Hailey Bieber (FBF)
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December 20, 2024
TLDR: Hailey Bieber discusses and clarifies the public controversy with her husband's ex for the first time on Call Her Daddy podcast.

In the latest episode of Call Her Daddy, host Alex Cooper welcomes Hailey Bieber, diving deep into the public scrutiny surrounding her relationship with Justin Bieber and her experiences in the spotlight. This marks Hailey's first candid discussion about the dramas associated with her marriage and her desire to move beyond them. Here are the key takeaways from this revealing conversation.
Addressing Controversy
Hailey opens up about the challenging dynamics that began with her engagement to Justin Bieber. She acknowledges the public's fascination with their relationship, particularly regarding past connections and the narrative that followed their engagement. Key points include:
- Perception vs. Reality: Hailey emphasizes that while the timeline of their relationship might seem confusing from an outsider's perspective, only she and Justin know the truth of their journey.
- Rumors & Criticism: She discusses her frustration with unwarranted accusations, stressing that she would never engage in a relationship while he was involved with someone else.
- Feeling Judged: The pressure of public opinion weighs heavily on her, especially concerning the perceived legitimacy of her marriage and the constant challenge of defending their love.
Navigating Fame
The constant attention from paparazzi and fans can be overwhelming. Hailey shares her coping strategies:
- Dealing with Paparazzi: She humorously recounts her urge to confront paparazzi directly, understanding that it’s part of the territory she navigates as a public figure.
- Trust and Relationships: Sharing her struggle to trust new friends, Hailey elaborates on how her fame complicates her social life and friendships. She prefers to trust people until proven otherwise, but remains cautious about others’ intentions.
Marriage Insights
Hailey reflects on her marriage to Justin, focusing on:
- Finding Balance: The couple has learned to balance their careers while nurturing their relationship – a premise she describes as requiring considerable effort and compromise.
- Addressing Public Criticism: Responding to public interpretation of her comments about marriage being 'hard work,' she clarifies that challenging moments are a natural part of any relationship, including their deep connection.
- Support: Hailey praises Justin's honesty and loyalty, stating that their trust stems from transparent communication that strengthens their bond.
The Impact of Social Media
Hailey confronts the toxicity of the Internet and its impact on her mental health:
- Online Harassment: She details experiences of being bullied online, particularly relating to Justin's past relationships, and how it has affected her.
- Navigating Negative Comments: Despite feeling the weight of negative opinions, Hailey emphasizes that they will not define her happiness. She is learning to prioritize her feelings over public perception.
Personal Growth
Through therapy and self-reflection, Hailey has been working on:
- Emotional Resilience: She admits to moments of feeling inadequate but is learning to approach her feelings with kindness and understanding.
- Support Systems: Hailey acknowledges the significance of her support system in overcoming darker moments.
The Heartfelt Close
The conversation wraps up with Hailey reminding everyone of the importance of mutual respect, even for those who have differing opinions about her. She reflects on:
- Finding Common Ground: Emphasizing that everyone has their battles, she calls for humanity and kindness in public discourse.
Overall, this episode gives listeners a nuanced picture of Hailey Bieber's life, her love story with Justin, and her journey through the limelight with authenticity and grace.
This episode of Call Her Daddy not only reveals the real-life struggles that come with fame but also underscores the importance of kindness, respect, and understanding in social media interactions. Hayley’s journey resonates with many listeners dealing with their own challenges in the public eye or in their personal lives.
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and be cozy. But like still cute. Still like a little vibe. I feel like that's your entire vibe is always being comfortable looking and then having like a tinge of like super like sexy and cute but like still like you can. I can't stand being uncomfortable. I like I'll do it for a certain amount of time. Sorry. Amount of time.
She's burping. Yeah, I'm throwing up. The first person to throw up on color daddy is me. Sorry. I, when I say I will do it for a certain amount of time, I mean, like if I have to like go beyond a carpet for a second and it's just like the look is the look and there's like something like stabbing me on the side, like I'll endure it for a second for a few hours and then.
I need to tell you one time I went to a fitting and This woman was like oh my god try on these heels and I was like whoa like those look aggressive and like they're the hilly beeper heels like they're the classic one She always wears and I was like Jimmy Choo. I don't even know I hilly I don't know I was like, oh, okay. I guess I'll try them off hilly where some hilly
They were the most uncomfortable shoe I've ever put on in my life. I was like what the fuck how does she walk in these? It's the one you know what I'm talking about It's the big platform. Yes, but it's the it's basically just the bottom of a shoe and then the string goes around your fucking I used to be a ballet dancer and like dance on point flex on us So I think that the reason that really high heels don't bother me is because my foot is just like used to being like it doesn't
It's a gift because when I tell you, I couldn't walk after I wore those. I was like, okay, Haley, we're not on the same playing field. She clearly knows what she's doing. If you could trade closets or a sense of style with any of your friends, who would it be? It's so interesting because I feel like me and all of my friends have such a different style that I think I'm trying to think of who I feel the most similar to. I think Kylie has a very amazing and fun closet that is just
I mean, who wouldn't wanna share like trade classes with her? I'll trade houses with her too if she ever wants. I'm like, you know what? I think I agree. I was like, yeah, I think I take high classes. We're also the same shoe size. What shoe size are you? An eight.
I don't want to overstep, but so am I. So if you have any hand me down. So we want to exchange shoes. Right, right, right. We can do that. It's not your heels. I think it's so funny that I'm thinking about who can I actually wear all their stuff? Well, she's an A and I'm an A. I'm like, it's actually just a game. But you're like, no, elegistically. I'm such a logistical thinker. I'm like, but.
If I was to trade with this person and she's a size nine and a half, then I can't have any of this. She's like, Haley, this is not real. It's fantasy, it's a game, we can pretend. Okay, but I love it. Okay, so Kylie hit us up. We're ready to take over your closet.
You came in here. There's paparazzi taking photos of you. It's a lot. How do you handle the pressure of being photographed for the world to see almost every single time you step outside? It's really funny because I was thinking about this coming over here and they were like following me in the car, which is like, it happens all the time. Whatever, like, I know that's going to happen if I'm in LA. There's not very many ways to avoid it. They just sit at the bottom of like my street. So it is what it is.
