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    • Embrace the power to evolveYou're not defined by past, fear change but embrace it, learn and grow from experiences, be the hero of your own life

      You are not defined by your past experiences, especially during times of heartbreak. You have the power to evolve and make new decisions. It's natural to fear the unknown and the potential changes that come with growth, but holding onto the past can hinder your progress. Instead, embrace the fact that you have new information and are a new person today. Each difficult experience is an opportunity to learn and grow, leading you to become the hero of your own life. So, repeat this message to yourself whenever you need a reminder that you have the strength and capability to move forward and face new challenges.

    • Be true to yourself for personal growth and happinessStrive to be authentic and proud of who we are, not for external validation, but for our own satisfaction. Keep going despite challenges and create a new start for personal growth.

      Living authentically and true to oneself is essential for personal growth and happiness. It means not letting others' opinions dictate who we are or what we do. Instead, we should strive to be the person we want to be, not for external validation but for our own satisfaction. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and being proud of who we are, regardless of what others may think. This authenticity is something that we should cultivate throughout our lives, not just for a short time. The speaker also encourages those who have faced challenges to keep going and create a new start for themselves. If you're interested in joining a community that supports personal growth and authenticity, consider attending the speaker's live retreat in Florida. It's never too late to start living your best life and being true to yourself.

    Recent Episodes from Love Life with Matthew Hussey

    253: “How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”

    253: “How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”
    Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantly busy and now she feels like an obligation to him rather than someone he’s excited to see. “He doesn’t want to lose me”, she says, “but he doesn’t want to try either”.

    In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to handle this on-the-fence situation, when someone says they want to see you but isn’t able or truly willing to fulfil your needs, and whether you should date someone who is too busy to make you their priority right now.
     
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    (Matt Monday): Feel Like You’ve Lost “The One”?

    (Matt Monday): Feel Like You’ve Lost “The One”?

    Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on.

    Either way, this is the first aid you need right now.
     
    In today’s episode, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex, the 3 steps I share today can help you make that decision.

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    (Rewind): 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast

    (Rewind): 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast

    Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.

    He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.

    Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.

    Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”

    She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.

    But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)

    The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love.

    In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them...

     

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    (Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family

    (Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Single Women Who Want a Family

    “How and when should I have the conversation that I want marriage and kids?”

    Good question! And definitely a tricky subject for most people. We are told to be honest about what we want, but we also worry about scaring someone off if we bring it up too soon.

    In today’s episode, I give you 6 practical steps to help you determine if someone shares your goals and timeline, figure out exactly what you want (and come up with a plan for each possibility), and approach these conversations in a natural and confident way.



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    (Rewind): If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly. . .

    (Rewind): If You're Worried You Invest in a Relationship Too Quickly. . .

    Do you find yourself always falling for a guy too fast?

    You go on a few dates, maybe you end up sleeping with him, and then… you’re totally hooked.

     Suddenly, he’s the #1 topic of conversation with you and your friends.

    You find yourself constantly wanting to text him. You sit at home wondering what he’s up to. You’re tempted to rush things forward.

    Wait. Stop. Relax.

    There’s nothing wrong with being a romantic, but you have to be so careful here to make the right decisions going forward.

    If you find your heart always investing in a guy when your head tells you to calm down, here’s the secret to taking back your power...

     

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    251: "I Can’t Get Over My Ex...Please Help Me Move On!”

    251: "I Can’t Get Over My Ex...Please Help Me Move On!”
    When you've made progress getting over someone, then they send you a text, how should you react? Or maybe they still like your instagram posts, respond to your stories, or you see glimpses of their life with a new partner and it triggers you...

    In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to deal with triggers that derail your progress and what to do when you're trying to move on for good and want to TRULY get over your ex. 

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    (Matt Monday): Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS

    (Matt Monday): Get Too Obsessed, Too Soon? WATCH THIS
    Do you get obsessed too quickly in the early days of dating? This is often dangerous because it places WAY too much of our happiness in trying to attract and keep someone (even when we don’t really know them yet). 
     
    Thankfully, this kind of “anxious dating” is something you can actually solve. In today’s episode, I dive into where this obsession comes from, and give you 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly and self-sabotaging in early dating.

    >>> Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days...
    Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com

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    (Rewind): Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People

    (Rewind): Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People

    Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you?

    Why does this happen? Why do we conveniently keep getting attracted to the least convenient people?

    It can be deeply frustrating, especially when there might be someone who does like us but who we just don’t want.

    In this episode, I explain two fundamental reasons why this keeps happening. 

    At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this...

    Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...

     

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    250: “How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?”

    250: “How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?”
    When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation? 

    In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry is valued over compatibility). This episode will give you tools and mindsets to navigate the early days of dating with confidence!

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    Episode 125 - The Provisional Life: Redeeming the Real

    Episode 125 - The Provisional Life: Redeeming the Real

    The provisional life might be defined as a vague malaise: current relationships, work, and lifestyle feel like placeholders until the ‘real thing’ arrives—someday. If early life circumstances made over-conforming to others’ needs and expectations necessary, persona can be over-developed and shadow denied.

