Michael Bublé: "I Will NEVER Be Carefree Again!", Cancer Diagnosis, Dealing With Rejection & Being Mr Christmas!
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December 21, 2023
TLDR: Michael Bublé's journey is one of dedication to his music and overcoming adversity, including a cancer diagnosis of his eldest son. His latest ventures include releasing a new whiskey brand, Fraser & Thompson Whiskey.
In the latest episode of the podcast, musical sensation Michael Bublé shares his incredible journey filled with passion, perseverance, and personal trials. Known affectionately as the "King of Christmas", Bublé not only delights audiences with his smooth voice and holiday classics but also reveals a deep commitment to his craft and the challenges he's faced.
The Early Years: Humble Beginnings
Michael Bublé's story begins with a childhood spent on his father's fishing boat in Canada, which laid the groundwork for his work ethic. He emphasizes the importance of experience and persistence:
- 10,000 hours performing at clubs and venues, despite facing countless rejections.
- His commitment stemmed from the belief that if the right person heard him, his talents would shine.
Overcoming Adversity
Bublé candidly discusses the heartbreak he felt after his eldest son was diagnosed with cancer, describing it as a "sledgehammer to my reality". This challenging moment brought clarity to his life:
- If they emerged from this, he promised himself to live with a renewed perspective, prioritizing family and personal happiness.
- His family's support and his strong values shaped his path within the music industry, reminding him of the importance of loyalty and hard work.
The Role of Family
Given his close-knit family background, Bublé's appreciation for support and encouragement is palpable:
- He recalls his grandfather's significant influence, from funding his early music lessons to being his number one fan.
- The emotional connection Bublé has with his family drives his desire to be present for his children amidst a demanding career.
From Musician to Entrepreneur
This year, Michael launched his own whiskey brand, Fraser & Thompson Whiskey. Partnering with Paul Cirka, a seasoned distiller, he aims to create a whiskey that appeals to both casual drinkers and connoisseurs:
- The brand pays homage to his grandfather, embodying the idea of "value" in products, just as his father valued hard work.
- Bublé seeks to combine his love for music and business, emphasizing that adventure is essential, even in entrepreneurial endeavors.
Balancing Fame and Authenticity
As someone who's been in the spotlight for years, Bublé shares his insights on managing fame and the music industry:
- He highlights the challenges of feeling like an outsider in the entertainment world, noting that success can sometimes lead to isolation.
- Despite his achievements, he remains grounded in authenticity, emphasizing the need to stay true to oneself and connected to his roots.
The Importance of Faith and Mental Health
Michael discusses his struggles with prioritizing faith, family, and a career:
- He reflects on the lessons learned from difficult experiences, acknowledging the importance of handling disappointment mentally.
- Mental health is a recurring theme in their conversation, particularly in acknowledging personal fears and overcoming life's inevitable challenges.
Conclusion
Michael Bublé's journey paints a portrait of a man who has navigated personal and professional storms with resilience. Through the laughter and tears, his story is a reminder that:
- Passion and perseverance can lead to incredible success, but it’s the connection to family and personal values that truly enriches our lives.
- He leaves listeners with both inspiration and practical advice: Honor your roots, stay authentic, and never stop pursuing your passions.
This episode is a celebration of the man behind the music—warts and all—and a testament to the enduring power of resilience and love.
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Another summer day has come and gone away in Paris or Rome, but I want to go home, because this place sucks. I should have, I should have been the lyric. Michael Buble! Smoothest singer in time. The King of Christmas. Have a hallelujah like Christmas.
Everything I did was music. I would listen to Rank Sinatra with Bobby Dan being Martin. I don't know why. I just do. Emulate them, and then I would steal it all. Because if you steal from one person, you're just a thief. But when you steal from everybody, it's research. But there's 10 years of clubs, 10 years of every agent saying the exact same thing. We will never sign you. But the reason I didn't stop in those 10 years was because if the right person sees me,
I am one of the greatest entertainers on earth. I play 50,000 people, and if there's one looking at their watch, I will play to that man. I'm not leaving him until I break you. But in a moment, my son's cancer diagnosis was a sledgehammer to my reality. And I remember saying to myself, if we get out of this,
If we get out of this, I'm living a different life. And I feel like I'm at this point where I want to do something different. Michael, you're not going to quit music, are you?
Michael, what do I need to know about your earliest context to understand the way that you are? Because you are a unique individual personality wise, talent wise, your life is full of uniqueness. So where is the what is the oven? Because I always think about humans like an oven. Yeah. You know, they get cooked in this oven when they're young. What is that oven? What is that environment?
Well, the environment was probably having the most incredible family. And everybody says that. And of course, that's beautiful that people always think their family is the most special. But if you met them, you'd like them all more than me. And then for me, personally, I think being the first child who got way too much attention
You know, probably got told like, you're amazing and you're good at everything. And like, it's probably the reason I talk so much. But everything I am, everything I have, every decision I make is based on that family.
even deciding, you know, I'm gonna be a singer. This is where I'm gonna do it, 13, 14. You know, by the time I was 16, my grandfather was already taking me to nightclubs. And when I started playing in the nightclubs at 1819,
They were full, and I was raw, but they were full, full. And people were like, who is this kid? Like, why did, how did he fill up Babaloo's? Or how did he fill up the purple onion? Or how did he fill up, you know, this theater? Well, they didn't know, but it was
my cousins and aunts and my grandparents and my mom calling all our friends and saying, come to the club. So this was a strange family affair because we had no connections. I wish I had nepotism to lean on.
I didn't, and so instead it took all of these incredible people just loving me and going, yeah, let's go. I mean, I was shocked. I was a fisherman. My great-grandfather immigrated from Italy. He was a shipbuilder. My grandfather was a commercial saint, salmon fisherman, on the same boat. That took him away a lot, right? Your father? Yeah, for sure. For sure, yeah.
which is something that we understood. And it's interesting because who knew that after leaving that life and having that thing where your father's gone quite a bit would be the life that I ended up leading, you know, where I had to be gone quite a bit. And the only difference was I could say, Dad, why are you leaving? And he would say, son,
This is my job. This is how I put food on the table. This is how dad pays for our house and for the holidays that we go on and everything. And it changed for me after a certain amount of success because my kids would say, Poppy, why are you going? And I couldn't say, you know, it's to pay to put food on the table, you know, because obviously it was, you know, we passed that point, got very lucky.
How do you answer that question? I answer it with language. I answer it with action. I've probably made my tours, I would say financially, maybe one of the most irresponsible tours.
in all of touring. So I started a rule where I said, I will do three weeks on, two weeks off, two weeks on, two weeks off, so that I could come back or I would literally sit with my wife and she's a tremendous actress, you know, and she has a great career and I know how fulfilled she is by it.
And so I would say to her, let's sit down at the beginning, you and your manager, Pepo, and me and my manager, Bruce, and let's go through the calendar. So when you're making those two films, okay, June, July, I'm done. I come with you and it can't happen if I tour in a financially responsible way. It's so interesting to me because I'm coming into that phase of life. Now I'm going to be starting a
family soon, and I'm going to be getting married. And it's interesting to hear from you about the trade-offs you have to make. And you have more experience in both sides of the cost and the benefit of those trade-offs. Did you miss your father growing up? Oh, man. Of course I missed my dad. I remember used to. And he said, you know, that's interesting because I am so lucky to have been more when I was born because my nights on tour away from them, like tonight, I mean, last night, for example, last night was doing a Zoom.
And they put their iPad in the room and I sat with them and I watched a Christmas movie. And we, they, popcorn and poppy was there. I was just there. I was, you know, they were walking around and wrestling and, um, they, it's really strange to say this, but, uh, I did this thing. You've heard of calm. Yeah. Yeah. The calm app. Yeah.
Yeah, it's about like I so I used to listen to this comment to go to see my wife hated it and I was on the Graham Norton show and Matthew McConaughey was a guest. I was so excited and Graham was like, why are you so excited? Well, everyone loves McConaughey said, hold on, I don't know.
I love him because my wife would hate it. But every night, I'd listen, ah, it's Matthew. Hey, hey, hey, I got a sleep story for you. And I would like listen every night. And I was like, Matthew, you sleep with my wife and I. I was like, I was like, I listened to your calm sleep story. And it became, you know, he was a very good sport. And he thought it was funny. And then calm called and they were like, hey, you want to just sleep story? I was like, hell yeah.
