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    Mark Manson’s 3 Harsh Truths About Love EP 1485

    enAugust 16, 2023
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    How does love amplify emotions in a relationship?
    What determines the health of a relationship?
    Why is communication important for evolving couples?
    How can environment impact a relationship?
    What challenges arise from conflicting beliefs in relationships?

    • The Impact of Love on RelationshipsLove intensifies existing emotions, both positive and negative. A healthy relationship is determined by how well conflicts are resolved and how one reacts to their partner's success.

      Love is not always a fix for a relationship, but rather amplifies whatever emotions are already present. Love can either amplify positive emotions such as happiness, respect, and trust, or negative emotions such as jealousy, envy, and disrespect. It doesn't necessarily make a relationship good or healthy on its own. It is essential to recognize that pain and conflict are normal in any relationship, and what determines a healthy relationship is how quickly you recover from those conflicts and move on from them. Additionally, when one person in a relationship experiences overwhelming success, how their partner reacts can reflect their own relationship with success and wealth.

    • The Importance of Financial Compatibility in RelationshipsOpenly discussing financial beliefs, values, and compatibility is crucial for a healthy relationship. Love alone is not enough; trust, respect, and understanding each other's perspectives on money are equally important.

      Open and deep discussions about financial beliefs and values are crucial for a healthy relationship. Mark Manson emphasizes the importance of understanding each other's perspectives on money, self-esteem, and moral beliefs related to wealth. He mentions that the number one cause of divorce is financial differences, highlighting the significance of financial compatibility in a partnership. Love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship; trust and respect are equally vital. Without trust, even deep love can falter, and without respect, individuals may justify mistreatment. Mark explains that toxic relationships often involve love without trust or respect. Overall, maintaining perspective, having discussions about finances, and establishing trust and respect are essential elements for a successful and fulfilling partnership.

    • The impact of environment and activities on our love and connection with our partner.Creating a calm and domestic environment can improve communication and foster a healthier relationship, while conflicting values and lifestyle choices can strain a partnership.

      The environment and activities we engage in can have a significant impact on our love and connection with our partner. Love is not just a feeling, but something we actively participate in and nurture. Changing environments can change the nature of the activities we do together and can either generate excitement and novelty or create distractions. Moving from a busy and chaotic environment to a more calm and domestic one can create opportunities for more open and immediate communication with our partner. Trust, respect, and shared values are important in sustaining a long-term healthy relationship, although complete alignment on values is not necessary. However, fundamental differences in beliefs around money, religion, or family can pose challenges and lead to constant conflicts. While people do evolve and change their values over time, significant and conflicting lifestyle choices or beliefs can strain a relationship.

    • Navigating Change in Long-Term RelationshipsOpenly communicating and adapting to each other's evolving needs and desires is crucial in maintaining a strong and connected relationship, leading to improved well-being for both partners.

      Couples in long-term relationships can face challenges when they feel like they have changed and evolved in different directions. It is important for partners to intentionally communicate and evolve together in order to bridge the gap that may form over time. Sharing significant changes in career, beliefs, and priorities helps both partners understand and adapt to each other's evolving needs and desires. By openly discussing these changes, couples can avoid feeling disconnected and ensure that they are on the same page. This conversation also highlights the positive influence that partners can have on each other's health and lifestyle choices. Being supportive and embracing positive changes can lead to improved well-being for both partners.

    • Prioritizing Health for Stronger RelationshipsAligning health goals and supporting each other's journey can lead to a more vibrant relationship, as success brings new challenges to continually upgrade and tackle.

      Prioritizing health can greatly benefit both individuals and relationships. When health becomes a shared value and both partners are on board with it, it becomes easier to make healthier choices and support each other's journey. By aligning their health goals, partners can compound each other's success and create a more vibrant and energetic relationship. This shift in focus from indulgent activities to healthier activities can lead to a more meaningful and sustainable quality time together. Furthermore, this conversation also highlights the misconception that success eliminates problems. Rather, success brings about new and often bigger challenges. It teaches us that the key is not to seek a life without problems, but to continually upgrade and tackle better problems.

    • Navigating the Challenges of Success and FameAs your audience and success grow, the pressure to please and navigate diverse perspectives increases. Be cautious and mindful of your words, as even innocent jokes can unknowingly offend and lead to backlash.

      As someone's success and audience grow, the stakes become higher and the pressure increases. Mark Manson explains the shift in dynamics, highlighting that when you have a small audience, you can generally anticipate their reactions and know what will please or upset them. However, as your audience expands to millions, it becomes extremely challenging to navigate the diverse perspectives and sensitivities. The pressure to say something empathetic, interesting, or intelligent intensifies. Even innocuous jokes can unknowingly offend someone, leading to backlash. This conversation emphasizes the need to be cautious and mindful of the impact your words may have when you achieve a level of success and fame.

    • Navigating the Unexpected Challenges of SuccessSuccess can bring unexpected challenges and pressures, which can diminish self-confidence. To navigate these challenges, maintain a growth mindset, diversify sources of self-esteem, and avoid tying self-worth solely to accomplishments.