But I was driving and like sometimes when there's paparazzi following me I have a flash in my head of like getting out with a baseball bat and literally destroying their car like I literally sometimes it like it makes me just so annoyed that I'm like one of these days I swear to God I'm gonna get out of the car with a fucking baseball bat and I'm going to like destroy their
This is a hypothetical situation, by the way. I just like, and driving over here, I was like, I literally like, that's my urge right now. And I'm like, at the same time, do I want to give anybody the power to like, disturb my energy like that? No, but it's just like a feeling of, it's just annoying.
It's the feeling of like hitting a breaking point of like, I just, I can't stand it anymore. And some days are totally fine though. And some I can avoid it. And like, I sometimes like get really lucky and like sneak different ways to like do it. But I think what I've come to terms with is like, that's going to happen in LA, you know what I mean? This isn't the like middle of, of nowhere, like,
you know, where there's like actual privacy. It's like the land of where everything happens and there's tons of people here. It's also like, I'm not the only person that deals with this. It's like so many people deal with it and it comes with the territory and it's not like, I hate when people are like, well, you asked for this because it's like, I don't think that's like a real thing to say. I didn't ask for grown men to follow me around with cameras, but I do understand that it comes with the territory.
It's hard to make friends when you're in a position where you don't know people's intentions, right? Do you have a hard time trusting people? Sometimes, sometimes I feel like I'm the type of person and I've always been this way where I'm like, I trust people until they prove me wrong, which is like, I guess sometimes can be a dangerous way to be.
I'm a people person, like I love to connect with people. I love meeting new people. I sometimes have a hard time with like becoming like friends with someone or close to someone, but like I love being cool with people and like being social and meeting people and knowing their story and like where are they from. I think that I have a lot of my friends that I'm very close to are people I've been close to for a long time. Some newer friends, some not, but I just think
Yeah, I think there's sometimes that aspect of like the distrust of like, I don't know what you want to be around for. Have you ever had someone take advantage of you and your situation and like kind of love that it's like, oh, I get this lifestyle around her and like, how do you deal with that? My personality is very like, I don't do well with confrontation. I don't like to like confront awkward situations.
trying to work on it, I'm trying to be better at that, but I never want to like, I've always been the type of person where like, I don't wanna like end things on like a sour note with a person because especially if there's someone like in an industry where I have to see them or like, if we're gonna be out somewhere and I gotta see like, I don't wanna walk into a room and feel like I have beef with someone. Like that stresses me out big time crazy. Even if it's so you can stick up for yourself.
Yeah, we're working on that today. Yeah, we're working on that. Yeah, even if it that's something I struggle with, even if it's for me sticking up with myself, I just want to like, because I think there's a way to stick up for yourself and still be cordial. I've had situations and or a situation where I feel like
There was like a lot of stuff I found out about the situation. And then I knew if I confronted the person, they were just not going to own up to any of it. So it's like, what's the point? If I'm going to go to you and be like, here's what I found out. I know that it's true. I've seen the proof. Too many people have said something to me about it. And they're just going to be like,
I can't believe you would believe that about me. Like, that's just not true. Why am I gonna waste my breath with somebody who's just not even going, who's not in the place in their life or like the type of person that is going to even receive the confrontation at all? Because I can do confrontation if it's in a calm, appropriate, I'm not a yellow, like I'm not gonna like freak out and like, I'll get fired up when it's something that I'm really like passionate about or defensive about because like I've had that happen to me before.
But I still always want to end it on like a, how did we move forward from here? Not like, and sometimes the reality I've had to face is that like sometimes that's not possible. Like sometimes you just can't
be around that person or be friends with that person and like, it is what it is. Totally. You just have to move on. So many people in the world are fascinated by you and fascinated by your life. And I think the public can kind of feel that from you of like, you don't like confrontation.
you rarely will speak out on things if there's drama which I think so many people do respect you for but how much is that then way on you of things piling up on you that it's like when is gonna be a good moment for Haley to just kind of like speak her truth and you've done it a couple times on the internet which I think people were like oh fuck yes like Haley let's go which we're gonna get into well I think based on what you're saying like one of the I think issues with that is that then you get stuck having to explain yourself for every little thing and
I had to get over that because I wasn't a place at one point where I felt like I wanted to like explain the narrative and explain myself and like that's also exhausting. So if it's like every single time I do an interview or if I say something and there's gonna be something that people are like
why would she say that or like she's wrong for saying that or that doesn't make sense you said marriage is hard work and then I said that everybody was like that's not a good sign if you think that it's like hard like it's like no matter what I say I'm always going to have to be explaining myself to people which is why I actually hate doing interviews where they're like it's like a blurb of a longer thing that I said that's just so out of context and then I'm going to feel like
I'm explaining myself. What marriage doesn't have ups and downs and in a good way you get. But also what I meant when I said hard work is just like, there's compromise, there's sacrifice. I feel that way in most relationships in my life, even friendships, even work relationships, like they can be tough sometimes. I didn't mean it just overall. Yeah.
It's hard and it sucks. Like, that's not what I'm saying at all. It's literally the best thing ever. The whole sentence of what I said was like, he's my best friend. I love coming home to him, but like, yeah, it takes work because I'm 25 years old and I have a life and I have a career and I have my own friends. So trying to balance making my wants and needs and hopes and dreams work.