I don't want to do a sleep story. But I didn't know, it's the last night, that's every night's the same. So we chill and then I put on Poppy's sleep story. Hi. This is Michael. And tonight in this sleep story, and the kids just go, that's so beautiful. So what I was saying about, you're asking about my father, dude, my dad used to carry a sock full of quarters. And every two weeks he'd come into port and he'd wait in a line at a payphone.
And then he'd call. And then he used to, oh man, it makes me emotional, but, and I do the same thing now, but he used to, he would leave notes and he'd hide them everywhere. And so he'd be gone for like a month or something and you'd go into a drawer to go get your, you know, pencils and, and then you'd see the note and
I remember being like seven, eight years old, and I don't know if you ever did this stuff, or maybe I'm just a weird kid, but I remember like holding his clothes, being little, and like, and just crying, you know, missing him so much, and this was the closest thing that I would get to him. And it's crazy that as life went on, I became, dude, I'm him. Like, thank Jesus, thank God I'm him, but I turned out to be my dad.
Your granddad played a huge role in your life, didn't he? Grandpa Mitch. Grandpa Mitch, yeah. Huge, huge, massive. As a matter of fact, yesterday I did one of the probably scarier things that you can do in this entertainment business.
I was asked to be a surprise guest to sing a song as a tribute to Barry Gibb and the Bee Gees in his induction and to the Kennedy Center Honors, which I think is, in my opinion, maybe if not the pinnacle, one of the pinnacles of Americans celebrating culture. But weirdly enough, my grandpa, he passed away five years ago yesterday. Oh, wow.
More than anything, I was standing backstage and I could hear my introduction. And I was like, my mouth was dry. And my heart, I could hear my heart beating in my ear.
And I just took a big breath and I said, wow, grandpa, okay, this is us, man. This is us. And I always think about my kids and say like, okay, be strong. Don't let your kids ever see you weak. Don't let your kids ever see you scared. And weirdly, it just brought this wonderful calm over me. And it was really nice, man. It just brought me calm. And I went out there and I thought I killed it. I thought I was very charming.
He was my hero, is my hero. At 13 years old, we were always best friends. I don't know why. You know, you know, dude, sometimes certain people, you connect.
And it's like you were made for each other. And that was my best buddy. We talked about hockey and we talked about music. And even at a young age, I was fascinated by the great American song book. I was just, I didn't know how, I didn't understand and I remember being confused why I was the only one too. How could other people not understand
that nacking whole is that unbelievable. What's wrong? How could the, how, how someone is not here, Ella Fitzgerald, and just shit, a brick, and realize that is stupid. That's just too good, or that that,
gorgeous orchestral arrangement of that song and those horns doing that thing and that swinging. We were like, I know hip hop is great, but no, that beat that I just heard in that trace song, that isn't close to being as fat as the one I just heard backing up Bobby Darren in Mack the Knife. Like that's smoking. You were one age 15 years old. Oh, dude, even before that, for me, music was, it wasn't even a question. It was
It was a defining part of the essence of me.
Everything I did was music was just, you know, a fascination. And it's funny when many times parents will go like, my daughter is 14 and she's, and you have advice. She wants to be a singer. And I always, I have advice and it's like, listen to as much music and all of it. Like go across the board of every genre and download it and process it and steal all of it, steal the best parts of all of it and you will find yourself. But another thing I always say is fantasize.
Like dude, that it for me, I would fantasize about being on stage. I would fantasize about seeing them from the crowd. Every shower was another opportunity to go and fucking kill Madison Square Garden and know that that crowd in the shower was just lovely.
Madison's going on in the shower, you know, like, you know what I mean? Like I was 14. Absolutely. And like, thank God there wasn't like the voice of American Idol. Because if I was 13, I would have been in the shower saying like, Hey, Sam, and check this out. Did you sound good at that age?
Do you have recordings? Do you have recordings? Yeah man, I do. I do have recordings. Because I'm wondering how much of you... I have recordings when I'm 14 and it tripped me out because I sound... I don't know if it's good, but... Exactly the same. Exactly the same. What? And I think it was like...
It had to be you. I sound like that. I sound exactly like that. The same way. And what's weird is like, it wasn't like I put on an effect. That's what, that's how the voice sounded. And my buddies used to make fun of me. I had one of my best friends, Brad, would be in the bus.
And he goes, there's boob, like he's singing with that fake voice again. And even today, and he's still one of my best, literally one of my best friends, and we're drinking beer, and he's like, shut up, man. And he loves to sing too. But... I couldn't believe how much your grandfather and your father and your family...
supported you. When I was reading that your grandfather would trade plumbing work for you to go and do singing lessons, auditions, etc. That's unusual.
Because most parents would go, oh my god, my child's singing. That's not a career. No, I know. I know. It was uncomfortable too because he loved me so much. Listen, dude, my grandpa did more than just trade his plumbing things. He took me to auditions. They used to hire me to go work in the malls. And he got me like these gigs where they would pay me 20 bucks an hour. And then I would go to the mall and with a guitar player.
And I would like Bosque. I guess it's Bosque, it's what it is, right? And I would go or outside at Bosque, ground-vile in a place and he would just sit. And I loved it, man. I didn't care who was listening, where I was. I did anything. And... Who's the first song? The first time you performed in front of a people and got a reaction? The first song weirdly was a... I think it was a Christmas song. Really? Oh, it was because it was Christmas Eve. We were coming home from...
I've told the story many times, but we were coming home from my grandma and grandpa's on Capitol Hill. And I think it was like White Christmas or something. And my little sisters, I would have been 12, maybe 11, 12. My voice was just starting to change. And the girls were in the back. My two sisters are great, beautiful voices. And they were like, I'm dreaming of a white, great man.
With every movement part I write, and I think from the back I went, may your days be merry and bright. And it was like the whole car went hoo. And I think that was the first time they were like, what the fuck is that? Where did that just come from? And what's interesting is I think if I really am honest with myself and I look back,
That Bing Crosby was the first, because that was the first record in that style, and that played through the house at Christmas. That was my introduction to Big Band. That was my introduction to jazz. That was my introduction to that swinging feeling.
With that relationship with my granddad, he used to, we used to have some shag, he had just like a green shag carpet and he had a record machine that he attached to a cassette machine.
And we would sit down and we would just, I'm not kidding you man, hours. I loved it, I loved it. And I used to go with those cassettes and I'd a Walkman and I would just sit in bed and I would listen over and over. And then I would listen to each of these singers and I would learn the song for Grandpa and Grandma so I could come over the next day and I could sing for him. And I'd sit at the table with him and we'd, you know,
But I started to just steal. I mean, steal. Full on, steal. And I started to almost impersonate each of them. And I would listen to Frank Sinatra with the Pied Bipers.
there was ways that he would sing and I would try to emulate. So I would sit there and then I would, I would be like, I was a record player, you know, I'd come home and grandpa would say, okay, what's today? Stormy weather. And I'd say, don't know why. There's no sun up in the sky. Star me weather. I can't do it now, but, and then the next day would be okay. He'd go Dean Martin, Dean Martin and,
I'd say, I don't know why. I love you like I do. I don't know why I just do. And I would emulate them. God damn, I'd listen to the Mills brothers. And when I'm saying all of this, you probably have no idea sometimes what I'm talking about because, yeah, the way the Mills brothers are saying, there was this weird, I wanna buy a paper dough that I could call my own.
A door that other fella, or Nat, I'd just keep with the way he would open up, and everything was so. The very thought of you, and I forget to do. And there was all these things that I would just like, oh my God, I love that. And then I would steal it all. And I would try to emulate all of it. And then one day, you know, sitting with grandpa, I started realizing, okay, I'm starting to
Wow, grandpa, I'm starting. This is the way I do it now. Taking all those things. And that's what creativity is, right? There it is, man. And I've told the story too too many times, but I remember the first time I met Tony Bennett, I said, you know, Tony, I'm obviously, you know, I'm a huge fan. I've stolen so much from you and Bing and Frank and all of them. And he said, good. He said, because if you steal from one person, you're just a thief. But when you steal from everybody, it's research.
And I thought that was amazing. And I've told that 30 million times, too. But it was everything, man. Elvis was a big part of it. And I just all of those things that I loved. But why was your grandfather doing that in hindsight? Are you kidding me, dude? Yeah. Like, are you kidding me? So it was better than crack. For who? For both of us. It's my happiness. It's my passion. It's my thing.