      Success can often bring unexpected challenges and pressures. Mark Manson shares his experience of how his expectations and the way he was treated changed after his book became a bestseller. He emphasizes the importance of having a contingency plan and considering the potential implications of achieving great success. Interestingly, Mark also highlights that success can sometimes diminish self-confidence and lead to second-guessing. To navigate these challenges, he suggests maintaining a mindset of continuous growth and exploration, seeing oneself as a beginner, and not tying all of one's self-worth to accomplishments. Mark advises diversifying one's sources of self-esteem, including career, relationships, knowledge, and personal interests. By doing so, individuals can keep their self-confidence intact and expand their horizons.

    • The Connection Between Self-Worth and Intimate RelationshipsBuilding self-worth outside of relationships improves our ability to maintain healthy relationships, while investing in personal growth leads to breakthroughs and a greater sense of self.

      Our self-worth is strongly tied to the quality of our intimate relationships. Mark Manson highlights the importance of having a sense of self-worth outside of our relationships, as this can positively impact our ability to build and maintain healthy relationships. He suggests that finding ways to feel competent and useful in the world can contribute to a higher sense of self-worth, which can in turn improve our intimate relationships. Lewis Howes adds that intimate relationships have a significant impact on our overall happiness, even more so than career success, money, or hobbies. While success and money can alleviate certain stressors, they do not necessarily address underlying self-esteem issues. Ultimately, investing in healing and personal growth can lead to breakthroughs and a greater sense of self.

    • The Transformative Power of Prioritizing Self-CareNeglecting self-care can lead to serious consequences on physical and emotional well-being, but prioritizing self-care can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling life.

      Neglecting self-care and succumbing to unhealthy habits can have serious consequences on our physical and emotional well-being. Mark Manson shares his experience of indulging in excessive drinking, overeating, and constant partying without considering the long-term impact. While he initially believed he was invincible, he eventually faced the consequences as he grew older - becoming overweight, experiencing chest pains, and dealing with stress-related issues. However, by embarking on a health journey with his wife, he discovered the transformative power of taking care of his body. He realized the emotional ties behind his drinking habits and the need for validation from others. This conversation emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-care and breaking unhealthy patterns to lead a healthier and more fulfilling life.

    • Embracing Simplicity in LifePrioritize meaningful relationships, engage in joyful activities, contribute positively to the world, and take care of physical and mental health for a simple and fulfilling life.

      Life doesn't have to be complicated. Mark Manson and Lewis Howes discuss how as they get older, they've realized the importance of simplicity and focusing on the things that truly matter. Manson shares that after removing distractions and doing things he doesn't enjoy, he has come to the realization that life can be incredibly simple. It's about finding a few people you love spending time with, engaging in activities that bring you joy, and finding a way to contribute positively to the world. They emphasize that it's not about following complex procedures or formulas, but rather about prioritizing meaningful relationships and pursuits while taking care of one's physical and mental health.

    • Redefining Success and Finding Personal FulfillmentSuccess should not be measured solely by external metrics; instead, it should be defined by meaningful metrics that encompass the quality of our work, the impact we have on others, and our personal fulfillment.

      Success should not be defined solely by external metrics. Mark Manson shares his experience of achieving great success with his book, but then feeling trapped and stressed by the pressure to recreate that success. He emphasizes the importance of choosing meaningful metrics and redefining success for oneself. For Manson, success is not just about financial rewards, but also about the quality of his work and the impact he has on others. He learned to appreciate the blessings of his past success and to see it as a foundation for future endeavors. This conversation highlights the importance of finding personal fulfillment and liberation by shifting our mindset and redefining our identities beyond one specific achievement.

    • The Importance of Time and Commitment in Lasting LoveTrue love requires active investment and a steady, secure feeling that comes from spending significant time with someone. Self-worth can evolve and be influenced by various factors.

      Lasting love requires time and commitment. Mark Manson discusses his experience of being in a long-term relationship and highlights the importance of the steady and secure feeling that comes from spending over a decade with someone. He emphasizes that true love cannot be easily found, but rather, it is something that you actively invest in. When it comes to success, Mark advises his past self to buckle up and be prepared for the unpredictable journey ahead. He reflects on the mentality of saying yes to every opportunity and how it eventually took a toll on him. Mark realizes the value of saying no and setting boundaries for himself. Lastly, Mark brings up an interesting observation about self-worth, revealing that he derives more pride and satisfaction from his internet business compared to his books or movie. This suggests that our self-worth can be influenced by various factors and may evolve over time.

    • Key truths for a fulfilling life: Embrace failure, redefine success, and navigate love wisely.Embrace challenges, redefine your definition of success, and understand the importance of a strong foundation in relationships.

      Mark Manson shares three important truths to leave behind in the world. The first truth is to not be afraid of failure or pain, as they hold the joys and successes of life. The second truth is to be cautious in how you define yourself and measure success, as life will always find a way to challenge and surprise you. Lastly, Manson emphasizes that while love is great, it cannot be the sole foundation of a healthy relationship. It should instead amplify a strong and healthy foundation. Overall, Manson's key messages revolve around facing challenges head-on, redefining success, and understanding the complexities of love in relationships.