Well, meshing my life with another human who has his hopes and dreams and career and like we're busy people and we want to be in a marriage. So we're making it work and sometimes it's hard. How is that not make sense? People don't want it to make sense. People really want that statement to be like the marriage is ending. Like here we go. But people have been saying that since the beginning. So that's why at this point I'm not as I was more sensitive about it. I don't really feel sensitive about it now because I'm just like,
No matter what I say, it's like the marriage is ending. Every single time I say something about
My own relationship, it's like, there's something wrong with it. So it's like, I just don't care. People have been saying this now for four years. So let's get into it. You are married. I started sticking my feet. You're like, oh fuck. Here you go, Alex, just go. She's literally burrowing in. Look at my hands. Oh my God, Haley. Okay. You married one of the most famous people on the planet, Justin Bieber. What are the best parts about being married to Justin? Well, I think the best parts are that
he's my best friend and there's nothing better than being with the person that makes you smile the most makes you laugh the most like he's just literally the best human to me ever and I think that he's a person who has been through a lot and shouldn't
have gotten gotten to the other side of a lot of what he's been through and he has and he's overcome so many different things in his life for being famous so young and the fact that he's as normal as he is he's literally just to me I feel like he's a very like normal regular guy I guarantee you someone takes this and they like fucking chop it up and make it sound like I said something different
Um, but I've known him for a very long time. We were friends for a long time before anything else and like, I just love him. You can see it with the two of you, even though we only see stuff. I mean, I remember when I saw you guys on the beach in Santa Barbara and
I grew up, I watched Justin Bieber. I was like, oh, I didn't know what to expect. I was definitely intimidated by you guys because we'd only met once. I was like, wait, why are they so normal? Justin's like, hey, what's up? Give me a hug. You're like, what are you guys doing on your trip? I'm like, you guys are so, so normal for how crazy your life is. And it's unfortunate that people don't get to see that side of you guys. Yeah. He's also like, he just has the kindest, sweetest, most like gentle heart and soul to me. And I've always thought that about him.
obviously he's gone through phases in his life where he was being you know a little out there I didn't want to say like fuck boy because it's like not yeah but like yes and no I don't know how to describe it but like he was just in a different space in his life and was like I think ultimately when people are like acting out it's just because they're hurting and he was just in a space in his life I mean we're all hurting every single day but I think sometimes we go through a season where it's like we're hurting a lot more we're going through a lot more so we're just
a different version of ourself. That's not really who we are. Um, but like to me, he's just the best, the most fun, like I have the most fun with him. He understands me more than anybody ever has in my whole life. And I think that goes both ways. And he's just my guy. How has being married to someone with that level of fame impacted your identity?
Where do I start? Well, I think even for starters, even me talking about him or talking about our relationship, people will take that and be like, all she ever talks about is her relationship with him. And even something like that, I'm just like, well, we are married. And he's a huge part of my life. And obviously, people are very interested in like,
our life together and he is a humongous public figure so it's like it's a little bit unavoidable at times and I do try to you know have my own thing but it's like our lives are completely messed together so I don't know like what do you want from me like
Of course people are gonna ask me about it. They're gonna ask him about it Like I just don't see how that's like avoidable and sometimes it is because it's just not necessary to talk about but like Even in a situation like this. Yeah, we're married. I have his last name Like I don't know how I'm supposed to avoid like talking about my life like that's my life this person that you
happen to be married to, happens to also be one of the most famous people in the world. Nobody would be asking me about him if he was someone who had a different type of job. A nine to five. The reality is that it is what it is. From your point of view, can you explain why the internet was so angry over your engagement to Justin?
First of all, I think one thing is that we're both really young. That's, I think honestly that's for starters, which I totally understand when we got engaged. I was 21 and he was 24. Yeah, 24 and 21. I personally never thought I was going to get married that young. Like I always thought I would be maybe getting married now and I'm 25 now and I still think I'm really young.
I think the timing was obviously very rapid and very fast, which now being four years past that looking back in it, I totally get it. I'm like, yeah, that seemed really drastic and really crazy because, but that was what we felt.
was a decision between the two of us and it felt correct for the two of us at the time and clearly we were right because here we are four years later. And I think just given the timeline of like where he was at before we got back together and what was going on and there was just a lot happening. Yeah.
But I will say too like the only people that really know the truth of the situation and what the timeline really was and how it happened and how it went down are like me and him. Perception is a really tricky thing because when you're watching something from the outside you can see it one way when it may not really be the reality of what happened behind closed doors and that's a big challenge I think of being somebody who is in the spotlight or being famous is that
I know how we got to where we got, period. Like that's, I just know how it happened. I was there and I was living it every day. So there's just, yeah, there's a lot that I can understand why people were so like, what is going on? Like this seems crazy.
was in a very public relationship. They were kids, people were obsessed with the idea of them. People were confused on the timeline you're talking about of like, is she a homewrecker? So I guess my question is, Haley, were you ever with Justin romantically at the same time as her? No, not one time. When him and I started hanging out like, okay, let's just put it this way.
When him and I ever started like hooking up or like anything of that sort, he was not ever in a relationship ever at any point. I would never, it's not my character to mess with someone's relationship. I would just never do that. I was raised better than that. I'm not interested in doing that and I never was. I think that
There are situations where you can still kind of have like back and forth with someone, but even that was not the situation. Like I can say, period point blank, I was never with him when he was in a relationship with anybody. That's the end of it. And I had been involved with him since I was 18. The timeline
Also that I think sometimes is in question of like us getting together and getting engaged and Him having been spending time with his ex before that This is so crazy. I've literally never talked about this ever I understand again how it looks from the outside and there's a lot of perception there, but That was a situation where I I know for a fact that
It was the right thing for them to close that door. They were not in a relationship at that time. But of course, there's a very long history there and it's not my relationship. It has nothing to do with me. So I respect that a lot, but I know that it closed a chapter and I think it was the best thing that could have happened for him to move on and
be engaged and get married and like move on with with his life in that way. And it's hard for me to talk about this because I don't want to talk on either one of their behalf again because it was their relationship and I honestly respect that very deeply. But I just know
what was going on when we got back together. And I know what had to happen for that to come back together in a healthy way. And I think it was the most healthy, mature decision that he could have made. And I respect that as a woman, I would never want to get into a relationship with someone and be engaged to them and be getting married to them. And thinking the back of my mind, I wonder, like,
if that was really like closed for you. And like, and I know for a fact that the reason we were able to get back together was because it was very much completely closed. And that is respectful to me. So let's talk about your experience with there's been a lot of hate on the internet. I know you don't like to talk about this stuff, but you've never. It literally makes me so uncomfortable. Yeah, I'm like, can't stop moving and I'm like crawling because I just feel like,
there's like a little bit of that like anxiety of like people will probably take it the wrong way or like I just don't want to say something that is like being disrespectful or like bringing up something that can like stir up feelings for someone that like I know that we're just all so far moved on from like
any type of drama and I'm so happy for that so like I get nervous about talking about it because I'm like I don't want to like stir anything up or like bring anything up that is going to be like a thing or and I get that and I think the reason unfortunately is you guys aren't completely normal human beings there is a complete world out there that is obsessed with all of you in different ways and then there are people that
hate you for who your husband dated back in his past. Take me through how your husband's past relationship still to this day affects what people are saying about you and to you on the internet. Well, I think like one of the things that we already just covered is that like the timeline of things and like a lot of the hate and the perpetuation comes from like, Oh, you stole him.