And I love, he would have died to know that his grandson was continuing the legacy of our heroes. Because if he was being honest when I played Madison Square Garden for the first time and I said, did you think I'd get here? He said, oh no, no, definitely not. There's a clip of him on a documentary. He goes, no, I thought you'd be good. Maybe Vegas. But I just think it was because how could I? We were this,
My grandpa's a plumber and we're a fisherman. We didn't know anybody. We're never going to get to there. We didn't even know we're from Vancouver. We didn't even know anybody. How are we going to get to there?
Your story's not a straight line because you went and worked on those fishing boats as well. So it's not just you start singing it. My story isn't even a straight line from fishing boats to chucky cheese to working at restaurants to singing. There's 10 years of clubs. There's 10 years of me moving to Toronto. There's 10 years of me going into every company, not getting in the door. There's 10 years of every agent saying the exact same thing, every manager. I thought they had a fucking note that they would send each other.
the note that said, you're really talented. You're a great young kid. We just don't know what to do with you. Over to a point where I was like, you know what? Okay. I'm 26. It's too late. And in this business, you can, people can say, oh, 26. Now, dude.
is late. If you haven't been signed or you haven't made a bunch of noise at 26, 27, I don't think it's right. I think there should be late bloomers, but it isn't the usual, you know, like the record companies will be like,
So, I was going to go back to Canada, I was going to go back to Vancouver, and I was thinking about going to SFU or Douglas and taking up journalism. So, even then, once I was in Toronto, I got connected to the Prime Minister of our country, who their daughter was getting married, and she asked if I would sing at the wedding, because I had given an independent CD to another guy, some corporate gig I had done.
They said, I was like, yeah, okay, you know, what an honor, you know? And she was like, you know, David Foster will be there. And this producer who, and he's one of the biggest producers in the world, billions of, I mean, half a billion are billion records, I think. Okay, this is my chance. This is the shot for somebody to see me. But even then, after he saw me, this story didn't, it wasn't like,
He didn't, David Foster didn't say, you, I found my guy. He said, come to LA and you're on, he actually said you're on my radar now is what he said. Well, I didn't know that he had another 18 kids that were on his radar.
You know, I was, you know, man, I got, I was good. I was in the atmosphere now. You know, I was closer than I'd ever been to a real guy. Ten years in. Ten years in. They could make it. And I remember... I have to say, Michael, I think it's really very important not to brush past this ten years, because that is the no man's land.
that only passion could make someone wade through. And that is where 99% of people quit. And it's the bit that no one ever gets to see. So it's maybe the more important part of the journey, which is why does someone continue doing something for 10 years of their life when there's no Madison Square Gardens, there's no million dollar checks, and there's no fame and fortune?
Like, that's the S, because it's a recurring theme on my show that these very, very successful people, they did something which is objectively dumb, which was like, they gave up their amazing chance of being an academic and they went and played magic on a restaurant card tables. Comedians, you could have been a lawyer.
And now that, you know, it's funny. I was going to tell you today. I've watched your show religiously. And I was like, what if you just call yourself failure and why it's so great? Because it's like so many of the stories that are told across this table are.
I failed. I failed. They said no over and over again and over again. And I just continued to go for it. These people seem like they had no choice though. And when I say no choice, I mean, because of passion. You might listen to me, man. I'm going to say it's going to sound like it directly. It's sort of, I don't want it to be kind of sending it all, but half of that 10 years,
was gave me humility, gave me appreciation. For when it would happen, I would be appreciative and I would still have humility and I would still be able to be present and aware enough of how lucky I was. But the reason that I didn't stop in those 10 years was because
I knew I was the best in the world. I mean, no doubt that if the right person sees me, I am one of the greatest entertainers on earth. And all you need to do is come into my room and you don't have to pay to see me. You can be there just to drink booze and get laid. But by the end of the night, you'll know. How do you know that's not delusion? No, no. You know what? I knew because every room I ever walked into, I was such a, I was a sensitive
insecure kid, really sensitive. And I think that beautiful kindness and empathy that my family drove into me and my sisters is what made me that man on stage.
You understand this? Even now, man, I play 50,000 people, and if there's one looking at their watch, and I will play to that man. And my mission, my mission, I love the rest of 49,999 of you, but you. I'm not leaving here until I break you. I'm not leaving here until, you know,
You get, you might not, I might not be your cup of tea, I might not be your favorite, but you'll walk away and you'll say, okay, the kid's better than, yeah, he's okay, I get it.
One of your kids comes to you and says, dad, I know. And they go, dad, dad, they go, they go, dad is in. They sing and it's terrible. And then they go, dad, I know. And this is what I'm getting at. I was like, how do we know we're not just doing thing ourselves? Yeah. Well, you know, it's interesting you say that because if that was just me sitting in my bathroom mirror and going, I'm amazing. Yeah, that's, I understand that that's, but it wasn't. It was 10 years.
I don't care if it was a shopping mall or a street corner or a nightclub or a bar or a wedding or a funeral. Every room was the same. Every single room was the same. So why wasn't the industry letting you in? Why would they? I didn't do anything that was mainstream. I mean, I used to do, it was like I had an indie record. I would do indie festivals. It's so funny, man. I talk about it now. It's like, you know, I'm so like mainstream, whatever you want to call it, like where I could probably, you know,
You know, but I was like an indie act. It was a full on indie act. It was like doing weird shit that no one else was doing. And I think it was just so outside. Even, listen, David Foster, that David Foster producer I'm talking about, it's funny. He doesn't remember this way, but I remind him many times
that, like Dave, I say, Dave, when are we going to do this? You can produce my record. And he said, in quotations, I will never produce your record, and we will never sign you. Never. He had a very sweet assistant named Neil, who's a beauty, the sweetest kid. And when I see him once, I mean, I would see him, and he would laugh, and he would go, dude, I remember that I would say to you, just walk away, because this isn't going to happen for you.
You know, he's not, you're not, you're not the one. I remember he said to me, he got pissed with me because I again said to him, hey, man, come on, like, sign me. And he was like, you need to get out. You need to go. He said, like, listen, dude, I told you you're on my radar. You and another 19 kids are, you know, it's just not happening. And it, and it's funny because
The reason it happened when it came down to it was I was like, what do I need to do? Surely this is not impossible. Anyway, okay. It's this much a track and six tracks minimum and money.
And I was like, okay. And so this manager and I literally went back to Vancouver and she was an amazing woman. And she went door to door, bank to bank. And we found this incredible dude who underwrote and we bought the money. We brought the check. And I went to Davidson Malibu and said that we said, we got it. Here's the money. David's a massive producer. I think there was a hundred thousand a song.
And I think for David, I remember sitting up, he had this room of Malibu, and he had all the Grammys all over his piano. And I remember we were like, we got it. And he was like, you got it? It was like, well, okay. He said, but Warner will get the first ride of refusal. And even that wasn't the end of the story. We started making a demo.
that we ended up going, he got Paul Anka, do you know Paul Anka? No. Okay, well Paul is, I'll remind you of who Paul Anka is if you don't know. Paul at 16 or maybe 15 had written a song called Put Your Head On My Shoulder.
Put your head on my shoulder, or Diana, I'm so young and you're so old. You wrote another song called My Away. And now the end is near huge massive star. He's a Justin Bieber, okay? And he's still a huge star. He's still it. But he got involved.
And then he was like, you don't need that money. My guys will get the money. And for whatever reason, when we started making the record, that deal somehow fell through. And David was like, it's over. The money deal fell through. Yeah, the money deal fell through. And he was like, and it didn't work out. And somebody else will do this. And I was like, dude, you know, and there was another producer named Berta Gattika. He was another massive producer.
beautiful guy and he said he took me to the car I was destroyed because I was this I was there I was making the record it was I was four songs into making a record and
And then it was done. And David was like, I'm really sorry, Mike. It's just not gonna happen. Why didn't you quit? Like Neil told you to. Well, a big deal was Umberto. And he said, he's a Chilean guy. And he said, hey, boo, man, you need a, he said, you need a, I drive you to your apartment. And I was dead. Like I was, I had it. I was there, dude. It was there in my hand.
It was there, and then it was gone. And he drove me home, and I remember he parked, I lived in Westwood. I'd rented this little place in Westwood. And Umberto parked the car outside, and he looked at me, and he said, okay, Michelito. He said, they were frustrated as a strong guy, but he doesn't like confrontation at all. He said, here's what you're gonna say to him.