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    Dr. Tara Swart Bieber is a Ph.D neuroscientist and former MD who has worked to examine the many intricacies of the human brain. She is a professor at MIT Sloan, and also an executive advisor, who has improved the minds and behaviors of some of the world’s top business people.

    Rob Dyrdek emphasizes the importance of having a clear vision of your goals. He shares his personal experience of visualizing himself as a successful skateboarder long before it happened, and how this vision became a driving force in his life. Rob emphasizes the role of consistency and belief in manifesting your dreams. He believes that when you consistently take action towards your goals and truly believe in them, the universe conspires to make things happen in your favor.

    Stephan Speaks emphasizes that manifestation isn't just about material wealth; it can also manifest love and fulfilling relationships. By setting clear intentions and focusing on what you desire, you can attract love into your life. The conversation underscores the importance of a positive mindset. When you believe in the possibility of love and envision your ideal partner, you're more likely to attract someone who aligns with your desires.

    In this episode you will learn,

    • The 3 Deadly Habits That Kill The Law of Attraction In Your Life
    • How to break free from anxious and intrusive thoughts.
    • The science vs. art of manifestation.
    • How to stop living in fear and pursue a life of peace.
    • Why it is so important to embrace the present moment.

    For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1514

    For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

    FULL EPISODES:

    Eckhart Tolle – https://link.chtbl.com/1463-pod

    Dr. Tara Swart Bieber –  https://link.chtbl.com/1325-pod

    Rob Dyrdek – https://link.chtbl.com/1159-pod

    Stephan Speaks – https://link.chtbl.com/1114-pod

    TRANSFORM Your Mindset to MANIFEST More! (Let Go of THESE Beliefs!) | Erwin McManus

    TRANSFORM Your Mindset to MANIFEST More! (Let Go of THESE Beliefs!) | Erwin McManus

    Lewis sits down with the renowned communicator and author, Erwin McManus. Erwin McManus, a mind, life, and cultural architect, has not only written award-winning books but has also spoken to millions of people worldwide. He has advised CEOs, athletes, and even worked with organizations like the NFL and the Pentagon. McManus is on a mission to help people break free from their internal limitations and unlock their personal genius.

    In this episode you will learn,

    • The importance of embracing vulnerability in communication. Being open and authentic allows for deeper connections and trust between individuals.
    • Insights on how to develop and nurture this ability, enabling us to connect on a deeper level with others.
    • McManus provides tips on how to express ideas clearly and confidently, reducing misunderstandings.
    • Integrity in your words and actions is vital. McManus shares how integrity builds trust and credibility in communication.
    • The frequency of compassion and how showing kindness and understanding can lead to more harmonious interactions.

    Buy Erwin's book, Mind Shift: It Doesn't Take a Genius to Think Like One

    For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1506

    For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

    Want more communication hacks?

    Vanessa Van Edwards: https://link.chtbl.com/1231-pod

    Dr. Ramani Durvasula: https://link.chtbl.com/1195-pod & https://link.chtbl.com/1196-pod

    Lori Gottlieb: https://link.chtbl.com/1191-pod

    Become a MAGNET to Love (Do THIS to Change EVERYTHING Before 2024!) | Dr. Nicole LePera

    Become a MAGNET to Love (Do THIS to Change EVERYTHING Before 2024!) | Dr. Nicole LePera

    Lewis welcomes Dr. Nicole LePera, renowned author of the #1 New York Times bestsellers "How To Do The Work" and “How to Meet Your Self” Workbook. Dr. LePera, the creator of the #SelfHealers movement, discusses her latest book, "How to Be the Love You Seek," offering invaluable insights into healing relationships starting with oneself. She highlights the significance of understanding past traumas and how they shape current relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of self-love, emotional resilience, and cultivating healthy connections.

    Relationships have always been essential to human survival. Our bodies and brains are programmed to seek out connection, whether familial, romantic, or platonic. And yet, these vital bonds are often at the root of our deepest suffering. While our hearts are primed for compassionate connection, our nervous systems—which store all our past hurts and disappointments—are wired for threat and negativity.

    For decades, leading relationship advice has maintained that successful relationships require a specific compromise—that we must change our authentic expression to better meet the needs of others, and vice versa. It may sound reasonable in theory, but as Dr. LePera explains, this approach is nothing less than a recipe for a lifetime of resentment.

    Buy her new book How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships

    In this episode you will learn

    • The difference between self-love and self-worth, and how to focus attention effectively on both.
    • Strategies to practice self-love while maintaining healthy relationships.
    • Common patterns and beliefs that hinder the ability to receive love and ways to shift these mindsets.
    • The role of self-compassion in emotional healing and reprogramming the brain.
    • Techniques for setting healthy boundaries and overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors in relationships.

    For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1530

    For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960

    More SOG episodes on Radical Self Love & Acceptance:

    Jason Derulo – https://link.chtbl.com/1460-pod

    Karamo Brown – https://link.chtbl.com/1457-pod

    Pokimane – https://link.chtbl.com/1443-pod

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