And I guess maybe that just comes from the fact that they wished that he had ended up with someone else, and that's fine. You can wish that all you want, but that's just not the case. In December of 2020, a person posted a video encouraging haters to comment on your Instagram live with nasty messages announcing their allegiance for Justin's ex, and just fully harassing you on your live. What do you remember feeling
on that Instagram live when you saw those comments start popping up.
I don't, well, I think there's like a certain like almost like numbness that you get where you just like, you just know what's going to happen. It still happens to this day. This is, you're talking about something that was two years ago now, almost three. And it's something that's, if I was to go live on Instagram right now, it would still be happening probably less, which is nice, but you just reach a point where you're just like, you have to just like ignore it and be like, okay.
And didn't Justin came publicly to your defense and like said something well because I know that for him that's hurtful because
If we have moved on, why can't you? Like that's kind of just the whole thought process of like, it's just hurtful. It's hurtful, it's bullying. It brings me back to the Rob Pattinson and Kristen Stewart, the Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth. Their first love, right? And people are obsessed, I feel like with this concept of like your first relationship, somehow it's being pushed onto you as like, get the fuck out of the way, like let them get back and you're like,
If I wasn't even here, that's not gonna happen. So let us just live our lives and how you go find your partner and you be happy, but it's hard. I have had this conversation with a psychiatrist, with a therapist before, because I'm just like, I hate comparison. The whole point of this conversation is that we're talking about how my relationship is being compared to something else, or I'm being compared to another woman.
You know, get the fuck out of the way, it's type of a thing. So, where I'm at and the position I'm in, it's not for everybody, but everybody has a purpose. But that doesn't necessarily mean that you're supposed to also be 25 and married and doing this or... I'm... I could have nothing figured out right now if...
in an alternate situation, in an alternate life. And I think Hayley, he was America's bad boy sweetheart. And so I think there's ownership people and fans feel over him. There is, there are totallys and there's also this like, why is it you? There's so much of that that I feel like, why you? Though.
Like, and I'm like, I don't know. Right, like I just fell in love, he fell in love. We fell in love and like, I think there was times where like, I'd be, I can confidently say, I don't think we knew it was gonna be each other several times. So like, I can't say that, yes, at 18 years old, I knew 100% that that was my husband. I don't fucking, I didn't fucking know. You almost can't live up to the idea of who they think belongs with him. It would have, nobody would have,
this is the thing if it was any if it was another person it's like because so many people have adored him for so long nobody in their mind would have ever been like the person and here's the thing too is like we're talking about a lot of like the negative side of it there's also so many people who have made me feel so embraced and so encouraged and so loved and
Obviously it has brought me a newfound audience and a newfound, um, you know
I want to give credit also to the people who have supported and been so kind and so amazing and so great. I think everyone in the world almost knows that you have been bullied and harassed on the internet for almost four years now. That's a fact. But I do think it has changed. I will give credit to say that I do think that four years ago, three years ago, two and a half years ago,
Because of how intense it was, it made me just very like close it off and like not wanna share anything really of myself on the internet. I didn't really wanna be open. I would get a pit in my stomach doing interviews because I'm just like, I can't like, it's like being like traumatized kind of like you're too scared to like speak or open yourself up or say the wrong thing. And then you start to become, I had moments where I felt like I was becoming very like,
Not like a robot, but I had to be very meticulous about what I was saying and very agreeable and can't say the wrong thing. And it just starts to become this very weird way of feeling where you feel like you just can't be expressive and you can't be yourself. And then that was where it came in with wanting to do YouTube and trying to have a space within this age of the internet and this age of social media where I can say,
This is who I actually am. Take it or leave it like me or not. This is who I am. And I felt like actually taking this step to, even though at times it was really uncomfortable for me, taking the step of being like, I'm proud of who I am. And this is my personality. And like, this is going to sound probably so corny, but like to me, I've always felt like I was just like,
A girl from fucking New York. Oh my god, this is gonna sound so cringe. I grew up, to me, I felt like very normal. And like, I am from a small town called Nayak. That is like a suburb of New York City.
and I woke up every day and like I was homeschooled and like did ballet and like to me I feel like I've remained that same person of course life has changed drastically but like at the core I feel like I am proud of who I am at the core like I know I've always been that same person and I feel very rooted and grounded and I grew up very grounded and rooted and of course I
came from a famous family. Everybody, you know, that's the reality of my life. Can't change that either. And I just feel like, again, people didn't really like know me and know my story and know the kind of person I was. Like, people don't know what kind of friend I am. They don't know what kind of daughter I am. They don't know what kind of sister I am. Like, but I know.
you are starting to share more and even in the video that you made where you basically ask people to stop harassing you and you're like, leave me alone. Just leave me alone. I was like half joking, but I was being half serious. Like it was supposed to be something that was like light and funny, but I was also being serious because I like woke up one day and I was like, I
can't believe we're still doing this because what you like read a comment yeah like I was I which again like I have to stop myself from doing all the time because we know that the internet is a toxic hole and like comments are a toxic hole but I was just like curious about something and then I'm like reading I'm like are we still talking about this like we're getting to
This has been, it's been years now, like four years we've been together, like, come on. Let it go. Let's all evolve together. Let's hold hands and really like, okay, we're done. Like, that's how I wanted to, that's how I felt in that moment. I was like, are we serious that this is what we're still doing? Like,
We're still going to harass me about this, this shit. There is so much that I could have said. There was so much that I at times was like this close to saying and I just felt like there's so there's so many things that were happening where it's also like
There is a time and a place and there's also a time and a place to let other people express what they need to express and like go through their feelings and emotions and like I just felt like there were certain times if I was going to say something it was
going to make things way worse and not be beneficial. Again, it was going to be my word against someone else's against a bunch of other people and it would just not be beneficial.
I've struggled with that for a long time. I would talk to my therapist and be like, but it's not fair that people think that this is what happened when this is really what happened. And then you get into a cycle of, again, feeling the need to explain yourself. And for me, it's not even about explaining myself. It's about people knowing the truth.
