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    #364 Lessons From The World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness with Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz

    enMay 23, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • The Importance of Quality Relationships in Our LivesGood relationships are essential for our happiness, health, and longevity. Neglecting important relationships can harm our well-being. Prioritizing whom we spend time with can improve our mental and physical health and reduce loneliness, a serious health risk.

      The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our life. High quality relationships are one of the biggest predictors of happiness, health, and longevity. The frequency and quality of our contact with other people matter, and neglecting important relationships can cause them to wither away. Good quality relationships provide stress relief, energy, and affirmation of our identity. Loneliness is a serious health risk and is linked to a similar magnitude as smoking and obesity. It is important to prioritize how and with whom we spend our time in order to improve our mental and physical health.

    • The Correlation Between Relationships and Physical HealthPositive relationships can significantly improve physical health by reducing stress and promoting healthy behavior changes, whereas loneliness and poor quality relationships can lead to multiple health problems.

      Studies have shown a strong correlation between good relationships and physical health. Good relationships help regulate negative emotions by reducing stress. Loneliness and social isolation can result in the body being in a constant fight or flight mode, elevating stress hormone levels which can gradually break down multiple body systems leading to multiple ailments. Caregivers of people with dementia have shown to have wounds that heal slower compared to those who are in good relationships. Wounds of people in positive marital relationships also heal quicker. Additionally, good quality relationships promote behavior changes such as healthy living. Poor quality relationships, on the other hand, can be a source of stress, leading to multiple health problems.

    • The Hazards of a Toxic Marriage vs. DivorceA long-term study shows that a toxic marriage can be more detrimental to health than a divorce. The degree of acrimony in a relationship can lead to health breakdown over time. New methods such as audio and video taping and blood sampling have been added to the study.

      A 85-year-long study of human life suggests that a toxic, acrimonious marriage is more hazardous to health than divorce. The study, which began in 1938 and is the longest study of the same individuals to be conducted, has tracked the lives of 724 men, their spouses, and their children. The study has anecdotal evidence and research that suggests the degree of acrimony in a relationship has a lot to do with health breakdown over time. Marc Schulz and Robert Waldinger took over the study about 20 years ago and have brought in new methods such as audio and video taping and blood sampling for DNA and MRI scans.

    • The Power of Long-Term Studies and Personal Home Visits in Understanding the Human ConditionLong-term studies and personal home visits provide unique and valuable insights into human lives that traditional medical consultations cannot. Combining different methods of observation can lead to a deeper understanding of the human experience.

      Long-term studies that collect copious notes and interviews provide a 360-degree view into people's lives and reveal valuable insights about the human condition. Home visits and deep dives into individuals' lives provide unique perspectives that traditional medical consultations cannot offer. Breaking down silos and combining different ways of knowing the same thing can lead to greater richness and understanding of human experience.

    • Investing in Relationships and Taking Care of Our Bodies for a Happy, Healthy LifeBuilding strong, meaningful relationships and prioritizing self-care are crucial for our overall well-being and happiness. Reflecting on our experiences can help us learn about ourselves and others as we navigate life's journey.

      Investing in relationships and taking care of our bodies are the key things we can learn from the study about the human experience. Loneliness is a significant problem in all Western countries, and having at least one or two securely attached relationships is essential to feel supported and cared for. The quality and frequency of our contact with other people are major predictors of our well-being, and relationships are front and center in living a happy, healthy, and long life. Understanding our own experiences through reflection and observation of our selves is important to learn about ourselves and others. Ultimately, the human experience is a story of ups and downs, our hero's journey, and the relationships we build along the way.

    • The Health Risks of Loneliness and the Importance of FriendshipsLoneliness can have severe health impacts and should be considered as important as factors like exercise and blood sugar. We need to intentionally invest time in nurturing relationships, especially friendships, to avoid distancing and maintain social fitness.

      Loneliness is a serious health risk that is comparable to smoking and obesity, yet we often overlook the importance of relationships in our overall health. Relationships cannot be measured in the same way as things like blood sugar or exercise and require intentional effort to nurture. Friendships, in particular, are important but are susceptible to distancing if we do not exercise our social fitness by spending time with those who matter to us. In our tech-savvy world filled with distractions, it is critical to harvest our time for what is most important, including investing in our relationships with the people we choose to be friends with.