And he literally told me what to say. And about three days later, David had brought me and hired me to do something that I think was for Kenny G and his wife at the time at a anniversary party. And I said, David, can I speak to you? And he said, like, OK. And I took David to this other little room beside the banquet hall.
and literally regurgitated word for word, you know, what Ombarita had told me to tell this guy. You know, David was my hero, right? David was a scary guy. You know, you looked, wow, this is my, and basically the gist of the conversation was, we have done something incredible. We have four or five songs here that are, you know, they're amazing. Please give me one opportunity to go to Warner Brothers Records.
and to speak to the president and play my case. And if he doesn't want me, I will never ever bother you again. You'll never hear from me again. You want me to show up and do stuff for you. I'll do it, but I'll never ask that question again.
He was like, okay, and I don't think he did love confrontation. And I remember he called me about a day, two days later, and he said, let's see what a 26-year-old kid knows about the record business. And I went into Warner Records in Burbank.
Maybe probably the scariest day of my life, of my life. And wood building, you know, look up on the wall and in its prints, and Tom Petty, and Madonna, and Red Hot Chili Peppers, and like, you know, holy shit, you know.
And I sat in the meeting with Wally, Tom Wally is the president, and he's like real good looking dude, like imagine like Eric Stoltz or something, but you know, as that, you know, the executive and, you know,
He sat down in the office, and I think he said, well, why should we sign you? We have Sinatra and Repris. I think that's one of the first things he said. Sinatra and Repris, what does that mean? So Repris was a subsidiary of Warner that Frank had started. And they had Frank on the label. They had Sinatra on Repris. And he said, why should we sign you? We have Frank. Must be like getting to the Pearly Gates and having one opportunity.
to get in. And I said, with all due respect, Mr. Wally Frank's dead. Don't bear the music. I said, I will keep it alive. I love it. I cherish it. I will break my ass for you. I will go out there and I will will this to be great. And he sat. He listened to the four demos. And then two days later, I had flown my grandfather down to LA.
Because I mean, it's funny when I walked out with David that day, I say, thank you, David, for putting your balls on the line for me like that. I said, so what do you think? And he looked at me and he said, I think you did a great job. But Mike, I have no idea what that meant. He had no idea. And honestly, I don't think he had any concept when we walked out of those doors.
what Mr. Wally was gonna say, you know? And then two days later, I flew my grandfather down to his grandpa, I can't do this, I need you, man. So he flew down to LA and that little Westwood apartment, and I was down on the treadmill. And the door sort of flung open, and he and the manager at the time, Bev, they opened the door and they were just crying, you know? I said, you know. Come on, baby. Yeah, come upstairs, come upstairs. Come upstairs, you know?
And so we took the elevator up and I grabbed the telephone and said, hello. And David said, hey, Mike, man. And I said, hi, David. And he said, hey, Mike, man, I want to welcome you to Warner Brothers Records. And I want you to know, we have you back and you're never going to have to worry again. And it was like, man, it was, I don't know. And again, dude, it sounds like that's the end of the story, but
That wasn't the end because the record came out and it was awesome. But I believe I debuted at 198 on Billboard. And I had a manager named Bruce Allen. He was known as one of the greatest manager in the business and still is. And he said to me, kid, you're an American signed act, but it's not killing it. There's not a ton of interest. He said, would you consider
going to Southeast Asia in Africa. And I was like, yeah, I'll go anywhere you want. And I did, dude. I just started going to all the, and then that's where it happened. I made it. And my first big hit was in the Philippines, South Africa. I started to do pretty good. I'd sold a couple of million records. And my manager Bruce would call and he would say, Hey kid, you want to go to Germany?
I'd say, like, what's in German? Well, they got about eight journalists there. And you'd be singing in the Hyatt lobby doing a showcase. And, you know, and I guess there might have been a thought at even that point. Maybe that's beneath. And I was like, no shit, man. Go. Yeah. And I did it, dude. I just went literally, man. I did that in all over Asia, Switzerland, German, Poland. Dude, you named the country and I shot up and did a showcase.
What age were you and you thought, shit, this is, you know, this is big now? Probably 30, 29. So it's like it's happened late for me, man. Like this whole thing happened late. I was really, for what isn't the norm? Yeah, man. I didn't know what I had my first taste of fame at maybe 28.
And it was in the Philippines. And I went to get sushi at a mall in Manila. And there was a security guy who was like, don't go without me. And I was like, yeah, sure. And I went and went and bought sushi. And then all of a sudden, I was surrounded by all these beautiful Filipinos speaking Tagalog and asking for pictures. And I was like, and, uh,
I remember he was really pissed with me. He was really upset that I hadn't taken him to security. I was like, why, I don't need security. And then he took me, we went up to my room and I was like, dude, I'm sorry. Like that was crazy. Like I've met, this is crazy. I feel like.
Backstreet Boy or something, you know, like they were there. And then he, I remember that he opened the curtain and this curtain opened and it was a building facing us and the, dude, the full building was just my face. Yeah. And I was like, oh shit, I understand now. This is, dude, it was so new, you know. When you've had to fight to get there for say 14, 15, 16 years, whatever it is,
Is there a part of you that is sort of innately scared of losing it in a way that someone who just got it like that might not appreciate? Yeah, there was. For sure there was. And does that result in work? There is for all this. There is for you. I'm sure you sit and go like, I'm kicking ass right now, but you know what?
Well, you know, why? Because naturally, everything that goes up must come down. No, there's no, there is no career. I don't give it. I don't care if you're a school teacher or you're a doctor. I mean, nothing just continues to go. I mean, you have to understand that there are peaks and valleys and that there are times when you might not be the hottest, but those are the times when you continue to stay true to the brand, you know, you don't panic. It's hard not to panic. Like I was talking about Paul Anka, but
You know, Paul is very sweet, like he'll call me. Just out of the blue and he'll go like, hey dude, you're the man. Don't trip. You know, whatever you're feeling, if you're feeling it's up or down, just keep doing your thing, man. Be sure of yourself. Don't panic. And it's beautiful. It's a beautiful, you know, and listen, for me, having four kids.
And a wife that is my favorite human being on the whole planet, that made it makes the process of that worry easier because, you know, it's funny, dude. I was terrified yesterday that event, terrified man. I wanted to be great and scary to be in front of you peers. That's something you know is so important. And this morning I woke up and I was brushing my teeth and I was on FaceTime with my wife and the kids, you know.
And she said, okay, how are you? How do you feel? And it was like, I said, listen, Lou, I said, faith number one, my family number two, and my career, a really, you know, a distant third. And so for me, I'm blessed to really feel that. Because of course I get scared, man, I don't want to lose it. And there's a million ways to lose it.
But I also haven't put all of my eggs into that one basket. Has it always been as clear the process? No, man. No. Of course not. Absolutely not. And by the way, there can be times where my fault self allows that to change. My fault self. Yeah, my fault self. I would say the ego.
I, you know, I, you know, I should read more Eckhart Tolle and Power of Now and I tell stories about the hockey team that I'm a part owner of the Vancouver Giants. It talks about aid the ages, how substantial that is. But he's a big part of my life too, you know, and by the way, practicing to get to this place where it's really easy to let your fears and your fault self give you these negative messages and
And it was helpful for me to understand that I could control that, you know, not allowing those negative things to get a hold of me. One of my sort of deep, I think existential fears is that I'm not gonna have my priorities in the right order and I'm gonna find out too late. I've said this a few times on this show. I'm scared that as a guy who's like spent on a 12 years building businesses and pursuing success in whatever form,
that life is going to tell me, Steve, at the moment when you needed to have your priorities and order they weren't, or maybe you want to have a family or a wife or something, you know, what was it that changed illuminated the true nature of what your priorities should be? I listen, like I said to you before, this whole thing starts with family. And I have never been so out of touch because I have too good of a family. My mom and dad are just
They're just two beautiful people and my grandparents. Listen, I may not do it, but I know what the difference is between right and wrong and putting ego first. I don't want to get too deep into it because it's not that it is uncomfortable for me, but my son has his own life and his own story. My son's cancer diagnosis rocked my world.
It pulled a curtain from over my eyes. And I don't want to get deeper into it, but I can tell you that I don't think that I had what you're talking about. I don't think I had context. And that was a sledgehammer to my reality. And I will never be carefree again in my life. And that's okay.