Because there's a truth. There is actually the truth of something that happened and there's the truth of what didn't happen. So I think for me, when people, you know, make up stories about me online, I'm just like, but that's not what happened. That's not the truth. Is the crux of it the home wrecker thing? Like, is that what really bothers you? I think there's a lot of timing and timeline stuff that like just wasn't true and
That's also just the internet making up their stories and like taking little bits and pieces of something they're looking at from the outside. And by the way, it's not even, it's so many different things. The internet can make up, they can literally sit here and say that I threw up on you. But that's not, and you can sit there and say, Haley threw up on me. It was really crazy. And then I would read that on TMZ and I'd be like, that did not happen. Do you know what I'm saying? There's just stuff that happens all the time that I'm like, hello?
Can you explain what happened when you were taking photos on the red carpet with your husband at the Met Gala in 2021? Oh, and people were screaming. So yes, I could hear everyone screaming. And again, I think there's a certain part of you that has a numbness of just like, I was like really surprised.
I could kind of hear it, but I didn't know if that's what was really going on until I saw the video after. The whole thing of everybody being like, oh, he's trying to tell her not to cry. That was not true. It wasn't making me cry.
Although it's a very disrespectful thing to do towards anybody. I felt like I had something in my eye. See, that's just what goes to show you how out of context things can be seen when he's like trying to help me. I'm like, I feel like there's something in my eye. Do you see something in my eye? And I'm going like this. And he's like, no, no, no, you're good.
And as this is happening, everyone's chanting. I don't, was it their, was it, I don't even know if it was their relationship name or just her name. They were checking out you both. So then you take the sunglasses. Yeah. And the sunglasses were just part of my look. They were just part of my look. I knew I was going to wear the sunglasses regardless on the carpet for some photos and then some without. Um, but yeah, I did hear people yelling.
I, it wasn't making me almost cry. Um, I think seeing the video back after made me like, damn, like that sucks that that's the energy people are like putting out into like that you would even spend your time.
camping out, standing outside and doing that. I just felt like it was, it was disrespectful to me, to my relationship. It just was period the end. But I think I've endured so much disrespect. And I still do to this day that there was like a part of me that was just like, another day, another negative slay.
It's like so depressing. I know. That's like a very public example. I feel like of you having to go through that. Is there anything that comes to mind that was supposed to be a happy moment for you, for you and Justin, whatever? And it was ruined by harassment or bullying or this concept of his past. They've never ruined anything for me.
They've never, they've never, they're not ruining my life. They're not ruining my happiness. And that I think is really the win of the whole thing. You're actually not taking anything away from me. So that's what I just keep stepping forward with. It's like, you can't take this away from me. You cannot take away my happiness, my relationship, my business, my career. Like you just, you can't, you can try and you can be mad about it, but
It doesn't change anything is my point. Haley, what do you think the internet wants you to do? I don't know. I would shit don't know. Like if you were trying to get under it, like I'm like sometimes I joke around I'm like would they be happy if I like just moved away and like locked myself in a house and just like
I don't know. I don't know what the goal is. That's what's so funny is I'm just like, I don't try to understand like what is the goal. I think I would say it's probably a lot of the time it's a tent. I think it's a tension. I think a lot of people sometimes they do things and they say things in hopes to get a response out of you and to get a rise. And I've seen it happen with a lot of other people too. Like you're ugly and then like you respond and you're like, I wish you the best. Like I'm sorry you feel that way. And they're like, Oh my God, queen. I'm sorry. I actually love you. I was just being silly.
You're like, that was? That wasn't funny. That wasn't funny at all. Calling me ugly, like, I guess it is kind of funny, because look at you, so fuck off. No, it's just like, what was your point? So then the point is like they get the attention that they thought, I think a lot of people think you'll not respond. And I've had that happen before too. I didn't think you would see it, I'm sorry. And I'm like, so why are you saying? Are you just bored? I'm like, I don't know. Can you try to explain? What does it feel like?
to have millions of people against your relationship. Like what does that feel like on a day to day basis to you? I guess the biggest thing is like, I think it's sad. I think it's sad to be against someone's happiness. I think it's sad to not wish somebody well.
Who am I supposed to be? That would be acceptable. And then that means that I'm living for other people. And that means that I'm being a people pleaser, which I struggle with a lot. I do want people to like me. It does bother me when people just don't like me simply because of the rumors they've heard or the ideas they've come up with or things that they've seen. Like, it makes me sad. But I think I've had to come to the point in the realization of like,
There is no way that you exist as a person, especially not as a person with a platform or in the public eye, where everybody loves you. And that's even in life in general, even if I was just in a normal situation,
Not everybody's going to like you. I'm just existing in front of a lot of people. So it's very easy to make up your, like make decisions about how you feel about someone, especially when there's so much access to look at them and see what they're doing and their social media and there's photos and there's just like life. So I don't know. I think that sometimes it feels really heavy. What has been your lowest moment since all of this began?
when things can get really dark and you can start having thoughts of like it not being worth it anymore or not wanting to be here anymore, which I have had before in the past and
coming out of that, I think it's really important. A support system is like the most important thing for sure. Maybe if you could talk about like the shame of having those feelings because I bet a lot of people listening have had those thoughts and your
You're really alone with them and how to even comprehend them is a process in itself. Sometimes I don't think we can comprehend them on our own because then you just throw yourself back into a vicious cycle. I do think sometimes you need to express it and you need to go to someone who is going to feel safe for you and support you in those thoughts.
not make you feel like you're crazy or that you're wrong for feeling dark and deep and heavy. There's also this like kind of weird twisted thing where I'm like
I don't get to feel that way because I have an amazing life and I'm so blessed and I'm so fortunate. So like it's almost like my my dialogue in my head feels like get the fuck over it like you don't get to feel that way because there are people in this world that are that are really struggling and you're not like that's sometimes how I feel like I talk to myself because I'm like Get over it like you're fine that kind of a thing and I've had to really try to be
more gentle with myself and like allow myself. I'm somebody who like, I hate crying in front of people. I don't do it. Like, just don't like it. And it's been since I was a little kid and I've never understood. I mean, I've started to a little bit more in therapy and stuff, but I'm like, why do I find it so embarrassing to cry in front of people when it's like everybody cries and it's such a vulnerable thing? But I'm like, it feels so awkward and like cringe to me to cry.
in front of people and it's always been such an uncomfortable thing for me. So like, I have, when I say I'm like shy and stuff like, like I have been guarded emotionally in ways since I was like a little girl. So I think going through the process of also trying to understand why we have some of the tendencies we have since childhood, like what are the things that have happened to me when I was a little kid that have like brought me to the place of feeling like I have to have the self dialogue of like,
You don't get to feel that way. Get the fuck over it. People are way worse off than you, which is also like true. There are people who are going through a lot different struggles and different things, but it's the sense of lot invalidating the way that I feel. And I'm still working on that. And I'm 100% sure that I will be forever working on that.