    • The Value of Maintaining Friendships and Balancing Work and Social LifeHaving strong relationships is crucial, even when life gets challenging. Social media can distort our expectations of success and happiness. Prioritizing time off and valuing connections can lead to a more balanced life.

      Maintaining good friendships throughout life is important, but can be especially difficult during times of transitions or competing responsibilities. Real life stories demonstrate that it's never too late to develop and strengthen connections with others. Our perception of success and happiness can be influenced by the curated lives presented on social media, but it's important to remember that there are trade-offs and challenges in everyone's lives. Quantifying our connections is difficult and we can become distracted by trying to measure them. Cultures that prioritize relationships and have built-in time off can serve as examples for the importance of balancing work and social life.

    • The Importance of Disconnecting and Focusing on OthersTake time to step away from technology and distractions, engage in activities that promote presence and connection with others. Cultivate compassion through community and deepen relationships for a more fulfilling life.

      In a world dominated by technology and distractions, it is important to build mechanisms to switch off and focus on those around us. The concept of the Sabbath, Zen retreats, and other activities that allow for a state of flow and complete absorption can be incredibly nourishing and energizing. Such practices help us cultivate an ability to be present and focus on others, bringing attention and interest to our relationships. By stepping outside of our lives and doing something together in community, we can experience a natural arising of compassion for others, which can lead to deeper connections and thriving throughout life.

    • The Power of Being Present and Attentive in RelationshipsBeing attentive to our partners and social circle is crucial for our social fitness. Listing the people who populate our social universe and reflecting on the frequency and energizing nature of our relationships can help us make proactive changes. Cherish and nurture close friendships that energize us.

      Being present and attentive in our relationships can have a profound impact, as seen in the example of Leo DeMarco and the research on couples. It is more important for our partners to show interest in our experiences than to figure out what's going on in our heads. The ability to give attention to people is crucial in our social fitness, and an exercise like listing the 10 people who populate the center of our social universe can be illuminating. The chart with four quadrants based on the frequency and energizing/depleting nature of our relationships can help us reflect on who's important in our lives and make proactive changes. It's essential to cherish and nurture close friendships that energize us as we navigate life's ups and downs.

    • Prioritizing Relationships: The Importance of Reflection and BalanceTake stock of your relationships regularly to ensure balance. Modeling caring behaviors is crucial for children. Don't neglect loved ones in the pursuit of work. Avoid future regrets by prioritizing the people in your life.

      It's important to be intentional with our relationships and regularly reflect on how we are prioritizing them. Caregiving responsibilities and neglecting other aspects of life may come with a cost, so it's important to ensure balance. Modeling caring behavior is important for children to witness. Many people regret not spending enough time with loved ones and prioritize work too much. By taking the pulse on our relationships, we can start to make changes and avoid future regrets.

    • The Importance of Connection and Community for Mental WellbeingConnecting with loved ones and building a supportive community can bring more happiness and fulfillment to our lives than living individualistic lifestyles. Take time to prioritize relationships and social connections.

      The regrets of the dying commonly include not spending enough time with loved ones and not allowing themselves to be happy, according to Dr. Rangan Chatterjee and Robert Waldinger. While women may regret caring too much about others' opinions, men often wish they had been kinder to important people in their lives. Despite gender differences in communication, men and women both need connections with others. Living an individualistic life, typical in Western society, is not supporting our mental wellbeing. Elliot Kipchoge, the fastest marathon runner in history, trains with others in Kenya, demonstrating the importance of community and social connection.

    • Reevaluating Relationships in the Online WorldWhile online interactions have some benefits, losing informal in-person conversations and activities can negatively impact our health and happiness. Prioritize in-person connections for overall well-being.