It is a privilege for me to exist. And that pain, the fear, the suffering that comes with those sort of things is, I guess it's part of that.
beautiful, this life. But if I wasn't clear, and I wasn't clear, and it's interesting, because when it actually happened, I was going through, I think, a crisis. Really, the crisis that you're talking about. I don't think I had my priorities straight.
I mean, I always, my family was always a love of, you know, I think I don't think I was a terrible guy, but dude, it was the Liners' career, you know, ambition. How do I become the baddest, biggest, best, you know?
more ego, more power, more money, more. And on Halloween, however many years ago that was, dude, it's like life was lived with like a curtain in front of me, like a filter. And the moment that they said, this is what's happening. That reality hit me.
Filter gone. Filter gone. And I mean, in a moment, in one moment, gone, and I went, okay, this is it. This is life. This is it. This is what's important.
And that's when that's when it's not like I thought about it. It didn't. There was no time to process it. It was you have your priorities. This is what your priorities are. And this is what your priorities must be in order to be happy in your life. And it is. I just can't imagine. Yeah, it's faith family. And a member of my family got diagnosed with
a very similar illness. And I remember where I was and where I stood when I got that call in. Again, I'd been running, you know, just in my own little world, hadn't called them in a while, wasn't really in touch with them. And then in that exact moment, it made me realize the true reason why I do what I do. Like I, you know, and that my life should never have been so focused on self in such a way, if that makes sense. Yeah, of course, absolutely. Absolutely. Do I remember being at CHLA?
I remember peeing in a stall. I know it sounds weird and it's not sexy, but I remember just sitting in the stall, standing there, you know? The children's hospital. Yes, sir. And I remember closing my eyes and saying to myself, if we get out of this, if we get out of this, I'm living a different life.
a better life. And I did. I made that promise to myself in like a moment, you know. I want to be kinder.
I want to be more empathetic. I don't ever want to allow that ego and that false self to take over. I want to know how lucky I am. And dude, I'm a lucky man. I just look at my wife. It's like, how did that happen? How did I get this incredible human being who's the best of all of us to lead me through and carry me through these things?
Yeah. I was just thinking about, goes back to what I was saying about how I don't want life to show me my priorities, especially as it relates to my romantic relationships where you can end up in divorce court or you lose something and you think, what are all these gold coins worth?
No, no, no, dude, it's funny, you know, we've all had those moments too, like listen, much younger, I had that moment where I was like, oh dude, do you like you? Do you trust you? Do you respect you? And then I was like, if you don't, you're expecting that person to or any person to, maybe you're asking too much. I hope we're allowed to look at ourselves in the mirror and man is so easy to lie to other people, but it's even easier to lie to yourself.
You know, don't it's so easy and it's like I Hope everybody has the chance to Figure your way to do it. I don't know what it is or how you get there if you need like medicine or mushrooms or whatever it is But like to look in the mirror and to go these are the things that I think I suck at and
And I really do. I hope within us there's an opportunity for all of us to have that self-diagnosis and honesty. And they go, yeah, I can do better than that. I, on this podcast so many times, I've spoken to parents about grief, but I've never really shone a light on
just the trauma of going through moments like that, and really the blast radius of knock on effects to that person's life that it can have, implications to their mental health. Your son, Noah, is it Noah? And you've got four wonderful kids out here. Is doing great? 10 years old? 10 years old? Yeah. But for all the priorities and the cut and that it pulled back, is there still a healing process there that
needs to have it happen that you typically see similar to grief, if you know what I'm saying? Oh, no, no, no, because you already, I think any parent, I mean, now I've become, I've had such great relationships with so many parents and people, not just come through this. I mean, listen, man, going through any kind of thing with, like, you know, you're not going to get away without it, man. I don't know if you have already, but... I haven't had kids yet. No, I'm not talking about kids. I'm talking about your siblings or your mom and dad, or are you all going to go, I mean, it's just a part of life.
It takes a piece of us, you know? Like, my grandpa, man, I miss my grandpa every day. But that's life. That's a part of life. And I don't know that any of us even have the capacity to deal with it. I think it's why, obviously, we move to faith. Something feels good about hoping that there's something more.
But men in the mental health, we don't talk about these things. No, dude, you must be soft. Don't be soft. I'm no crying. I'm guilty of this more than anyone, especially as a CEO. And I've been a CEO since I was 18 and I had hundreds of employees. So I can't, I felt like I couldn't flinch. Yeah. But how do you, can I ask you, how do you, because you are a brand now, man?
Okay, I know you're a beautiful, nice guy, a human being, but dude, there's a brand, it's a brand, and I know you have people on your team, and I know you have a team that, like, they come to you and say, we'd love you to do this, and your team goes, you can't do that. That is off brand. How do you... How do you...
Are you able to, because you're in the wave, man, that tidal wave is moving, but you're inside it. All you got, all your people on top, and they can all kind of see, how do you deal with it? Like, what do you do? Do you feel it? Do you think you're self-aware enough to know
what the brand is, or how to protect it, or how to move it forward. I think it comes back to this point about authenticity. You know, you know when something is you and when it's in line with you, and you know when you're kind of abandoning yourself. Some signal inside of me goes, you know, you know, this isn't right. Especially if someone offers you a lot of money to do something. Yeah, sure. Oh, God. Oh, I know that's not so fortunate.
Go ahead. No, I was going to say, this shows a good example, which is a good question. What are the sponsors? The sponsors are companies that I are in line with my values. So, you know, my, my, my Zoe, my, you know, the products that I, and I also, I'm a shareholder in those companies. They're supposed to podcast and I'm in the team. Yeah. That's a good example that wears some brands on, on our lines. Yeah. I think what I meant even more than just brands is like, you know, I'm, you don't understand. I'm, I'm two different people, right?
Who's who's the other guy? Well, the other guy is this is me. I'm Michael Buble. Yeah, I'm an idiot who is I think sweet and So you got a map a little bit. Well, I did the other guy from stage. Yeah, but that's that's a completely different dude That guy that's Michael Buble. This is I'm Mike Fantasy football hockey loving idiot who you know
you know, is a bigger idiot than you, than you're seeing here. Even I'm a little bit more of the suit guy, right? Oh, fuck. Yeah, man. Like, I would say closer to Michael Scott from the office. But dude, every night I go and I put on this suit. And then when I walk out on stage, I become the guy that I always wanted to be.
He is so cool and Teflon, and he says all the right things and nothing can, and I can be goofy, but you know, but there's this, there's an other, I mean. Can I meet him? Oh dude, you're gonna meet him.
You're going to meet them. I'm going to make sure that the whole world meets them. For 20 years, I have done the same thing. It's been cyclical. Michael writes and makes a great record. And then I go and I promote it. I go to 40 countries and promote it. And then I go into it for a year and a half. And for 20 years, it has been write it, promo it, tour it.
and I feel like I'm at this point of my life and my career where I want to do something different. Listen, again, music will never, it will always be my happy place and my love. But I need time to do some other stuff, man. I need time to challenge myself and to wake up and go, yeah, this is different and fun.
And it's really, it's about being that other guy, not the suit guy. Being Mike. Being Mike, man. And doing that, whether that's in movies or television or whatever it is, it has to happen now. Why? Because dude, this is my favorite part of me. And I've never really, there was just, it was just too good. All the other stuff was so
because I love the other stuff. I love touring. I love, like, I love making money doing that. That's amazing, dude. What's the symptom telling you that you should do more of Mike and less of Michael? Well, just that I, honestly, truly, the excitement of doing something different, you know? Like, yeah, it's time to, it's time to take that challenge. It's time to take that trip, you know? Like, and I know it's there. The same way I kind of told you, like, that I had so much faith in,
in knowing like, hey man, I think I'm a pretty good voice and I'm a good entertainer. If I do this, I have the potential to really have fun doing that at a level I think I can do.
for the challenge as well, for the pursuit of... Yeah, it's fun to wake up and go like, you know what? Instead of that same cycle, I'm going to do the record, make the record, sell the record. The musical, again, will always be there, but I need to express myself in a different way for me, man. And it really isn't for them.
It isn't for the audience, it's for me, it's like. But is there a moment where something happens? Because I'm trying to put this into my world or whoever's listening as well. Is there a moment where you wake up, then you go, I'm just a little bit less excited and it's just falling below the level of excitement that I need to do this again? No, because honestly, genuinely,
I love being out with, I love making, dude, I just, the music is just, it fills me up with happiness, you know? So the second, I mean, I just did, I lived like a corporate gig the other night with my voice and this band has been with me for 20 years. They're my brothers, man. So I get up there and it's like, I'm home.