    The person may orient to external sources for self-definition, acceptance and direction, because deep roots in shadow’s dark, fertile soil of authentic feeling and experience are lacking. The recovery and discovery of the true self comes from engaging the inner world: dreams, reverie, creative endeavors, service to something greater—and perhaps a wise guide on the road to wholeness.

    Jung says, “If the risk is not taken, the meaning of life is somehow violated, and the whole future is condemned to helpless staleness...” Or we can be alive while we’re alive. 

     

    Dream

    I find myself in an old abandoned church. I am climbing up a ladder and next to me is a being, half-bird & half-human. I feel attracted to her; I kiss her. In the next scene, I push her away from me.

    Now she is a bird. Another person helps me to get the bird out of the church. The bird wants to come back in. I have a guilty conscience because I try to push her away from me. Now the bird person is back in the church. And in the last image, I find myself with her walking around the church and the being tells me "people can't fly because they don't have wings."

     

    References

    Spirited Away (Hayao Miyazaki).

    Mary Oliver. When Death Comes and other poems. 

    232: Exploring Purpose in Business & Life

    232: Exploring Purpose in Business & Life

    Brooke Ozlem Erol: Her Stories of Individual and Organizational Purpose

    How does passion mix in with the motivation behind your work? What does it mean to discover a meaningful job career? Sarah Elkins is joined by author and Founder of Purposeful Business, Brooke Ozlem Erol, as they discuss exploring purpose in both business and life. Check it out today!

    Discovering Clarity One Bite at a Time course is now available!

     

    “How does what you do contribute to others?” - Brooke Ozlem Erol

     

    *podcast show notes contributed by Tracy Ackeret

     

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    About Brooke

    Brooke wants a lot more people to find meaning at work, to use their gifts and potential instead of just getting a paycheck and waiting for weekends and retirement to have joy. All Brooke does with coaching, speaking, writing, and consulting ties to this purpose of hers. 

    See Brooke’s LinkedIn, YouTube, Organizational Purpose Topics, and Individual Purpose Topics.

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    Sarah Elkins with dog in snow, Elkins Consulting logo and Gallup Strengthsfinder logo

    "Uncovering the right stories for the right audiences so executives, leaders, public speakers, and job seekers can clearly and actively demonstrate their character, values, and vision."

    In my work with coaching clients, I guide people to improve their communication using storytelling as the foundation of our work together. What I’ve realized over years of coaching and podcasting is that the majority of people don’t realize the impact of the stories they share - on their internal messages, and on the people they’re sharing them with.

    My work with leaders and people who aspire to be leaders follows a similar path to the interviews on my podcast, uncovering pivotal moments in their lives and learning how to share them to connect more authentically with others, to make their presentations and speaking more engaging, to reveal patterns that have kept them stuck or moved them forward, and to improve their relationships at work and at home.

    The audiobook, Your Stories Don’t Define You, How You Tell Them Will is now available!

    Included with your purchase are two bonus tracks, songs recorded by Sarah's band, Spare Change, in her living room in Montana.

     

    238: Belonging is a Critical Part of Identity & Purpose

    238: Belonging is a Critical Part of Identity & Purpose

    How Do You Belong to Yourself and to Others While Building Your Own Identity?

     

    Listen in as Sarah Elkins is joined by Paul Haury in an engaging conversation about the journey in self-belonging and Paul's story. Check it out today!

    Discovering Clarity One Bite at a Time course is now available!

     

     

    “Every single one of us is born without self belonging…somewhere along the way our self belonging forms in that space” - Paul Haury

     

    *podcast show notes contributed by Tracy Ackeret

     

    Mentioned: 

    Brown bottle flu reference

    Belonging by Owen Eastwood. 
     
    Brain Rules by John Medina. 

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    About Paul Haury:

    “I guide people to experience belonging, in self-belonging, in their own brilliance, and within their company tribes, to really live & perform better than they ever imagined. In my most recent endeavors, I've served as VP of people & culture and as a professional coach, specializing in belonging and optimal performance for individuals and OrgDev. I believe we perform at our highest when we belong, and believe in shared purpose together. There, we simply fear less and aspire more.”

    Check out Paul’s LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram.

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    ABOUT SARAH:

    Sarah Elkins with dog in snow, Elkins Consulting logo and Gallup Strengthsfinder logo

    "Uncovering the right stories for the right audiences so executives, leaders, public speakers, and job seekers can clearly and actively demonstrate their character, values, and vision."

    In my work with coaching clients, I guide people to improve their communication using storytelling as the foundation of our work together. What I’ve realized over years of coaching and podcasting is that the majority of people don’t realize the impact of the stories they share - on their internal messages, and on the people they’re sharing them with.

    My work with leaders and people who aspire to be leaders follows a similar path to the interviews on my podcast, uncovering pivotal moments in their lives and learning how to share them to connect more authentically with others, to make their presentations and speaking more engaging, to reveal patterns that have kept them stuck or moved them forward, and to improve their relationships at work and at home.

    The audiobook, Your Stories Don’t Define You, How You Tell Them Will is now available!

    Included with your purchase are two bonus tracks, songs recorded by Sarah's band, Spare Change, in her living room in Montana.

     

    34: Hannah Berner Reveals Secrets Behind Summer House, Giggly Squad, and more

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