      The pandemic has forced many activities to move online, but we must be careful about how much we let go of to save time. Relationships are the most important thing for our health and happiness, and the loss of informal interactions such as water cooler banter and shared activities can be detrimental. While there are some benefits to remote interactions, such as time-saving, emotional interactions are filtered on screens and basic human connections like eye contact are lost. We must be aware of the limitations of the online world and make an effort to prioritize in-person connections for overall well-being.

    • The Importance of Navigating Relationships in a Technology-Driven World.Technology can benefit and challenge relationships, and it's crucial to evaluate them and take steps to grow and engage in them differently. Toxic family dynamics can be hard to deal with, but it's important to understand and appreciate difficult relationships while pruning toxic ones.

      The use of technology to connect people brought great benefits during the pandemic, but it also poses challenges. Additionally, relationships can be energizing or depleting, and it's crucial to evaluate them and take steps to grow and engage in them differently. Toxic family dynamics can be hard to deal with, but it's important to understand what's going on in their lives and take steps to appreciate the difficult relationships. The legacy of toxic family dynamics includes a sense that the world isn't a safe place. Pruning toxic relationships may be necessary, but it's equally important to grow and learn new ways of engaging in relationships.

    • The Significance of Non-Familial Relationships for Our Well-BeingBuilding intentional connections with a variety of people can provide a sense of comfort and understanding, and investing in multiple relationships can lead to different experiences and self-discovery. Don't overlook the importance of these relationships in your life.

      The importance of finding secure attachments and meaningful relationships outside of our families cannot be overstated. People may not always be reliable, but seeking intentional connections with those who don't fit certain molds can drastically improve our sense of comfort and well-being. Intimacy is about being known and understood, and we can find that in a variety of relationships, not just with romantic partners. Investing in a collection of relationships rather than just one can also provide us with different experiences and bring out different parts of ourselves. Don't neglect the importance of other relationships in your life.

    • The Importance of Multiple Relationships for a Flourishing LifeGood relationships enable growth, require accepting impermanence, evaluating ideals, and embracing messiness for healthy, lasting connections.

      Having multiple relationships with different people is not a sign of a bad primary relationship, but rather a mark of secure attachment and flourishing. Good relationships enable people to have new experiences, take risks, and support each other in evolving and changing times. Accepting the impermanence of every moment, evaluating our ideals, and embracing the messiness of being in a relationship are also significant aspects of cultivating healthy, lasting relationships.

    • The Importance of Social Fitness: Teaching Children Emotional IntelligenceSocio-emotional learning (SEL) curricula in schools help kids understand emotions and navigate conflicts through better communication. Prioritizing social fitness in education leads to better-behaved, happier children and improved academic performance.

      In today's world, electronic communication is preferred over real-life conversations. This can lead to social and emotional unintelligence, making it difficult to navigate through conflicts and relationships. Children need to learn social fitness just like they learn physical fitness. Socio-emotional learning (SEL) curricula are being introduced in schools to help children understand emotions and resolve conflicts through better communication. SEL not only leads to better-behaved and happier children but also improves their academic performance. It is essential to prioritize social fitness in our education system and teach children the importance of healthy relationships.

    • The Impact of Relationships and Emotional Education on Health.Improving emotional well-being and communication in relationships can improve cognitive health, reduce stress, and lead to healthier lifestyle choices. Acknowledging and managing emotions through communication can prevent emotional spillover and strengthen relationships. Investing in emotional education leads to a well-rounded, happy, and healthy life.

      The quality of our relationships and emotional education have a significant impact on our physical and cognitive health. By cultivating emotional wellbeing and improving the quality of our relationships, we are likely to free up our brains to do cognitive work better, tolerate frustration, and improve lifestyle choices. Communication is key to prevent emotional spillover and manage our emotions effectively. Lack of communication leads to assumptions and inferences that often result in relationship problems. Acknowledging our feelings and communicating them to the people around us can help manage our emotions and prevent emotional spillover. Understanding the interconnectedness of various aspects of our lives and investing in emotional education can help us become well-rounded, happy, and healthy individuals.

    • Improving Your Social Life Through Relationship Assessment and GrowthTake steps to strengthen your relationships by listing important people in your life and assessing their effect on your energy, practicing generosity, learning new ways to interact, and being curious about your partner's experiences and feelings.