In December, going into the new year, I went to this place that was a therapy intensive. I was there for seven days, no phone, literally therapy, like hours and hours a day. And that was something that we spoke about, about like tiptoeing around the way I feel or like not sticking up for myself because
again it kind of boils back to like I've never enjoyed confrontation and I think a lot of it comes from my mom is a very sweet woman who is just like an angel but she as far as I can remember she
Never liked confrontation and she I feel like didn't stick it up for herself and at times still to this day Doesn't say what she wants and is like I don't want to do this. I want to do that like she is a very just gentle kind of reserved pulled back woman and There's so much about her that I like super respect But I think it's just a pattern that I watched growing up of just she was just very
non confrontational. And there was a lot we didn't talk about there was subjects we danced around. And as I've, as I've gotten older and had open conversations with my mom and she's expressed things that have happened to her in her life and things that she's gone through that I never knew about it made me understand why she might be like that. But it's a, it's a pattern and it's like a learned behavior, I think a little bit that I am trying to
move past and work past to close out kind of the chapter of what everything we were discussing. What would you say to her fans? Like just coming from your heart, they're all sitting listening to you having an open mind. Let's pretend they had it. What would you say to her fans? I think I would say the first thing I would say is you're not obligated to like me, but
I believe that no matter what, there can always be mutual respect between people. And to me, that means
Just you don't have to say anything. You don't have to like me, but you don't have to say anything either because behind this person that you're looking at on a screen is a person with a brain and a heart and emotions and issues that I face and so do you and so does Alex and so does every single person in this room.
You just, yeah, I think just mutual respect and decency and know that what you say can have impact and know that, yeah, I guess that's what I would say. Oh my God, I think I would have been a little nastier, but I love it from you, Haley. That's why you are. I mean, what I want to say would be, no, I'm just kidding. No, like that, I always made the joke of like,
I think if I sat down with any of those people and they would walk away being like, you know what? I get it. Like, I respect her for that. I think we will always have more in common than we don't. That's like where everything comes from for me. So when I see people being nasty and like attacking me, I'm like, we probably like a lot of the same things. One of my last questions on this topic, because I'm just trying to get all of it just like, let's wrap it in a bow.
Yeah. So you never have to talk about this again. You're like, yeah, I wish. No, I literally never will. No, I'm like sweating. At any point did Justin or any, literally anyone ever ask his ex to help put an end to the harassment that her fans put you through. No.
What I will say is that she has been in this industry much longer than I have and maybe there's something that she knows about like it wouldn't fix anything. I think like a nice little heart on your TikTok could
end it all. The thing is too is like I think that like all everyone is just trying to like create separation even though there's clearly like not always separation. I have no expectation. I would never expect someone to do that for me like she doesn't owe me anything. I don't know neither of us owe anybody anything except like respect. I respect her a lot and
I think that like there's just no expectations. If that was something that she felt was necessary, then that would be amazing. But I just, yeah, I respect her. There's no drama personally. Have you guys ever spoken? Yes. And then like recently, no, I don't guess not recently, but like after your marriage. Yes. So that's why I'm like,
It's all respect. It's all love. That's also why I feel like, well, if everybody on our side knows what happened and we're good, and we could walk away from it with clarity and respect, then like
Right. That's fine. As long as you know you're good, that's really all that matters. Which had brought me a lot of peace. And I'm like, hey, we know what happened. It is what it is. You're never going to be able to, like, correct every narrative. And there's going to be new ones that come. It's never going to end. And that's why I get to the point where I'm like,
That's why I didn't speak about a lot of this stuff, because I'm like, there'll be something new. There'll probably be something new from this interview. Oh, of course. Then I'm just like, you know what I know it's gonna come from this interview? Hayley Bieber talking about sex. Great.
Haley Bieber. Yes. Welcome to Color Daddy. You're like, we've been sitting here for an hour. She's like, we're starting over. We're scrapping the whole thing. No. I need to give the fans what they want, right? We need to just give them a little taste, right? Walk me through.
walk me through step-by-step your sex with Justin Bieber. Oh my god. I was gonna try to do it so like so straight facey, like this girl's me fucking psycho. No, I was wondering, did anyone ever ask you about your sex life? No, actually. We're the first ones over here. I don't think so. Are you a morning sex or night sex people? More so night.
Me too. But I do like morning too. It's so funny because I talk about this stuff and the reason I get weird about talking about it is because I'm like my parents are gonna listen to this. There's something that feels so cringe about your parents. Hopefully they don't make it this far. Your parents are probably really progressive and like
True, Haley, but I grew up fully Catholic. Okay. So my parents, like, really, it, call her daddy really, like, I went from zero to like, oh my God, what is she doing? Yeah. But they get over it. This will see their introduction, like... Guys, I also have this theory that people like don't care about married people sex. I'm sorry, you two are the hottest people in the world. I feel like I'm like, I don't think anybody cares. Oh, I care. Okay, so your night sex people, we love that. Okay, this is so graphic, but I'm saying the words.
