviews (26:46) Lessons From Roger Federer's Commencement Speech (28:44) Launching A Tech Company In My Fifties (31:03) Business Mistakes To Avoid As A Startup Founder (34:38) The Serious Health Risks Of Sleep Deprivation (36:44) The Importance Of Self-Care While Working Intensely (38:17) Is Sacrificing Your Wellbeing Worse For Men Or Women? (39:49) The 3rd Women's Revolution (40:54) Do Women Experience Burnout Faster Than Men? (42:16) The Health Impact Of Stressful Jobs (43:28) Why Volunteering Reduces The Likelihood Of Job Quitting (45:01) How My Life Changed After A Burnout Diagnosis (47:11) How A Large Financial Windfall Changed My Life (50:18) How Small Improvements Lead To Big Positive Changes (55:06) The Biggest Mistakes I've Made In Business (58:15) The Most Important Lessons From My Career (01:01:02) What's The True Meaning Of Life? (01:04:47) Coping With The Loss Of My First Child (01:05:44) How To Keep Faith During Tough Times (01:06:52) My Partner's Heroic Endeavors During World War II (01:07:35) What My Mother Would Have Thought Of The Huffington Post (01:08:45) How Increasing Wellbeing Boosts Business Productivity (01:09:50) The Day My Mother Passed Away (01:12:00) Life After My Mother's Death (01:13:45) The Most Important Life Lessons I'd Share With You (01:20:03) The Importance Of Entry Interviews In Hiring (01:21:59) How To Address And Overcome Your Own Prejudices (01:24:50) Key Leadership Qualities That Drive Success (01:26:03) The Role Of Luck In Achieving Success (01:29:09) Is It Luck, Hard Work, Or Intentionality That Drives Success? (01:32:55) The Best Advice I Wish I Had Received (01:34:56) Using Technology And AI For Positive Change (01:40:39) The Final Question Every Guest Must Answer Follow Arianna: Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/gpSw6nEYeMb  Twitter - https://g2ul0.app.link/lNli1BXofMb  LinkedIn - https://g2ul0.app.link/dYovh7bYeMb  Thrive Global - https://g2ul0.app.link/s7OL4QIYeMb  You can buy Arianna’s book, ‘Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success’, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/jIsyETRYeMb  Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes  My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook  You can purchase the The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: Second Edition, here: https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb  Follow me: https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb  Sponsors: Fiverr: https://www.fiverr.com/diary ZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO2024 for 10% off Colgate - https://www.colgate.com/en-gb/colgate-total