      In the book 'Social Fitness', there is a practical exercise of listing down 10 important people in your life and plotting them on a chart based on their frequency and energizing or depleting effect. This exercise can help identify relationships that need work. Additionally, practicing generosity, learning new dance steps in relationships, and having radical curiosity can improve relationships. Generosity not only benefits the receiver but also gives emotional and physical benefits to the giver. Learning new dance steps involves developing new ways of interacting with a partner, which can help relationships evolve over time. Being radically curious means being open to learning new things about a partner and asking questions that can deepen your connection. All of these tools can lead to a happier and healthier social life.

    • Adapting and Growing Relationships through Curiosity and SupportRelationships require adaptation and growth. Embrace impermanence and let go of the false ideal of perfection. Use Zen teachings of radical curiosity and relieving suffering to enhance personal and professional relationships.

      Relationships, like people, change over time. It's important to find ways to adapt and grow together, being curious and supportive of each other's new endeavors. A key to successful relationships is to let go of the false ideal of perfection and embrace impermanence. Zen teachings of radical curiosity and relieving suffering can enhance all aspects of life, including personal and professional relationships.

    • Finding a balance between achievement and relationshipsIt's possible to prioritize meaningful activities while maintaining important relationships, but it's important to constantly work towards balance and being of use to others. We never fully figure out the perfect balance, so mindfulness is essential.

      Achievement and meaning can often be in conflict with important relationships, but it's possible to lean into meaningful activities without depriving oneself of connections with others. The key is to find a balance that works for individuals and their circumstances. Many people at the end of their lives regret not spending enough time with their loved ones. However, it's important to note that we never fully figure out the perfect balance between achievement and relationships. It's essential to maintain mindfulness of how much we don't know and constantly work towards being of use and relieving suffering where possible.

    • The Myths and Realities of Finding Life's Perfect BalanceAchieving balance is not a one-time task, but an ongoing process of self-reflection and reassessment. Prioritizing alignment, contentment, and control, as well as consciously engaging with technology, are critical steps toward long-term happiness.

      Finding the perfect balance in life is a myth. Instead, it's important to focus on constantly balancing, reassessing, and self-reflecting by prioritizing our core happiness stool. The three legs of the stool are alignment, contentment, and control, which are all necessary for long-term happiness. Additionally, we must be mindful of the way we use technology and actively engage with it instead of passively consuming it. By regularly checking in with ourselves and monitoring how we feel after using technology, we can prioritize activities that make us feel energized and hopeful. Overall, finding balance is a never-ending work in progress that requires constant evaluation and adjustment.

    • Actively Engage with Others to Balance Technology UseChecking in with loved ones can prevent negative effects of technology on relationships. Building strong relationships is essential across all cultures and fundamental to our well-being.

      Actively engage with others instead of passively consuming technology; check in with those around you to ensure your relationship with technology is not negatively impacting those close to you; basic relational needs are similar across cultures and vital to people's lives.

    • The Role of Self-Reflection and Relationships in FulfillmentSelf-reflection may not always be accurate, but multiple studies show that strong relationships are essential to a fulfilling life. Even small efforts to improve connections can have a significant impact.

      Self-reflection is important, but bias may exist within studies as people self-reflecting and volunteering may affect results. However, many scientific studies support basic truths about the human condition. The signal from multiple studies around the world suggests the importance of relationships for a fulfilling life. It's never too late to improve relationships and connections, and small actions like reaching out can have a big impact.

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    #464 How To Use Food To Improve Your Mood, Overcome Anxiety and Protect Your Memory with Dr Georgia Ede

    #464 How To Use Food To Improve Your Mood, Overcome Anxiety and Protect Your Memory with Dr Georgia Ede

    Over one billion people worldwide have some type of mental health diagnosis - a statistic that suggests the current approach to treating these conditions may not be enough. For those struggling, perhaps despite their medication, it can feel easy to lose hope of feeling well again. 

    In this conversation, I speak to someone who has been a psychiatrist for more than 25 years and who for many years, felt that her impact on patients was limited until she learned about the incredible healing power of food. 