You know? And it's like, it's fun. It's fulfilling. It's everything. But dude, it's IMS fulfilled in acting. You know? When this tour started to wrap down and I was like, you know what? I want to have fun doing something a little different.
everyone can relate to that in their own context, because when you have a comfort zone per se, something you're really good at, and then you have the rewards also will align with the thing that you've developed mastery in. It's very easy to spend a decade doing or two decades doing that thing and wake up one day and go, shit, I'm a lawyer. Why am I lawyer again? Because it paid really well and I did it. But that doesn't necessarily mean it'll make you happy, right? Totally. And I think the branding stuff, I definitely had an impact where all of a sudden,
It wasn't, we want you to come and sing something. It was like, you know, we want you. Yeah. We want Buble to do a bubbly commercial. We want Buble to show up and do an Azza commercial. We want, you know, we want you to be the face of our thing. We want you to, and I was like, okay, well, what do I sing? And they were like, no.
No, we don't want you to sing. We want you to be your idiot. That has to add that I just did. I don't know if you've seen it. That was like getting to sit with Tycho Watiti, who's one of my favorite directors and writers of all time, and to have him direct this thing. I had so much fun, and it wasn't singing.
It was literally, we had this talk about the concept and we were like, what if I'm this, I was like, what if he said to me, like, dude, dude, what if you're the head of quality control? And I was like, yes. And I think I know what exactly I'm an asshole who has no idea what I'm doing.
You know, egotistically, I am, you know, and he understood exactly what I was going for. And we laughed. It was like three days of us just.
No, just laughing, laughing at ourselves, laughing. And that just, I was so happy. And it's like another reason why I'm like, man, this is my personality, this is me. Where'd you go for support, Michael? When you're struggling or when you're trying to figure out these sort of impasses in life, have you ever been to therapy? Do you speak to each other? Yeah, I've been to therapy, but I don't know.
I don't know what to say, man. I don't know if it worked for me. It felt good to talk about stuff. But then after about four times, I was like, am I bullshitting right now? Am I just telling her something just to fill up the hour? Because I sort of went through my big stuff.
And the therapy doesn't feel like it worked very well. Amen. For me, listen, my relationship, again, with God, and that brings me far more satisfaction.
And so that, for me, and by the way, and like my wife, like being able to say to my wife, like, and I'm so honest with her, I'm like, hey dude, I'm not doing good with this thing. And she's like, well, it's still being an idiot, you know? That's very fast. My partner's, I think that's part of the role of being a wonderful partner, is that they call you. God, I love you that you're opening it. Are we allowed to drink this? We are allowed to drink it if you want to drink it. My morning just got way better.
I just found this on the phone. No, it didn't really. Fraser and Thompson. Yes, sir. This is a whiskey brown that I'm holding in my hands. Yes, sir. You have built in a building with an incredible team of whiskey experts. I know nothing. They've told me that you're driving this business and incredibly involved, which is... Oh, yeah. I'm involved in this.
But what do I know about whiskey? No, I mean, I don't know if you hear that phrase or in Thompson. I know that, listen to me, I know that if you don't know what you're doing, you hire and bring in the greatest people in the universe who literally hold your hand and tell you what to do. And you know that when you find a guy like Paul Serka, who is one of the greatest whiskey connoisseurs in the world and he,
And then you ask him how big his brewery is. And he tells you idiot is called a distillery, not a brewery. You realize that you don't know what you're talking about. But this is you. You know, I could pull from a lecture. Three years. Three years. I tell you what, I worked three years because I wasn't going to be part of something that I didn't love. And the truth, man.
We tried to reverse engineer a whiskey for people that may not love whiskey. And, you know, I know that there's high-falutin, fancy, dancy whiskeys that we can talk about, the oakiness of the barrel. And they've been aged 47 years. And this isn't that. This is an approachable drink that truthfully I love. And as you're opening it, my mouth is going like,
And my wife loves it, and my friends all love it, and all the whiskey snobs I know like it, and I'm so proud of it. And Paul Serca, you know who that is, but he's a star. Well, I've read about him. Three years. And we went, I was a pain in the ass, and I drove them all crazy. I've researched, I was researching photos of you and Paul, and seeing you down at the distillery. I mean, at least I grew up. I know. Fraser and Thompson, where does the name come from? That's for my grandpa.
Because when I was a kid, my grandpa used to take us up to camping. And in British Columbia, we have the Fraser River. It's like the muddy Fraser. And we have the mighty Thompson, which is glacial water. And they come together in this beautiful confluence.
And the truth is that it was an attribute to my grandfather, but better than that, as they said to me, you know, we have the juice, now we need a name. And like, it was all these stupid idea, like, boobly, blah, blah, and serenade in blue and all these musical things. And I was like, and every time I come up with a good one, like some I thought was like real cool and sophisticated, they'd be like, that one's taken. And finally, I was like, you know what, why don't I just,
They tribute to my grandpa, who is my guy. And it's funny, man, if you look on the bottle, there's all these little hidden Easter eggs, like his birthday's on. 1927? Yes, sir. Born at the fork of two rivers, Fraser and Tumps. Yeah, and doesn't it just smell so good? It sounds, the branding, you've nailed it. No, you have because there's a story there, and it's a very authentic story, but the smell. Yeah.
You know what I really like? I actually pour out a little bit of the bottle and then I take like this, I take like brown sugar, I mix it up and I put like brown sugar in there with vanilla and a little bit of bitters. And then I smash an orange and I just put it in the freezer. And it's weird cause my wife was never a whiskey drinker. But again, that's what it was for. It was to make an approachable, delicious whiskey for everybody. And you know what I really like about it?
We were talking about money. So I was like really happy that we could come up with what it was. I think it was like 35, 40 bucks. And I was like, that is great value. Cause my dad as a fisherman, he talks about value all the time. Cause even in my ticket sales, he's like, if, you know, son, if you just bring them, if you give them value for their money, they'll come back. You know, if they feel that they've been ripped off, you'll never see them again. So that was part of the whole thing.
Are you scared? No, can I drink it a little bit? Because you keep touching it. We have a little... Ah, here we go. I'm scared of getting wasted with you at the time. No, it's like a reinvention, isn't it? It's a new mountain to climb building a whiskey company. It is... What's nicer to do than what brand? It's so me, dude. It's just... It's an easy thing. It's me. And again, you know how we were talking about the challenge of it?
We were talking about the challenge. This isn't just me. This is my wife. We're partners. This is my best friend Ron, my dad, my manager Bruce. We're all like, this is our thing. It was like part of that thing of when, what can we do that's fun and like,
and new. It would be really nice to make a billion dollars too. I have a feeling it's going to do extremely well because it has all the core components of just a beautiful brand and product. It's gorgeous in every respect. I'm sorry, man. I don't even know what to say. You know what? I hate selling shit. Can I be honest with you? I really do. I feel itchy.
But I just hope people will go and however they need to do it, get it free. What do you want to do? I want them to just try it. I feel like if people just try it, they'll go like, boobly, boobly, you don't suck. I actually, one of the first things I did was called Ryan Reynolds. Oh, yeah. Because this company is the same. These, my partners are the same as Ryan with his aviation, Jen, right? And so I called Ryan and I was like, Ryan, do.
What do I do?" And he was like, Mike, just have fun, dude. Like, have fun. I was like, Ryan, but I don't know what I'm doing. And he was like, I didn't. He goes, you don't have to know it.
Let the other people that are helping make it and then let them know what they're doing. He said, just have to just be yourself and have fun. It's really incredible. So, you know, one of the things I always think about people that become really successful, I always wonder if it's a curse in a way because you've been such a successful artist. You've been, I mean, your Christmas record was released in 2011. I'm so sorry about that.
And I'm told it is one of the best-selling albums of the 21st century. Isn't that crazy? You know, it's cute yesterday when I was on the bus. I was driving to the White House because of the Kennedy Honors. My first time, you know, I think I was the only Canadian. And Sigourney Weaver was behind me. And I was sitting with Sheila Easton. And there was all these fancy people on the bus. And I got on the bus.
and we got to the White House and the first thing that I heard was me going, have a little Christmas. It's the best time. And I was like, oh, shit. I am so sorry. Has that ever bothered you that you're so, you were so successful with that Christmas album that you hear yourself every Christmas? No, at first, you know, it's funny, like about seven years into it.