Okay. For the rest of your life, you have to pick one of the two. Okay. From Mr. Bieber. Are you going to be fingered or eaten out for the rest of your life? You can only take one. Hmm. That's very hard. Because I feel like it's always a combination. Has anyone ever tried to have a threesome with you? Like in our relationship? No. Would you be down? No. It's funny because
I feel like those ideas can be really fun and like sound really exciting. I think at the point that of inside of R, it doesn't work for the two of us. We personally like that wouldn't work for this. Because I think sometimes for some people it
It does. So I've so I've heard some people are in like open relationships and like, it works for a time, but I feel like in the end, it always doesn't end up working. So I think the second you make the decision to do that, there is never going back from that. And I just don't know that I would ever be willing to like, we've worked very hard. We've worked very hard to like be in the space that we're in now and like,
trusting each other, and there's such a beautiful trust and bond that I just don't think that's something I would be comfortable with. Or him, for that matter. Can you expand a little bit on how you guys built that trust and that bond? He's really honest, brutally honest, overly honest. I could ask him about any person, any past girl, anything, and he'd be like, oh yeah, like this, this, this, and this. He doesn't have a problem being explicit. And I think that made me trust him a lot because I'm like, there's nothing I don't know.
because you can tell when someone's being shady. And then when you have to go. If they dance around, they're like, he's had people like DM, and they'll be like, oh, like, show me the DMs. And they'll be like, do you think that this person's trying to be nice? Or you think this is weird? And I'm like, I think it's weird. No, it's like he knows. He's just saying, like,
Yeah, do you think like this person is like genuine because it'll come across like super friendly and I'm less like there's just no reason There's no reason you need to have a relationship. Yeah, yeah, but I'm also someone where like I really encourage female friendships because I think that you have to be able to have like healthy
Opposite sex relationships that are friendships or else you're like closing yourself off all the time and it's like But you're not like having Instagram models like walk around your house. No, of course I'm just saying like of course there's boundaries with everything But I'm just saying like don't be afraid to have girlfriends totally right because it's like if you can't it's like oh my god like if I could be like if I couldn't have friends that were guys I think it you control
what the limitations are in any relationship and any friendship and any work relationship. Like you can have self-restraint. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. Do you have people still in your DMs? No. You're like, I am just, I am just a mirror. I don't have people hitting me up like I'll slide in my DMs. Okay. Do you and Justin have the same favorite positions? I think so.
It's not like I'm like, I strictly like this one thing and he strictly likes another thing. Can you give us like one or two or five? It's always different. Okay, yeah. It's always something different. You're moving it around.
Yeah, well, no, I mean, like, one day it might be one thing, one day it might be another thing. Oh, I actually didn't even mean that too. I was like, you're doing 10 positions in one night. She's like, he's flipping you upside down one second. You guys are not set on one position. Like, you guys have a couple go to. No, no, no, no. I don't. I agree with my boyfriend. I have now like our go to like three. I feel like every couple has those like go to. Yeah. Do you want to give us one? And it can't be missionary. It's definitely not missionary.
I really like doggy style. You heard it here. That was beautiful, Haley. What is the sexiest thing Justin does to turn you on? You know, it can be so many different things. It can be like a connection thing. It can be a physical thing. For me, kissing is a big deal.
Like, that's a big thing for me. It always has been just like in my life before I was married. So I would say that is probably the most. What is the sexiest thing you do that turns him on? Or what's his thing that he always says like, oh God, like, hell, he like, he like gets him going? The connection point is very important to him of like, we could literally just be like laying down talking before and like just having like a really fun conversation. And like, that is really important for him. Yeah.
OK, I'm going to tell you something that I think is super sexy about you. That turns me on is voting. Yes. Voting is hot. Yes, voting is so sexy. Yeah, so sexy. Justin can't vote here. But oh, well, he'll be he'll be supportive of us both voting. OK, he's very and there are so many people that listen to this show.
And this airs in September. We have a huge election in November. And I just think it would be great to use the end of this episode and use this platform and our platform to just emphasize why it's important to vote and just how much everyone needs to get out there. So why is voting in this year's election important to you, Haley?
It's important to me because I think as everybody knows, we're in a very scary state in our country. We as women are living through a very terrifying reality right now. And I think what we've learned, what I took away in a big way from the overturn of Roe v. Wade was the people that we elect in our states, in our cities, in our counties,
They are so important. Um, and that was something that I was like, shit, like, this is really the reality. We got to get on it. Um, I felt very passionate at the last election about just,
please get him out of there. That was like, it felt like legit, like life or death, and it was in so many ways. And I still feel that even more now, because you've seen there's still so many terrible, scary things happening within our country. But I do think there's a chance for change. And I always think there's an opportunity for change, and there's an opportunity to
come together and stand up and make a difference. You've been open about the fact that people in your family have different political views than you. And I think that's probably the most relatable thing we'll talk about on the podcast today. And I think so many people can relate to that. How did you navigate that? Because it can get heated. Yeah, I was tricky, especially very personally, like my dad, my parents. It just got to a point where I found that we couldn't discuss it.
which I think is okay. I believe what I believe I am a fully formed woman now. 25 turning 26. I know what I believe in and what I don't. I know what I stand for and what I don't and
Obviously, it's disappointing that the people that raised you could think so differently than you and have such a different perception that sounds crazy and you're just like, how did I come from you then? I just don't get this. But it would, it just causes too much disturbance and turmoil and argumentative back and forth that it's just like, it just can't be talked about.
you're not gonna change people. And it's funny, because me and my sister have the same exact point of view, which is nice, because at least I'm like, at least I got you. At least, thank God. And then my mom, I'll try to talk to her about something. She's like, I'm from Brazil, so I'm like, okay. My mom's from Brazil, by the way. Oh my God. No, I appreciate that. I think it's always good to just one normalized people are gonna have different views, but I do think regardless, just get out and vote, because
It is so important this year specifically. For sure. And it's not something that I even, you know, the last election was super vocal about it. I plan to do that every single time. It's something that I'm passionate about for sure. So I appreciate you bringing it up.
Haley Bieber, thank you so much for coming on Call of Duty. I really appreciate you opening up. You don't do a lot of long form interviews. So I appreciate you trusting in sitting down. Of course. Thank you. I think I had an expectation where I know coming on here with you, you're going to go there. That's just the reality of the situation. I wouldn't have agreed to it if I didn't know that was the case here. I think there's a lot that I've avoided speaking on for a long time that it is my life. So I should be able to like
say what I want about it. You go there in certain contexts where it's like, I've not gone before and I think that that's like a personal challenge to myself that I want. I wanted to like push myself to like, you know, it's okay to be like, I was uncomfortable multiple times in this comfort. Are inside of the couch. Cause I was like, how many like protective body positions did I get into? I folded like a pretzel.
what happens in New York, Kelly? To be honest, I really was always a very level-headed young person, but I definitely had my moment where I went to New York, I started going out to the club, like, that's just what happens when, I mean, I guess it's not just what happens. You move to New York, you're going to the club, but I got introduced to nightlife and going out and drinking and, you know,
I definitely had my moments of that that was like my time probably like 18 to. I swear by the time I turned 21 I was like I'm over drinking. Do you remember the first time you got drunk? Was it a disaster? Yes. The first time I got drunk I was like oh my god this is so funny.