     

    Dr Georgia Ede is a Harvard trained, board certified psychiatrist specialising in nutritional and metabolic psychiatry. Her 25 years of clinical experience includes 12 years at Smith College and Harvard University Health Services, where she was the first person to offer students nutrition-based approaches as an alternative to psychiatric medication.

     

    She co-authored the first inpatient study of the ketogenic diet for treatment-resistant mental illness and is the author of the wonderful new book Change Your Diet, Change Your Mind: A Powerful Plan to Improve Mood, Overcome Anxiety and Protect Memory for a Lifetime of Optimal Mental Health.

     

    Georgia explains that, almost unknowingly, many of us have been feeding our brains improperly for our entire lives. We explore what she considers to be the five foods that have the most potential to be problematic for our brain health and how quickly we can start to feel the benefits if we are able to cut back on them. This highlights a key point that both Georgia and I are extremely passionate about - that, for most of us, in the modern day food environment, what we cut out of our diet is more important than what we put in.

     

    We talk about the relationship between blood glucose and brain glucose. Georgia outlines the whole foods that Georgia believes can be problematic, especially if we are having problems with our mood or have a mental health diagnosis. We also discuss why Georgia believes that the Mediterranean diet - whilst better than the Standard Western Diet is not optimal, and we cover Georgia’s clinical research about the potential benefits of ketogenic diets in treating mental health.

     

    Georgia is a wonderful physician who cares deeply about her patients and is helping many of them gain relief and sometimes remission from long standing mental health problems. That being said, there is no question that some of her recommendations may at first glance appear to controversial. 

     

    Throughout the conversation, I have tried my best to provide clarity and make sure that you clearly understand why Georgia is recommending the changes that she is. But, as you are listening, please do remember, that there is no one dietary approach that is going to work for everyone, at every stage in their life.

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    #463 BITESIZE | How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed | Oliver Burkeman

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    In a world of demands, distractions and endless to-do lists, sometimes we can feel overwhelmed by all the things we have to do or want to do leaving us feeling stressed or anxious.


    Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I’ll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests.


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    Oliver believes that many of the productivity hacks that we learn are a delusion. Time management doesn’t mean becoming more productive, it means deciding what to neglect.


    In this clip, he shares some of his tips to help overcome overwhelm, make better choices, and build a meaningful relationship with time.


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    #462 The Hidden Health Crisis: How It Affects All Of Us And What We Can Do About It with US Surgeon General Dr Vivek Murthy

    #462 The Hidden Health Crisis: How It Affects All Of Us And What We Can Do About It with US Surgeon General Dr Vivek Murthy

    Have you ever felt lonely, even when surrounded by people? Do you struggle to forge meaningful connections in today's fast-paced, technology-driven world? If so, you're not alone. Loneliness is on the rise in many countries around the world and more people than ever before are feeling alone and isolated.

    In today’s episode of my Feel Better Live More podcast, I'm joined for the second time by Vice Admiral Vivek H. Murthy - the 21st Surgeon General of the United States. He received his bachelor’s degree from Harvard, his medical degree from the Yale School of Medicine, and his Masters in Business Administration from the Yale School of Management. In his role, Dr Murthy helps to advance the health and wellbeing of all Americans and has worked to address several critical public health issues.

    In our conversation, we discuss the growing epidemic of loneliness and its impact on our health. Vivek shares profound insights on the far-reaching consequences of loneliness, which extend beyond mental health to include physical health problems, including an increased risk of stroke, dementia, heart disease, and premature death.

     

    We delve into the root causes of the loneliness epidemic, exploring how fundamental shifts in technology and culture have altered the way we connect with others. Vivek emphasises the importance of taking social risks, building communication skills, taking regular social media breaks, the life changing benefits of volunteering, and he talks about the idea that simply dedicating just 10-15 minutes per day, to work out our social muscle will very quickly start to deepen our connections with the world around us.

    This thought-provoking conversation is for anyone looking to foster authentic connections in an increasingly disconnected world and deepen the relationships that matter most.

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