I was like, I was like, because, you know, all I would get was calls it, like especially to come October. It was like, if you were a famous person with a movie or a record, I was, you were calling me. Like, I'm not even exaggerating. Like, it was, you know, and I would get so excited. It was like, oh my God, you know, this, oh my God, my heroes call. Are they gonna ask me to be in the film? Are they gonna do what? And it would be like, so we're doing a Christmas and I'd be like, oh, shit.
Um, it's actually funny Jack Jack Whitehall. You know, Jack? He called me the other day. He's like, my God, this idea. And I was like, you're going to say Christmas aren't you? And he was like, yes. And I was like, Jack, I love dude. Um, it's interesting. We were talking about my son and that moment, but that again was an epiphany moment for me where I was sitting in the hospital room and I was like,
Oh my God, I am now synonymous with this beautiful time of year where people don't treat each other like assholes. And there's kindness and goodness. And this is, I get to be a part of this. And then people invite me into their homes at a time that is everything to them and their connection with the people they love and their memories.
And then I started getting deeper, and I was like, oh my God, oh my God, they're not going to, the people aren't going to remember shit when I died. They're not going to remember home or the duet or this whiskey. I guess my favorite song. Excuse me. You know what I mean? Like it goes, you know what I mean? But I'm like, dude, 200 years from now, when I am dead, isn't dead, you know?
People are going to be saying, have a hollagellic Christmas. I'm going to be there. It's so cool. It's so fucking tight. It's so cool. Yeah. I associate you with great memories, good times. And I have to say, home is my favorite song. Oh, dude, I love you. Thank you. I mean,
I was in karaoke before you came and I was like, are you joking? Really? No, it's on video. That's amazing. I went on YouTube. I went put on Michael Buble at home and I had a lyric video. We're going to do karaoke. And there was four of us. I was the only one singing and I can't sing. But I sang, I know every word. I know every word of that song. Thank you. What's your favorite song? Other Christmas stuff? No, no, no.
Oh, of anything? Yeah. No, of songs that you sing and that you... Yes, songs that you sing. Songs that I sing? Of the standards? Your own or some else? Oh my God, there's so many. Just one. It's impossible.
It's impossible, man. It's impossible for me. Home? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Another summer day has come and gone away in Paris or home, but I want to go home, but yeah, because this place sucks.
I should have been the lyric. It's so weird, you know, not to get too deep and too weird, but I have this friend Dion, and I love doing his acts in the South African. And before I wrote that song,
I remember he used to say, oh my God, Pochik. He's from South Africa. He'd say, oh my God, you know what? The greatest artists in the world just opened up their mind to the universe. And they let the universe in. So when you're writing, just open up your mind to the universe. And I was in the shower. And I was like, and I was like, you know what? I'm going to open up my mind. It's so weird. But I was like, you know, enter. And I think weirdly enough,
for whatever reason I had like Canon and D in my head. I just want another summer day has come and gone away in Paris or Rome but I want to go home and the whole literally almost the whole I mean that and the pre
Well, in two minutes, I remember getting out of the shower with a towel, and those things, we didn't have the iPhone or anything, right? I had like one of those little tape recorders. And I remember singing a tape recorder and listening back and going, oh, no, no, I've most definitely stole this from somewhere. I stole this from someone. And it was cool. And at that point, too, my record company, they were like, we don't want original songs. You're the Frank guy, man. You're going to sing the standards. And I was like, no, I think I write.
It's weird. Even as I got on to writing other songs, the second record, I wrote everything and hold on or lost to one of the songs. And I remember the president of the label. We were at the video shoot for everything. And he said, man, I wish I would have known that you wanted original music because we would have hired, we would have hired writers for you. And I was like, oh my God, this is terrible. But it's weird, man. I live in a weird place artistically, too.
You know what I mean? I don't belong. I never did. I never did. Like, I go to those Grammys and stuff, and I would, like, look around, and I was, like, I was not in the pop thing, and I was not in the classical thing, and I wasn't in a jazz thing.
So many times I was like early on, I was like, what am I? This is weird. Like I'm doing standards and yet my, you know, I'm on the radio. It was weird, still weird sometimes. I think about this when you say this and I go, but isn't not blogging how you end up.
doing these kind of numbers, because if you were more of the same artistically, vocally, you wouldn't have have all these Grammys and all the best-selling six multi-platinum albums, five Grammy Awards, more billions of streams than I could possibly count. I stream myself a lot. But if you were like everybody else,
you wouldn't have those achievements. Yeah, I don't know. It just feels lonely. Like sometimes I look at like, like I go to those awards show even last night at the Kennedy Center Honors. I feel like everybody knew each other. Like they kept like high-fiving. And then there was like this group of Broadway people that all know each other from the functions they don't brought when there was like cool pop people. And like, and then there was like me. And I was like, I saw Herbie Hancock. I was so excited. I love Herbie Hancock.
but I didn't want to go in it. He was talking to Chi Rivera and I love her too, and I didn't want to be that guy that went in. But you know what I mean? I don't know where. I mean, maybe I'll never know where. I really belong. But I'm trying to say that that's why you're so special. I don't know. Even with what I do here, I absolutely don't feel like I belong anyway. I'm not a journalist and I'm not qualified to do this. Yeah. They don't invite me to the award shows for journalists and media. I'm not invited to that. How does that work?
No, I don't know. I don't know where we sit. I don't even know what we are. Are we a podcast, but it's on TV? It's a, this is on planes. It's on chat. Yeah. So you do have that sense of like someone's going to come up to you and tap your go. What are you doing? Yeah, it's interesting because I feel like I, if you ask me, if someone asked me about you, I would, I would, I would in a sentence be able to.
Define what I would I feel is please give me this. Oh, man. I honestly think watching you and watching this shown like I have for years is a perfect mix of education and entertainment. I don't know how else to say it. It's like really it really is. It's both things. I'm often highly entertained by what's happening. But at the end, I feel like I
I was educated. I learned something, either something that is...
you know, either ideas or philosophies, or sometimes it's literally, literally, logistic science, where, you know what I mean? I can't tell you how weird that is to hear from you, someone that I've looked up to since I was, I kid at home in Plymouth all those years ago watching my TV, four kids, Michael. I know. They come to you now, line up in front of you here, and they go, Daddy, listen.
just need some advice on this thing called life. Yeah. You know, you've lived a great life and it's twisted and turned and all those wonderful things. Daddy, what should we know about the nature of living a good life and? I say that I do that. They ask me. They don't ask me in that way. You know, it's going to say to you. They ask me and I say, I told you right now, I have the same, I have the same answer every time. I say, reach isn't what you think it is, kid.
That word rich that your friends use, rich sounds like money and stuff and things and Lamborghinis and tickets to go see it. Massy. That's not rich. Rich is having a strong faith. Rich is having a great family and loving your family. Rich is having great friendships because those rich things, they're talking about the money. The people that I know that have the most stuff are the most miserable people that I know.
And I don't know how else to, to explain it, you know, those are all be, it's lovely. Listen, it's easy to say, right? It's easy for somebody watching this podcast to go like, well, that's easy for you to say, booble, you know, you got a bunch of stuff, but it doesn't take long to realize that life has nothing to do with stuff. And we're all sitting on that deathbed. We're all going to die every single one of us. And nobody looks back and says, yeah, I wish I collected more stuff. What would you regret if that was this, if today was that day? Nothing, my friend.
Not a thing. Not one thing. Not one thing. I have lived a beautiful life.
I have been so blessed. I don't even think it was like I made this thing guy, you know? I got a great family. I got beautiful. You know, my wife is the best thing I ever loved to me. And I got kids. I look at my four kids. I mean, I was scared to have the fourth one. I was like, oh, my God. I'm that. How are you? And then I now I look at this little girl, Cielo, and I think like, whoa, how could I ever? How did I live without her? Like this, like this gorgeous little fat, little beautiful personality. Like, you know, not a thing.
And I say it's funny. I said it to my wife many times, you know. God forbid, you know, it's my time. I've said it many times. I would just know that I am completely satisfied. Satisfied. I have lived a full and beautiful life and that I have no regrets. Except that I didn't drink more of this whiskey faster.
Your story is so incredible. The thing that, I mean, the perseverance at the heart of your story and where you come from and the fantasizing about the life that you now lead, all of those things are so unbelievably inspiring because there's so many people out there that are, you know, they're Michael at 14.