I was 16. Yeah, I think I was 16. And I used to be a dancer, like I've I said before. And I think we had like a recital and one of my friends who I danced with, she had like the best house for like sleepovers because she had like the dope basement. So we would go in the basement, shut the door. The parents would never come down. So we would take like all the alcohol and
just get drunk in the basement. The two of you? No, it was like multiple girls, like all the girls from our dance school. And the first time I really remembered getting drunk, I didn't throw up, which is surprising. That one time I didn't throw up. Throwing up multiple times from drinking. But that one time I remember crawling on the floor because I could not walk, could not stand up straight. And I was just mixing everything because I didn't know what to drink.
So I can never, if you made me smell Sarak birthday cake vodka right now. Sarak. Or like Svetka birthday cake. Pinnacle. Pinnacle. Pinnacle. And you and his mom. If you made me smell that right now, I would
Proceed to fall into a dark hole trigger me that I think that was what we were drinking and then like mixing it with like a beer and like a Mike's heart and like all this crazy like the fact that I didn't throw up is a miracle, but I remember waking up the next day and I was so hungover and I called my cousin who was like staying with us at the time who I was really close to and
I am really close to it. And I was like, hey, she was older than me. I was like, can you pick me up from her house? I don't want my mom to like pick me up because I had moments with my mom where I'd like go to a party or something. And I would have had like a couple of sips of a drink and she would get in the car and she would smell my breath. So I'm like, I can't have my mom pick me up right now. Like she's going to know. And my friends asked me to take all the empties and find somewhere to throw them out because she didn't want her mom to find them.
My cousin comes to get me, I take all the bags of empties, we pull over into an Olive Garden parking lot and find a dumpster, throw it in the dumpster and I'm like sitting in the car with her and I was like, I need you to take me to church. Like I have to go to youth group. That was like where I thought I needed to be because I felt so bad. I just felt bad. I felt like I did something so wrong. Like I got like wasted and I'm hungover. I just felt like hell. So I was like,
I need to go to, I need Jesus, like I need to go. And that's like legit how I felt. I was like, I gotta go to like church. And then I remember I went to like youth group and I was so hungover at the youth group that I was like, oh my God, I gotta go home. Like I can't be here right now. But that was like what my instinct was like, I gotta go.
I gotta go to youth group after I get hammered for the first time in the basement. It's a classic. Classic. I feel like you are the sweetest angel and then there's- No, that's what's so funny about like me moving into New York City. It would be like Friday night. I was like in up and down taking shots and then I was like going to church on city, which I think is like so fine. I don't see like a problem with that.
It's just the juxtaposition is really funny. The fact that you just referenced up and down in New York, I think I've had the most disgusting, scratching, amazing awful nights of my life in up and down, like 100% of your life, but also like, great night. Many, many a traumatizing moment and great moment in up and down. I had a couple awful nights at Marquis, but like up and down specifically, you're like, God bless. Thank you. Oh, Marquis. What was the one on the roof, PhD?
Hilly you're like a normal human going to the ratchet spots of obsessed from I lived that was where I was from I lived there Do you and Justin like go out and have fun still are you able to do that? Okay, we went out last night To Delilah Oh, there you go. Um, yeah, I think definitely both of us do not turn up the way we used to just simply because it's never worth the way you feel and
Absolutely not I feel like now I get hung over by accident like I wasn't trying to it was just like that last glass of wine You shouldn't have done it. I it's hard for me when I was 18 to 20. I felt like I was Drinking four times my body weight and was fine
A full like water bottle of vodka would be in my system and I'd be like, I'm cruising through the night. I would wake up the next day, give me a bacon, egg, and cheese and a blue Gatorade and I'm fine. That was... Hayley, did you like rip that from me? Because that is my order. Please and thank you. In New York, you go to a fucking bodega. I had to get a bagel and a blue... It had to be blue Gatorade though. Blue Gatorade, always. Yeah. The only. Bacon, egg, and cheese on a croissant. Blue Gatorade. You're back. You're fine. Thriving. Never been better.
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In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, we dive into Hailey & Justin Bieber and explore the fine line between couple goals and codependency and how to know when it might be a problem in your relationship.⠀We explore the complex nature of Justin Bieber and why he often acts like a man child, and why Hailey Bieber acts like a submissive spouse who continually dotes on him. Is it really couple goals if you’re too busy caring for your partner that you forget to take care of yourself?⠀We look at Hailey & Justin Bieber and dive into:⠀⇢ Why are so many relationships in today’s society fitting in this territory of being passionate and toxic at the same time?;⠀⇢ Hailey’s family history and how this has created a template for her relationship with Justin;⠀⇢ Why Justin is so dependant on Hailey; and ⠀⇢ Why Hailey has lost herself in return for supporting Justin.⠀Louise Rumball & Dr Tari Mack also go deeper into:⠀⇢ The psychology behind why we act like caregivers to our lovers and partners;⠀⇢ Why we need to set healthy boundaries; and⠀⇢ How you CAN reparent yourself;⠀Louise also shares her own personal dating stories, particularly:⠀⇢ Her experience of being in a codependent relationship; and⠀⇢ How she started to learn to set healthy boundaries.⠀Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify.⠀Connect with Louise on social: @iamlouiserumball⠀Connect with OPENHOUSE: @openhouselife⠀Connect with Dr Tari Mack: @drtarimack⠀Sign up to join the OPENHOUSE mailing list to receive first access to all workshops, courses and live events: www.thisisopenhouse.com⠀Book your own Relationship Reading with Dr Tari by quoting OPENHOUSE or Louise Rumball for your discount: www.drtarimack.com⠀–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– ⠀⠀Music Sources⠀Vibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud⠀Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-7YDBIGCXsY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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