Yeah. Maybe they're Michael at four, you know, maybe they are that fantasizing Michael that was 14, but maybe they're 44 and they're still holding out hope that maybe those dreams that ballet dancing in the hills of Peru or that playing the piano or starting that business. Is it too late for them? And no, dude, this is going to sound so cheesy, but.
Dude, I say this to people all the time. I just did a masterclass thing for these beautiful kids. These underprivileged kids, basically, it was in Orange County, and they didn't have music programs in their school. And the first thing I said to all of them was I talked about in the other grass, Tyson.
And I said, you know, the greatest scientist on the planet will tell you that nothing cannot make something. Something cannot come from nothing. I mean, I don't care how many times they run the experiment. Something cannot come from nothing. It cannot exist yet somehow.
You magical little beasts walk into a room with absolutely nothing, and you walk out with something. You are defying gravity. You are your magicians. And listen, we will be crushed in relationships.
Our partners will break our hearts. We will have businesses that fail. We'll have doors shut on us. They'll say, no to us a million times. But if you're lucky enough to have something like music or a passion that you really fall in love, it will never hurt you. It will never leave you. It'll stay loyal to you. And to me, it's a massive gift. And it's funny. It's going to sound like a really strange transition. But I love TikTok.
And my wife said to me, go on TikTok. I said, like, I'm too famous to go on TikTok. And she was like, you are TikTok. She was like, you will love it. And I was like, no, I'm not going to love it. And then I did my stupid TikTok. And I did a dumb, whatever it was, the first TikTok. And then I started to like, I was like, oh, you can go. It's not just about making the TikTok, which I, because I'm an idiot, it was fun. It was about, oh, wow, you can go through TikTok.
And then the addiction began. And the addiction wasn't about saying stupid TikToks. The addiction was finding those people you're talking about.
And that was like, oh my God, like if I don't know where my phone is, here's my phone, it's in my butt. I could go on to TikTok and can I just, man, do this? Look at him. This is gonna be weird, but okay, here's a good example. There's a girl named Julia Michelle voice. That's what she goes under. I think she was making TikToks from her.
her, maybe her parents' house or something, I don't want it. But I heard her voice, and I was like, oh my God, she has a beautiful voice. And I never would have, in the way that our structure of business used to exist. And the record label's in store. Dude, I never would have heard her. And then there's a girl named Useless Farm, who works on a farm where she has emus that attack her.
And Adam Rose, who is an actor, who is, anyway, I deeply love that I can go on TikTok and it's exactly what you're talking about where I see these people and I'm like, oh my God, you are tremendous. People need to know. And it's funny, because now with some of them, it's happening. It's exactly what we were talking about where it was just inevitable, Mr. Anderson.
People were going to find out because they're really good. You know what I mean? It's just... But life just tells you to fucking get your shit together and go get a real job. I know, but I think it might be in this business, it might be changing a little bit with platforms like TikTok where, you know, I know it sounds so goofy, but like, dude, I love that there's a community. And you know, I love even more that I write them.
You write to them. Yeah, man, I do. I write to them with me. I do every day. I love, oh my God, did that. Is there people making fun of me? Like, can I show you one that I just saw that just? People think it's your like agent or something. That's what you say. Let's see if this can work. I'm not great with this. Maybe it's around it. We're going to just do an interlude while I sing. I was surrounded by a million people. Just feel.
I want to go home. Let me go home. I don't want to say because people are listening. Let me go home. Because I want to dance even though I've fat in these pants. I couldn't remember the rhyme. I'm so sorry that this is out. Here it is. I found it. You never have to apologize. Okay. Sometimes once in a while, like I find stuff like this and I go like,
They're geniuses, like truly geniuses. So the tedding says, when you change the radio station at the wrong time. That was a long lead-up, but... Dude, I see that and I go like, someone?
like thought of that and then shared it and it was like, I think, I don't even know, hundreds of millions of times people have watched that. That's crazy. I think it's crazy. I think it's beautiful. And I love that I wrote the guy. I said, this is the mashup that I didn't know I needed. God, imagine getting a message from Michael Buble when you've made something so like ridiculous. That's what the coolest part of that TikTok is, is that it isn't about you. No one gets a shit about me. And by the way, I don't even belong on TikTok and no celebrity really does.
I think the only way you belong on TikTok is if you understand what TikTok is and TikTok is about a community of creators and like supporting and laughing and being inspired. It's the platform that you spent 14, 15 years fighting for. You know what I mean? Before we had
social media. There was people like you just singing at restaurants and singing here, there, and everywhere, just knocking on doors, pulling someone into a backroom in a banquet. And now you don't need to go and, you know, attack David in a backroom. No, I think it's funny because it started, like, I remember Bieber, Justin, talking to Justin about how, you know what I mean? Or even Ed, even Ed, it was, uh,
You know, it wasn't TikTok, but it was YouTube and Bieber. Exactly. Yeah, back in the day. That's where the first word just is. It's so different now, man. And it's like, but it's still fundamentally the same business too, where if you can
It's all about live business. If you can do the job of putting people in seats and to entertain them live, because what's really weird is even talking with my record company, it's like, oh, we just signed this act. It's great. And I go like, oh, cool. Where can I go see them? And they go, oh, no, they don't tour. No, they've never ever played outside of their bedroom. They've never been in front of people. And you go like, what?
different but just what it is. And this is not just about music. Look at me. I use the same platforms to build a show. Yeah. And it's true. Do you know what's crazy? No one knows this. No one knows this story. I went to a big radio station in the UK before I started this podcast and I begged them to give me an audition.
I went down there for two hours. They know who they are. I wouldn't name them because it was either Sky or it was one or it was BBC or it was. I wouldn't say okay. I went there and I did. Capital. I want somebody. I knew. I knew. I knew. I went in there and the guy wasn't paying attention to me pretty much at all. I sat in there. My audition started. The guy that's meant to be judging my audition takes a phone call, walks out, doesn't come back.
I'm in there for two hours doing these fake phone calls. I leave the radio station. This was only like three, three, four years ago. I leave the radio station. I never hear anything. No feedback. No, you did well. You did badly. You were crap. Nothing. Never hear anything. So started a podcast myself, which did well. Yeah. And then, yeah, like a year ago, the same radio station.
I sent me an email saying, hey, I would love you to come in and do like a little guest thing to promote your book. And I have responded, I said, I'm still waiting to hear my feedback. And they conducted this internal investigation to find out why nobody ever got back to me. They really did. Because they sent me an email asking me to come back and do some guest appearance. I was like, I came, they were asking me to like a guest show, whatever. And I said, I came in and did an audition. And I still haven't heard back. And it's been almost two years now.
But we have these platforms where we can do it ourselves. Whether you're a podcaster, a singer. That's what I think I find so cool about it, is that there's no more, the gatekeeper. It's gone. It's gone. That one guy who, why the hell, why was he the gatekeeper? What did he have? And now it's like, no, no, no. Now nobody likes you but the people. Like the people get to choose. Right? And there's no, honestly, sometimes I'll watch something and there's no, even there's no rhyme or reason. It just,
It resonates, man. And you go like, oh, OK, well, that's the people have spoken. That's a vote, isn't it? Yeah. Yeah. Michael, thank you. Thank you. We're done. We're done. OK, fine. I'm ready for my second cup. I'm feeling really, I've started to feel really good and lose. I've got one last question for you. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. We have a closing tradition where the last guest leaves a question for the next guest, not knowing who they're going to be leaving it for.
Interesting. The question that's been left is, what was your last big fork in the road decision and how did you make it? It's coming. Right? Literally. It's coming. I would say within weeks. And I will make it by speaking to number one. First thing I'll speak to my wife.
And then I'll speak to all the people that I trust, and I will weigh what everyone says, and then they'll help me make the decision. It's coming. Michael, you're not going to quit music, are you? No. No, I'm not. Never. It's impossible. That's like saying, are you going to stop breathing, dude?
No, no, no. I like to breathe. And music is my breath. I can't stop. Give me a little bit of concern. That's all when he says this. Oh, no. Don't let it be like it. It's a good thing. Oh, OK. It's just a big, you know, just a big decision. Interesting. Yeah. We shall wait and we shall see. Yeah. Michael, thank you so much. What do I leave my question for the next guest? In the book. Oh, I'm excited. I've got so many. Thank you so much.
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